Job in USA - Off-topic

I got a Visa for the US so i can stay there for 3 month.
so i wanted to know could i get a job legally, i was thinking about
construction worker job.so, could that be possible and how much would i earn per hour?
btw i'm 18 years old

you can't work, that's illegal. assuming your 3 months visa is a tourist or a business type.

Don't even think about it! I wanted to say something more, but I guess I shouldn't lol!

I have a 10 year Visa (Automatic 10 yr renew) but never think on working on USA
I´m happy working in my country
Anyway you can´t work with a visiting visa, if you want that you should apply from your country for a working visa in case that is what you want.
ohhh the American dream...

I think selling drugs down the streets is your best fit. Nothing is illegal unless you get caught.

CraZyLiLbOy said:
I think selling drugs down the streets is your best fit. Nothing is illegal unless you get caught.
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LOL!!+
Hahaha, very profitable buisness!

Just remember the problem isn't getting here. It's being able to afford going home.

LOL ok,
One more question, what are the consequences if you get caught working illegaly?
because i don't wanna sit there all day lol,i get bored if not doing anything , I just gotta do something, even if it's illegaly, I'l do it LOL,

damir-bosna said:
LOL ok,
One more question, what are the consequences if you get caught working illegaly?
because i don't wanna sit there all day lol,i get bored if not doing anything , I just gotta do something, even if it's illegaly, I'l do it LOL,
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Basically nothing will happen, your employer will get fined, and you might just get deported, ( free ride home ) if anybody bothers. Your biggest problem will competing for low paying menial jobs with the other 11 million illegal aliens that already reside in the U S. Or competing for higher paying jobs with the 30 million currently unemployed American citizens.
The illegals in this country are going back home in droves because of our slumping economy.

don't they get banned from getting a visa for a some years too?

damir-bosna said:
LOL ok,
One more question, what are the consequences if you get caught working illegaly?
because i don't wanna sit there all day lol,i get bored if not doing anything , I just gotta do something, even if it's illegaly, I'l do it LOL,
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Do Charity Work Then, For FREE.
Go to the local church, VA Hosp., Soup Kitchen, there are loads of things you can do.

fallenczar said:
Do Charity Work Then, For FREE.
Go to the local church, VA Hosp., Soup Kitchen, there are loads of things you can do.
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That's a great idea.
If caught working illegally, I can just say.............enjoy the little time here, you ain't coming back anytime soon lol

fallenczar said:
Do Charity Work Then, For FREE.
Go to the local church, VA Hosp., Soup Kitchen, there are loads of things you can do.
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like @CraZyLiLbOy said, Im gonna sell drugs on the streets LOL
nah, i'm just kidding.
thats a great idea, i forgot about that

Related

Bow chicka wow wowwww

http://www.centsports.com/?opcode=200545
http://www.centpoker.com/?opcode=501
Check this out, centsports/centpoker are websites where you can gamble (sorta) with money you never invest. It works like this, each site has ads, and part of the money from those ads goes into giving you real money to bet on games (or play poker) with. Soccer(international and MLS), baseball, basketball, football, F1, NASCAR, Tennis, whatever, you get the point. You start with 10 cents, work your way up with real Vegas odds and betting strategies, and when you get to $20 you can cash out and they send you a check. I have a few friends on there that're at a couple of hundred dollars, but I suck of course so I'm broke. As for centpoker, basic texas hold-em now, just started a few days ago so give it time to become CentCasino.
Oh and I almost forgot, when you go broke, you can keep getting 10 cents back as many times as you want. So don't be afraid to risk it, there's always another dime for you.
If you click those links you sign up with my op code that means they add 5% of your winnings to my account (or 1 poker chip every day that you log in), you don't lose money, but I get more... So use the links!
Yeah, it's an advertisement, whatever. Considering it's not selling anything, I think this should be okay with mods... Plus it's a hell of a lot of fun.
O wait. Is that illegal for us under 18? D:
And isn't it "BOW CHICKA WOW WOWWWWW?"
Kraize92 said:
O wait. Is that illegal for us under 18? D:
And isn't it "BOW CHICKA WOW WOWWWWW?"
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Edited for Kraize's viewing pleasure. And I don't know if you have to be 18 considering it's not really gambling, you don't invest anything at all. Regardless, it's harder than you think to get up to the level of cashing out, so just play it for fun if nothing else.

