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My Mom passed away today

She battled 4th stage breast Cancer for 2 1/2 years...I wanted to share this with all of you ....66 years old. The cancer spread to her lungs , bones , blood , and the past 7 months her brain...hospice took over and she just wanted to come home, Hospice staff was so nice and helpful and helped with whatever we needed.
One of the things that this community has done for me was keeping my mind off of things....flashing rom's tweaking this and that....so this site has done wonders for me....thanks
Peace and God bless
Michael J Festa

Aww man.
I'm really sorry to hear that
I hope everything works out for you.

My Mom went thru simular cancer and hospice assistance a few years back. Peace be with you and your family...take care.

I'm sorry to hear that. I feel for you. I hope life gets better for you.

My Condolences.
May she rest in peace and God bless her soul.

She is definitely in better place now. May she rest in peace.

sorry to hear that bro
May she rest in peace and may God give you the strength to move on....
take care

Thankyou
Thankyou so much....

My condolences mate
My Father passed away from cancer also some years ago
all the best for you and your family

I am so sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.

im sorry to hear that
but be strong okay!

you have my prayers!

My Condolences.
May she rest in peace and God bless her soul.

My condolences to you and your family brother. May god bless her kind soul and may he give you all the strength in these times

I'm really sorry for that!
My condolences!!

sincere condolences from myself!

My condolences to you and your family

I would like to say that time heals all.. But in the instance of a mother, It does not. You simply learn to deal with it better.
There is only one that you are born from, and if you were close, it will hurt always. The only thing I have found out that life does go on, and others around you need you.
Friends and Relatives will dissapear and lose contact, those here and those gone, but you must always consider that It is the only thing certain in life. It is a circle. you come, and you go.
In our beliefs, We believe that we are sent to endure life on this world, and then God calls us all back to be with him when it is your time.. be it short...or be it long..
Memorable dates will be hardest of all.. but you will get through.Those days will come.. and they will go.
You have our thoughts at this time.
Be Strong...But also have time to remember her...Do not put off your emotions.. It is best to talk to those around you, not act the "man that can handle it all" It helps no-one..and definatly not you in the long run.

You have my sympathy as someone who recently lost their mother to cancer also.

My prayers and condolences go out to you and to your family.