Michael Jackson's Unused Concert Tickets in Manila December '96

I have 2 UNUSED (mint condition) Micahael Jackson Tickets in Manila when he was there last December 1996. I was wondering how much should I auction them in ebay?
Any suggestions?
DON'T! Just be patient before listing. Valuables don't become super-important the day of a person's memorial. Just chill out and wait around. Unless you're a poor person. Otherwise, don't regret holding off for a while. And don't be the first to list them... instead do some online research. I'm SURE there's a guide or an advisor to this type of thing somewhere at your disposal. Good luck, you horrible, ruthless profit-minded-techie....
Dave
What happens to all MJ's roll over minutes on his AT$T Raphael, do you think if I called, AT$T would give them to me ?
Never hurts to try. Godspeed.
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DON'T! Just be patient before listing. Valuables don't become super-important the day of a person's memorial. Just chill out and wait around. Unless you're a poor person. Otherwise, don't regret holding off for a while. And don't be the first to list them... instead do some online research. I'm SURE there's a guide or an advisor to this type of thing somewhere at your disposal. Good luck, you horrible, ruthless profit-minded-techie....
Dave
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I might just do this. I bought the tickets for me and my ex-girl friend now my friend. She was returning them to me back in 2000, but I told her to keep it safe and someday it will be worth something. I asked her about it yesterday and she said...Yeah I still have it...so we might try and see how much we can get from it or it's value now. We weren't able to use it back then because her Mom won't let us go to the concert that day. Don't know why.
cktlcmd said:
We weren't able to use it back then because her Mom won't let us go to the concert that day. Don't know why.
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She probably saw through your evil evil dastardly plan to do lord knows what to her delicate, beautiful, Iris of a daughter she has. How could you you money grubbing teenage groping money maker you!!!!
Nice, sell them now, when the MJ rush is still going!
I think you CAN get 100€ or wich currency you use ^^
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What happens to all MJ's roll over minutes on his AT$T Raphael, do you think if I called, AT$T would give them to me ?
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Did you just say that Michael Jackson owned a Touch Pro?

Picture Messaging

...Yes another one of my questions lol. Hurry I just got a sext, first day of school! I can't download the picture message. ): Solutions, solutions, solutions pleasee.
Quick, go to the market and install save mms, by david swimmer, than forward the sext to me, j/p
Ugh don't think I'm lien because I have no reason to look cool off the internet but the picture is of her flicking me/the camera off. ): Stupid ***** I should kill her right? Want to help?
By the way, gridlock is clocking out and will be out of commision and possibly incohent for the next few hours, maybe 72 hours.
Gonna go play some poker
Daddy needs a new cane and some fuzzy handcuffs
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By the way, gridlock is clocking out and will be out of commision and possibly incohent for the next few hours, maybe 72 hours.
Gonna go play some poker
Daddy needs a new cane and some fuzzy handcuffs
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LMFAO, I'll ask my dad if I can use his paypal to donate you some money as I'm only 14. I need to somehow make your pimp hand stronger... for that roommate of yours.
Accesory to murder......hmmm.....sure why not, I used to design roads so I will help dispose the body, I know quite a few good places
I am telling you, I would make a killing if I got that ho in line, she is a pedofiles dream, I keep trying to get her to become a stripper, I think I have almost broke her down
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I am telling you, I would make a killing if I got that ho in line, she is a pedofiles dream, I keep trying to get her to become a stripper, I think I have almost broke her down
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LMFAO I wish I knew you in person. Weird how the coolest people you'll meet are over the internet. :/
Edit: Also whats with my downloads taking like 20 minutes just going 'Starting download'? I have 5 bars of WIFI... the actual download doesn't take more then 2 seconds.
Yeah, in the real world I am surrounded my morons, on the internet, you can find like minded people, too bad I am only a pimp in training, but soon, very soon young one, I will be a full fledged pimp
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Yeah, in the real world I am surrounded my morons, on the internet, you can find like minded people, too bad I am only a pimp in training, but soon, very soon young one, I will be a full fledged pimp
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Haha, just like I'll be at your and David's level as soon as I **** up 3 G1's to.
How come my downloads from Market say 'Starting Download' for ever? The actual download takes like 2 seconds or less. And my WIFI is 5 bars, excellent.
It's just the google check in service, it's retarded some time
I can speak for myself only but I know I still got more to learn, I just have a un quenchible thirst to learn more and great comprehension skills. I think I might try my hand at politics soon, so look for me to maybe be prez someday or at least a guv
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I can speak for myself only but I know I still got more to learn, I just have a un quenchible thirst to learn more and great comprehension skills. I think I might try my hand at politics soon, so look for me to maybe be prez someday or at least a guv
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Put your quote CHICKEN!
Watch it, comments like that can get you banned, I suggest you edit it quickly

Need some opinions on this Drama im going through

About 3 months ago a friend of mine asked me to join a biggest loser group on Facebook. I needed to lose about 30lbs so I joined up.
The entry fee was due during the middle of October, a couple weeks after the contest started. The due day came I didn't pay and I figured they dropped me. So I stopped giving my weekly updates.
Well this week the contest ended, and I got a nasty message that I still owed the entry fee and 2 months worth of fees for not reporting my weight. They wanted to pay the winner and they were short my entry fee.
I sent a message back that ill pay my part, but since its a week before Christmas im short on cash and it will have to wait till Friday. Well that wasn't good enough, they needed it that day. I told them sorry I couldn't.
So instead of just dropping me and taking me out of the equation. They just dug into their own pockets to pay the winner my part. And they are still continuing to hound me about the money.
Was it too much for me to ask to pay that Friday. It wasn't my choice they paid the winner my part.
If I was running this thing, and I had someone who didn't pay by the due date. I would have removed him from the equation and ended it right there. Not try to collect a bunch of money a couple months later.
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About 3 months ago a friend of mine asked me to join a biggest loser group on Facebook. I needed to lose about 30lbs so I joined up.
The entry fee was due during the middle of October, a couple weeks after the contest started. The due day came I didn't pay and I figured they dropped me. So I stopped giving my weekly updates.
Well this week the contest ended, and I got a nasty message that I still owed the entry fee and 2 months worth of fees for not reporting my weight. They wanted to pay the winner and they were short my entry fee.
I sent a message back that ill pay my part, but since its a week before Christmas im short on cash and it will have to wait till Friday. Well that wasn't good enough, they needed it that day. I told them sorry I couldn't.
So instead of just dropping me and taking me out of the equation. They just dug into their own pockets to pay the winner my part. And they are still continuing to hound me about the money.
Was it too much for me to ask to pay that Friday. It wasn't my choice they paid the winner my part.
If I was running this thing, and I had someone who didn't pay by the due date. I would have removed him from the equation and ended it right there. Not try to collect a bunch of money a couple months later.
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Okay, I am the Drama Llama and all so this is my thing .
I'm going through something similar, except its eBay fees and its a lot more money lol... But anyway, If you weren't paying anymore, why didn't you just tell them you were gonna drop out
Figured they had a brain and would figure it out..
Guy didnt pay fee and isnt reporting weight.. obviously he is not in the contest..
Actually with corporations it's much different.
He stopped paying us, but lets keep him in so at the end we can slam him with a huge fee and send our friends at the collection agency to his house.
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Actually with corporations it's much different.
He stopped paying us, but lets keep him in so at the end we can slam him with a huge fee and send our friends at the collection agency to his house.
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Yea, what he said!
Tooleman694 said:
Figured they had a brain and would figure it out..
Guy didnt pay fee and isnt reporting weight.. obviously he is not in the contest..
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Nobody on the intarwebs has a brain or knows how to use one correctly while online.
But the dood should have posted on the FB stating he was dropping out of the contest to go back to eating Ho-ho's and have been done with it.
Yea, I'm going to have to agree with the general consensus. When it comes to money, more specifically, being paid money, it is advantageous to just assume that you are still in the program that way the "organization" can still get paid and claim ignorance.
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wow is all i can say. as an attorney, thats absolute bull****!!!!!!
some people really become so embroiled in facebook, it takes over their whole life. has anyone seen Idiocracy?
if you didnt sign anything -- and a facebook post will never hold up in court -- then my friend, you just walk away. no harm. i hope you learned your lesson for getting involved in such a soapy facebookish thing in the first place. I mean --I could very well be 1000 pounds and lie and post weekly updates about "feeling so good, so thin so sexy my pants fit me now!" and collect the winners money all while hiding behind facebook and drinking bacon grease and sucking crisco through a coffee stirrer straw all the while.
i wouldnt worry about those douchebags but i understand they are probably your friends... so thats where facebook really gets irritating.
now... ask yourself this question -- are these your true friends? Would your true friends betray you like this? I mean facebook?! because this is in facebook you did not betray anyone... you betrayed yourself by agreeing to be part of such a joke, but thats OK, i betray myself everyday lol. Its one thing to go to an eating disorder group and get involved in a group effort, but facebook... come on!
friends dont do that to friends. Besides... guess what the fat ass "loser" is doing with his/her winnings? 80% sure its going right into cheese, chips, bacon grease and crisco.
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wow is all i can say. as an attorney, thats absolute bull****!!!!!!
some people really become so embroiled in facebook, it takes over their whole life. has anyone seen Idiocracy?
if you didnt sign anything -- and a facebook post will never hold up in court -- then my friend, you just walk away. no harm. i hope you learned your lesson for getting involved in such a soapy facebookish thing in the first place. I mean --I could very well be 1000 pounds and lie and post weekly updates about "feeling so good, so thin so sexy my pants fit me now!" and collect the winners money all while hiding behind facebook and drinking bacon grease and sucking crisco through a coffee stirrer straw all the while.