[UPDATE 2.20.11] Attn: DADDIEDIESEL Lives

One of our senior members, DaddieDiesel is in the hospital and has sustained some very serious injuries as of last night. I received a PM from his sister, as many of you may have, that he and his daughter were on a Daddy Daughter Valentine's Day date. They were walking across the road and were hit by a car. He shielded his little girl, and she isn't hurt too bad. When he took the blow for her, he took it hard. Many broken bones, a punctured lung, and a serious blow to the head when he hit the pavement. His condition is unknown, and he is currently unconscious in the ICU.
I don't know how many of you know him, but he's my friend. He has been there for me through all of my recent sadness... miscarriage and breakup of my long term relationship... calling and texting everyday just to make me laugh so that I don't fall apart. And even though I havent known him long... I feel like I've known him forever. He's my ChiTown, and I'm his ChuckTown. He's my friend, and I'm asking that you all please keep him, his little girl, and his entire family in your thoughts. Until he wakes up... I don't know what I'm gonna do without his daily calls, texts, and retarted ass picture mails he always sends just to make me smile. I'm not normally big on prayer... but I am now. For him.
UPDATE: FURTHER AND MORE DETAILED INFO FROM FAMILY ON DADDYDIESEL'S CONDITION
Dan sustained dislocations to his right hip and shoulder. 4broken ribs. Of which punctured his lung. Shattered his knee cap. Swelling in his brain from his head hitting so hard that it busted it open. His hand is badly swollen because he held his daughters head from also hitting the concrete. But after this mornings surgery we had a better outlook. He awoke for a bit confused at first because he didnt know where he was, but after we calmed him he immiediatly asked for his daughter.
Thank you for your kind words and let everyone know that he is doing better but not out of the woods yet. Still has a ton of swelling and it is still a concern.
Thank you for the prayers and either my sister or I will let you know more information as we can.
UPDATE 2.16.11:
Dan has been awake for longer periods. He still is unable to speak due to his breathing tube. When he does wake
he continues to be very confused and angry.It takes him a bit but he does realize where he is and seems to understand.
The first thing he does do is ask about his daughter by pointing to his tattoo of her. Which the doctors say is a good sign.
When we(dan's other sister and I)left this afternoon the doctors were hoping to remove his breathing tube later today.
The lingering concern is still the swelling but if you know my brother not much is gonna keep him down.
We have had great support from a couple of his rugby friends,his biker friends, and co-workers even to the fact of
taking time off work and picking my sister from the airport when she arrived.
For many years we all looked down on Dan for the things he did but we never realized how much he gave up of himself
for us. To this day all he says he did what he had to.Thank god our brother was so well organized as we were able to
get his passwords to his email and his account on the wonderful community you both belong to,and contact you and
his other friends.
It seems that you and Dan have a very special relationship and my sister and i decided to let you know a bit
about Dan. We snuck in Dan's laptop in and read to him his messages and the responses to the posting you started and
he was very moved. He also tapped your picture and put his hand to his lips. Thank you again and let everyone know that
have everyone who has prayed for our brother in our prayers as well.A Special thank you to the gentleman know as
Slayer69 as his messages were very kind.And too a very special thanks thank you for being such a beautiful person
and your wonderful support. We will let you know more as we know. thank you.
UPDATE 2.17.11:Dan had his breathing tube removed. He cant speak all that well and ended up
losing a molar.He has to try and write alot of what he wants to say.
But still a great sign. Tomorrow the plan on moving
him hopefully out of ICU. Also plan on getting him some movement
via therapy for his knee so it doesnt atrophy. We got his old
phone and will try to sneek it into him as he wants to get his messages,and make a few calls.
Its Dan being himself and nothing is gonna slow that guy down. He thinks he will be
out in time for his birthday next week. You know my brother
not much is gonna slow him down, apperantly not even getting hit by a car.
We all have our fingers crossed and know that all the prayers from everyone
on the website you and Dan belong to have helped. Thank you again from our
entire family. Dan sends his love to you especially.
UPDATE 2.18.11: Guess who just got a very personal update from the man himself? Me!! That's whassup. DaddieDiesel just called a few minutes ago and talked as long as he could before the meds started kicking in. He sounds like he got hit by a car! See... we can laugh about it now... lol. Got to, right? He is going to be fine, but in alot of pain as you can imagine. It was so good to hear his voice. When I saw "ChiTown" pop up on my caller ID... I almost cried. But enough about me... He says to tell ALL of you, "Thank you for all of your thoughts and support. I'm no hero, I'm just a Daddy. I do what I gotta do."
NOTE: Aight we gotta switch it up... flip the script right here since everything looks good for him now. Everyone here knows Dan's username here on XDA is DaddieDiesel. Fabulous. Call him what you will... DaddieDiesel, Dan, Double D... it's all good (except maybe that last one, he probably won't be feeling that one... lol) But I started this thread, and if you've read through all the updates... you've heard me call him ChiTown. So from here on out, all updates from ME specifically will be addressing him as such. Roll with it.
UPDATE 2.20.11:So where's whats new with this bad ass HERO named ChiTown. Most recent news from his equally bad ass sisters: His days are long, his nights are longer. Today will be his third day going through very, very painful physical therapy. He is pissy, they say... alot of swearing! But trust me... that's nothing new with ChiTown... lmao. The man has a mouth ALOST as dirty as mine. Tomorrow will be the one week mark since the accident. He hates hospitals more than most people who hate hospitals. His doctor continues to say its nothing short of a miracle that his head didn't split completely open when he hit the pavement. Yesterday's MRI results were looking good, which is awesome. And the doctors are happy with the way everything continues to be improving so rapidly. Now if he'd just get over this big ass knot on his head and grow some hair back where it had to be shaved to put him back together... then maybe he'd let this ChuckTown girl jack a plane and come say whassup...

Never heard of him, but i'll make sure to keep him in my prayers

Sorry to hear that...I wish him a speedy recovery....

He'll be in my prayer list. If you can talk to him, ask him to stay strong.

I hope everything works out for them. I am currently undergoing something myself so I understand how it feels. I hope the best for him and his family.
-There is a 35% chance that right now I'm on the toilet-

Although I don't know him I wish him the best in his recovery

I'm new here and so of course I don't know him, but I'll most definitely pray for him.
The selfless act of being brave even knowing the danger is my ultimate definition of courage, and I hope everyone else here will join me in agreement on that point.
The world is desperately in need of more brave and courageous heroes like Dan.

I'll pray for him.
I'll pray for him to recover and gain all strength.
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hearing news like this is always upsetting and tough.
I will keep him in my thoughts and prayers.