i wouldnt worry about those douchebags but i understand they are probably your friends... so thats where facebook really gets irritating.
now... ask yourself this question -- are these your true friends? Would your true friends betray you like this? I mean facebook?! because this is in facebook you did not betray anyone... you betrayed yourself by agreeing to be part of such a joke, but thats OK, i betray myself everyday lol. Its one thing to go to an eating disorder group and get involved in a group effort, but facebook... come on!
friends dont do that to friends. Besides... guess what the fat ass "loser" is doing with his/her winnings? 80% sure its going right into cheese, chips, bacon grease and crisco.
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Thank God we have an expert!
Lesson to be learned here; delete your Facebook accounts.
Oh I'm no expert here but the best thing I've ever done other than root my phone is..delete facebook...I hate it with gusto!
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Tooleman694, I am so sorry to hear about what happened. That is totally unfair and I feel your pain man. You get into a group to try to drop some weight and some guys try to rob you after you drop out? That hurts. Short on some cash near Christmas? That hurts.
Actually, I don't feel your pain at all, because what actually happened was you signed up and then decided not to pay any fee because you were getting your ass kicked in the competition and didn't want to cough up any more money. Sounds to me like you're a gigantic TOOL. Oh wait, your name already makes that very clear.
The best part about all of this? If I hadn't taken your money while you were too busy trash talking (and losing), maybe you would have some money to pay that fee. Or buy some better gifts. Or both.
Lol.
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Tooleman694, I am so sorry to hear about what happened. That is totally unfair and I feel your pain man. You get into a group to try to drop some weight and some guys try to rob you after you drop out? That hurts. Short on some cash near Christmas? That hurts.
Actually, I don't feel your pain at all, because what actually happened was you signed up and then decided not to pay any fee because you were getting your ass kicked in the competition and didn't want to cough up any more money. Sounds to me like you're a gigantic TOOL. Oh wait, your name already makes that very clear.
The best part about all of this? If I hadn't taken your money while you were too busy trash talking (and losing), maybe you would have some money to pay that fee. Or buy some better gifts. Or both.
Lol.
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At the OP... This is why some things are best kept of the interwebs
The people their about will alwys find them.....
But tbf Jccfor seems like an arse (No offence )
money ? competition ? facebook ? man u best be joking , let the suckers hang dry , if they cocky (and stupid) like that they dont deserve a penny
Events and causes on facebook are like bowel movements full of crap.
Keep your money and never join crappy facebook crap again. Defriend and unlike if neccessary, and try to block the fools who are harrassing you. Also NEVER put personal information on facebook that would allow someone to ID or find you in real life. My facebook profile is made up completely.
Also as the lawyer said you dont owe them anything. If it getys worse or you get sick of it to the police and say you are being harrassed online. Save all emails and posts.
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Events and causes on facebook are like bowel movements full of crap.
Keep your money and never join crappy facebook crap again. Defriend and unlike if neccessary, and try to block the fools who are harrassing you. Also NEVER put personal information on facebook that would allow someone to ID or find you in real life. My facebook profile is made up completely.
Also as the lawyer said you dont owe them anything. If it getys worse or you get sick of it to the police and say you are being harrassed online. Save all emails and posts.
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so how do ur friends find ya , if its made up
tell them they did a great thing by paying the winner out of there pocket and congratulate them. thats what id do haha.
souljaboy said:
so how do ur friends find ya , if its made up
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I only tell the ones I want to find me how to find me
Why would you pay for help to lose weight?! If you really wanted to lose weight, you'd use your common sense and think to yourself that you need to burn more calories then you intake. Simples. Anyway, there are more helpful, free sources of help. Well xda is one for mobile phones. Vommon sense again, you'd think that searching a body building forum would be another.
Wow epic failure at common sense
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Why would you pay for help to lose weight?! If you really wanted to lose weight, you'd use your common sense and think to yourself that you need to burn more calories then you intake. Simples. Anyway, there are more helpful, free sources of help. Well xda is one for mobile phones. Vommon sense again, you'd think that searching a body building forum would be another.
Wow epic failure at common sense
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:sizzle: Panda BURN!!!!
If you didn't sign a legally binding contract, you don't owe them anything.
!PANDA said:
Why would you pay for help to lose weight?! If you really wanted to lose weight, you'd use your common sense and think to yourself that you need to burn more calories then you intake. Simples. Anyway, there are more helpful, free sources of help. Well xda is one for mobile phones. Vommon sense again, you'd think that searching a body building forum would be another.
Wow epic failure at common sense
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I believe the idea is that whoever loses the most wins or something like that, the point is winning the loot is an incentive to lose weight... unless I'm missing something.