Even though I don't know him I wish him the best of recovery. He gives me hope.

selflessness defines self.
with no personal connection i still offer him and his family the highest respect and deepest compassion. thanks op.

brtnygrey said:
One of our senior members, DaddieDiesel is in the hospital and has sustained some very serious injuries as of last night. I received a PM from his sister, as many of you may have, that he and his daughter were on a Daddy Daughter Valentine's Day date. They were walking across the road and were hit by a car. He shielded his little girl, and she isn't hurt too bad. When he took the blow for her, he took it hard. Many broken bones, a punctured lung, and a serious blow to the head when he hit the pavement. His condition is unknown, and he is currently unconscious in the ICU.
I don't know how many of you know him, but he's my friend. He has been there for me through all of my recent sadness... miscarriage and breakup of my long term relationship... calling and texting everyday just to make me laugh so that I don't fall apart. And even though I havent known him long... I feel like I've known him forever. He's my ChiTown, and I'm his ChuckTown. He's my friend, and I'm asking that you all please keep him, his little girl, and his entire family in your thoughts. Until he wakes up... I don't know what I'm gonna do without his daily calls, texts, and retarted ass picture mails he always sends just to make me smile. I'm not normally big on prayer... but I am now. For him.
UPDATE: FURTHER AND MORE DETAILED INFO FROM FAMILY ON DADDYDIESEL'S CONDITION
Dan sustained dislocations to his right hip and shoulder. 4broken ribs. Of which punctured his lung. Shattered his knee cap. Swelling in his brain from his head hitting so hard that it busted it open. His hand is badly swollen because he held his daughters head from also hitting the concrete. But after this mornings surgery we had a better outlook. He awoke for a bit confused at first because he didnt know where he was, but after we calmed him he immiediatly asked for his daughter.
Thank you for your kind words and let everyone know that he is doing better but not out of the woods yet. Still has a ton of swelling and it is still a concern.
Thank you for the prayers and either my sister or I will let you know more information as we can.
UPDATE 2.16.11:
Dan has been awake for longer periods. He still is unable to speak due to his breathing tube. When he does wake
he continues to be very confused and angry.It takes him a bit but he does realize where he is and seems to understand.
The first thing he does do is ask about his daughter by pointing to his tattoo of her. Which the doctors say is a good sign.
When we(dan's other sister and I)left this afternoon the doctors were hoping to remove his breathing tube later today.
The lingering concern is still the swelling but if you know my brother not much is gonna keep him down.
We have had great support from a couple of his rugby friends,his biker friends, and co-workers even to the fact of
taking time off work and picking my sister from the airport when she arrived.
For many years we all looked down on Dan for the things he did but we never realized how much he gave up of himself
for us. To this day all he says he did what he had to.Thank god our brother was so well organized as we were able to
get his passwords to his email and his account on the wonderful community you both belong to,and contact you and
his other friends.
It seems that you and Dan have a very special relationship and my sister and i decided to let you know a bit
about Dan. We snuck in Dan's laptop in and read to him his messages and the responses to the posting you started and
he was very moved. He also tapped your picture and put his hand to his lips. Thank you again and let everyone know that
have everyone who has prayed for our brother in our prayers as well.A Special thank you to the gentleman know as
Slayer69 as his messages were very kind.And too a very special thanks thank you for being such a beautiful person
and your wonderful support. We will let you know more as we know. thank you.
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Well, it does seem like he didn't suffer any brain damage from the latest update. I'm sure that he'll make a full recovery!

Yay! What a miracle he survived!

well... just broke up?

Just come to the usual forum..
Knew my gf in freshmen year of college, have been in relationship since..
we actually rented an apartment and lived together for ~4 years already..
now she needs to work far away while I stay for the last semester.. she told me I'm more like her family member than a bf, and she wants a passionate relationship..
and now she's about to be gone.. Its just too hard for me now..
Sorry to rip you guys day...

Well, it's going to hurt for a long time... but it will not kill you. Good luck.

of cause I know... and of cause I know this post is just immature... but its just difficult. But I would rather prefer a reason not like this one..

thought I really found a soul mate, but guess its not what I thought..