How to convince my parents to let me drive?

I'm 16 years old, and my mom won't let me get a license. She's too paranoid and strict. She thinks I'm going to be street racing and get in an accident. I work my ass off in school, get straight a's and I have all ap classes, but I do disobey her a lot and piss her off at home. I've asked her if she could let me drive, but she wants to wait til I'm 18? I just laugh at her cuz she's crazy if she thinks ima wait til I'm 18 to drive. So anyways, any ideas on convincing my mother to let me drive?
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Sneak into her room late at night while she's in a deep sleep, and gently whisper into her ear,
I will let my son drive, I will let my son drive, I will let my son drive..........
TravisBean said:
Sneak into her room late at night while she's in a deep sleep, and gently whisper into her ear,
I will let my son drive, I will let my son drive, I will let my son drive..........
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Lmfao. That's a brilliant idea, I might actually try that seriously.
Any other ideas?
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#firstworldproblems
Seriously though, why can't you wait a couple of years? Presumably it's your mum paying for the whole thing so she gets to call the shots, right? If you were paying for it might be different, but then you're still living under her roof aren't you?
I was 22 before i could afford lessons, the car and insurance to go with it. Are you working full-time and commuting every day? If not, you don't need a car. You just want one.
Actually, she's not paying for anything. My big brother is paying for the lessons, school, and license. And he's also gonna give me one of his cars. The only thing she might pay for is gas. I need it to get to school, my school is around 5 miles away from where I live, and I'm leaving to college after senior year so I'm gonna need a car obviously
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I don't get you young people. When I was 16, I wanted a good bike, not a car. 20 now, still have no car, and only a learner's permit so I have some form of ID. 5 miles is not far. I used to ride my bike 8 miles to school everyday...IN COLLEGE. YOu are 16, the only reason you would want a car is to show off to the girls. And you would only get the girls that are empty in their heads and only go for money.
I'm 19, studying on college and still can't get a part time job. I take the bus from home to school for an hour. My mom wants me to drive but I said I can't because I don't have a job to pay for any of that.
Unless you can afford the car, insurance, etc. Just deal with it for two more years.
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Actually, she's not paying for anything. My big brother is paying for the lessons, school, and license. And he's also gonna give me one of his cars. The only thing she might pay for is gas. I need it to get to school, my school is around 5 miles away from where I live, and I'm leaving to college after senior year so I'm gonna need a car obviously
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It would make things convenient, but it is NOT a need.
Well, she's not paying for anything to get my license, so she might as well let me get it. And fine, its ok if I not able to drive my own car, but I just wanna be able to have a license. I just want to convince her to let me get a license that she's not gonna spend a penny on.
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You don't need a parent to get your license do you? Just make an appointment and show up with a licensed driver and an insured car. Thats what I did.
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maximo360 said:
Well, she's not paying for anything to get my license, so she might as well let me get it. And fine, its ok if I not able to drive my own car, but I just wanna be able to have a license. I just want to convince her to let me get a license that she's not gonna spend a penny on.
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start to behave and don't piss off your mom for two more years.
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You don't need a parent to get your license do you? Just make an appointment and show up with a licensed driver and an insured car. Thats what I did.