Welcome to the club, I broke up a 11 yr couple a few months ago....
aqw955 said:
Just come to the usual forum..
Knew my gf in freshmen year of college, have been in relationship since..
we actually rented an apartment and lived together for ~4 years already..
now she needs to work far away while I stay for the last semester.. she told me I'm more like her family member than a bf, and she wants a passionate relationship..
and now she's about to be gone.. Its just too hard for me now..
Sorry to rip you guys day...
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I've been there. Didn't think I'd ever get over her.. luckily I had some good friends to lean on and hang out with. You should do the same, bro.

orb3000 said:
Welcome to the club, I broke up a 11 yr couple a few months ago....
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wow! that's like marriage already.
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ericc191 said:
I've been there. Didn't think I'd ever get over her.. luckily I had some good friends to lean on and hang out with. You should do the same, bro.
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+1
We have a song in our country that says "Ο έρωτας με έρωτα περνάει" (love goes away with another love). Go out with the most braindamaged friends you got meet other people get drunk get arrested do anything just dont let it eat your insides

Well, I just broke up with my girlfriend last week...

well... depends on the faith you put in..

Shes dong you a favor. Instead of continuing with a broken relationship and leading you on, she ended it.
You are young, and if you experience more of life then youll know more of what you want and dont want.

She does not deserve you if she didn't/doesn't realize what you have/had together. Some people are blind to, what is right in front of them.
I didn't write that. Prove it!!!

Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up 3 months ago, she was a cheating whore. I'm still semi broken up about it cause I actually did love her. But you gotta be strong and move on, focus on yourself and you will do great things with your life.
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Thanks guys.. your words and the wheel of time is the only cure as from now.
Guess I am just perceptual.. Thought I can do something for her at the end, but still I just couldn't do a single one.. We will both miss each other for our memories and importance, I ensure, things just didn't work out at the moment..
Given I lived 1/4+ of my life already, my purpose is still far from being reached.
much to learn son.. much to...

KyleBryant said:
Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up 3 months ago, she was a cheating whore. I'm still semi broken up about it cause I actually did love her. But you gotta be strong and move on, focus on yourself and you will do great things with your life.
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Cheating.. one of the most evil practices of humans.. This large brain enclosed in us gave us the ability to considerate, to control..
btw, its a valid reason for you to really forget her.. love really requires more..

Babydoll25 said:
She does not deserve you if she didn't/doesn't realize what you have/had together. Some people are blind to, what is right in front of them.
I didn't write that. Prove it!!!
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First half.. not quite, she gave me the chance 4 years ago, I just didn't really do my best, just not enough... Second half.. yah.. we all did that at some point..

me too
I was in a relationship with my girl friend for 3 years and she broke up with me . . . she told me that she just didn't feel the same that I was more of family as well . . . this was a few months ago and it still hurts . . . but life moves on right

And what about me....? I talked to her I liked her and she said "u are just a good friend"....
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love is just dragging between lives. We just couldn't escape this.
Be graceful for what had been precious the most.
Regret only occur when you lost it, so does cherish...

Keep your head up! Stay confident, reassure yourself that you deserve better (or can get better), and spend time with friends!
Of course, time heals all wounds.

Please read

This is my nephew: http://i.imgur.com/01aY7.png . He has lived with me & my parents (his grandparents) for most of his 2 year old life. For a time he lived with his step-father and mother. My parents got custody of him because he was badly abused by them. His step-father would lock him in rooms for 12 hours at a time (when he was less than 1 year old), he would scream loudly and curse at him, he wouldn't let his mother hold or feed him. His mother would smoke around him (marijuana and cigarettes), take him to random men's houses and leave him unattended. She would also drink around him, and drive with him while she was drunk. She would never watch or play with him; he accidentally injured himself badly several times because of this neglect. She also tested positive for methamphetamines, amphetamines, adderall, vyvanse, and several other drugs I can't remember.
Myself & my parents have been fighting with them in court for almost two years. They (my parents) have had temporary custody up until now. Tomorrow morning is our final court date which will decide on who gets custody. Please pray for my parents, his grandparents, to get permanent custody of him. If you don't pray, please wish us luck & keep him in your thoughts.
Thank you.

Geez...the fact that that handsome little guy can smile for a photo is beyond my comprension.
Best of luck to all those looking out for him, and I hope justice is on his grandparents side.
Please post back with an update.
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Hope all goes well. I've said a prayer for you guys.

It's good there are people like your parents. Everything's gonna be all right!
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I wish you the best!!!! It is so nice to see people who are willing to help!! You deserve the best!!!!!
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Sparky and I will pray, wish, hope, send positive energy in the hope that the outcome you want happens expeditiously.
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Babydoll25 said:
Sparky and I will pray, wish, hope, send positive energy in the hope that the outcome you want happens expeditiously.
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me too,Good luck

Good luck tomorrow. Sounds like he'll be much happier and better off with you and your parents. Make sure you let us know what happens.

Thank you all for your support. We were in court all day, the biological father knows how bad things are and is actually on our side, but he didn't show up, so it was just my parents & I vs my sister (child's mother). The judge previously ordered a no-contact order between the child & the step-father, the mother acted like she had divorced him by bringing in legal separation papers, but they were all fake.
As of now she is getting unsupervised visits twice a week. But thankfully he is residing with me & my parents the rest of the time.
She's trying to act like she's changed now, it's all fake. The story behind this whole thing is unbelievable, I'm not allowed to give out details, I'll write about it once it's all over.
We're not sure the next court date yet, I'll post about it once it's close.
Once again, thank you all for your prayers & support, they helped very much.
TheSkinnyDrummer said:
Geez...the fact that that handsome little guy can smile for a photo is beyond my comprension.
Best of luck to all those looking out for him, and I hope justice is on his grandparents side.
Please post back with an update.
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That picture was taken after we got him back, it was a few months before he would smile again. Before they had him, he would kiss us all the time, after we got him back he would never let us kiss him, thankfully now he is doing much better. He still is suffering from some mental abuse, we're taking him to therapy classes and he is improving.

Haloman800 said:
Thank you all for your support. We were in court all day, the biological father knows how bad things are and is actually on our side, but he didn't show up, so it was just my parents & I vs my sister (child's mother). The judge previously ordered a no-contact order between the child & the step-father, the mother acted like she had divorced him by bringing in legal separation papers, but they were all fake.
As of now she is getting unsupervised visits twice a week. But thankfully he is residing with me & my parents the rest of the time.
She's trying to act like she's changed now, it's all fake. The story behind this whole thing is unbelievable, I'm not allowed to give out details, I'll write about it once it's all over.
We're not sure the next court date yet, I'll post about it once it's close.
Once again, thank you all for your prayers & support, they helped very much.
That picture was taken after we got him back, it was a few months before he would smile again. Before they had him, he would kiss us all the time, after we got him back he would never let us kiss him, thankfully now he is doing much better. He still is suffering from some mental abuse, we're taking him to therapy classes and he is improving.
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This is all sounding good sofar for the child...your sister's case seems to be weakening very quickly.
And the last part you wrote just breaks my heart. I am a father of two girls, one 6, other is almost 2. My wife and I have struggled in our 10 years of marriage, but we do everything we can every day to make our kids feel safe and loved. Why have kids for any other reason?
Thanks for the update, and best of luck in the next round
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Serious Prayer Chain ( My Friend )

Hi everyone, I wanted to start this to give support and have some help from around the World. One of my good friends was driving the other night from work to home and was involved in a wreck. The situation is that he goes to school in the morning to 12pm in the afternoon, then has to be at work from 4 to 12am at night. He was driving like normal but as person in this state he was very tired. And fell asleep at the wheel not knowing it he had crashed into construction along the highway. The wreck was pretty severe and the car was not identifiable because of the wreck, Police had to ask what car it was. He is a very good kid, and is only 18 I believe he deserves more years in Life, and deserves a good experience in Life.
I Feel like it would be very nice for anyone that could help with just a simple prayer. If those who are not religious or don't believe in God, at least show a little support and be kind.
I thank everyone who participates and hope to God that he can live and survive this.
Thank You All.
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I don't believe in God - there is just too much in this world for that - but my thoughts are with your friend and his family and friends.

Hi!
I have to confess, that I'm not a religious guy. But I hope that your friend will be back for good soon and will be able to have a normal life!
Things like this can happen to anyone at anytime.
ALL THE BEST FOR HIM!

Well im kind of religious but at the same time im not i believe theres a heaven and hell and GOD & DEVIL. i have faith but i dont believe in churches there are too many versions of everything so i dont go to church but i started this thread tooday but it happened to him on June 2, 2012. But today i went to the hospital and found out he is brain dead and there donating his organs. its just not fair that he was only 18, had so much in life to look foward too.
Thanks again guys.

Very sad story, I will keep his family and friends in mind.

@ XxLostSoulxX
Thanks for letting us know. My thoughts are with his family at this time, and I hope that something good can come out of their loss in other lives saved by the donation of his organs.

May God help him and give strength to his family and friends, that including you for your support and loyalty. May Also fill all of you with wisdom and serenity for your prayers and soft heart for those who are in need.
I hope that your friend can find heal and calm, all in God's Hands.