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I don't know, I haven't really looked into it. But I always thought they have to give their signature of authorization don't they? And I still haven't even got my permit yet.
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start to behave and don't piss off your mom for two more years.
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But why should I wait two more years just to get a license? I'm fine with just having a license, I can live with not being able to have my own car to drive.
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Mr. Clown said:
start to behave and don't piss off your mom for two more years.
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This. If somebody else is picking up the tab, your mother is obviously only concerned from a responsibility point of view. She knows you better than we do, so we can't really speak to that.. but perhaps you can spend the next few months proving to her with your actions that you are ready to drive?
Perhaps in the meantime you can convince her of a compromise whereby you take your lessons and get your license, and she gets final say on when you're allowed to get a car?
The best things in life are earned. Go show your mother some love and earn your right to drive!
i was in the same situation as you. its something you have to deal with. im 18 now, and am glad my parents made me wait. i got good exercise on my bike, and value the fact that i can now drive as an adult, not a teenager. just my 2cents though. and start behaving and it might happen sooner then you think
Also, do you have a learner's Permit? First pay for that yourself, then pay for driving lessons, then pay for the licence. If you can do all that yourself then you can drive. Don't depend on others.
jaszek said:
Also, do you have a learner's Permit? First pay for that yourself, then pay for driving lessons, then pay for the licence. If you can do all that yourself then you can drive. Don't depend on others.
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alright guys, thanks for the advice, but i can already pay for it, but she still wont let me get my license, it just doesnt make sense? i just want the license, thats all.
Driving my own car i can wait for.
Then be an adult. Go get your license, while you're at it, move out. Seriously. YOu live under your mom's roof. When she tell you you can't do it, you don't do it. What is it with teenagers and their lack of respect these days? Maybe it's that I come from a different background, and maybe I don't respect many people, but my parent's and their opinions I'll always respect, even if I don't agree with it. Since she doesn't want you to do it, there must be a reason, be it personal, or not. It could be something you don't even know about, and you getting it would have an emotional impact on your mother.
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Then be an adult. Go get your license, while you're at it, move out. Seriously. YOu live under your mom's roof. When she tell you you can't do it, you don't do it. What is it with teenagers and their lack of respect these days? Maybe it's that I come from a different background, and maybe I don't respect many people, but my parent's and their opinions I'll always respect, even if I don't agree with it. Since she doesn't want you to do it, there must be a reason, be it personal, or not. It could be something you don't even know about, and you getting it would have an emotional impact on your mother.
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hmm alright. I understand what you're trying to say. I guess ill just wait.
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.. It could be something you don't even know about, and you getting it would have an emotional impact on your mother.
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Perfect chance for me to slide an apt, drunken rant in. What Jaszek just said is 100% solid. When i started spending nights with my new GF at the age of 15, my mother didn't like it. The 'curfew' was an obvious punishment. It's not like i didn't see it coming, but was i going to ditch my first 'adult' relationship?
So i moved out. It was an emotional day. It hit me all at once what my mother had gone through to raise me to that age. I felt like crap for abandoning ship, but i was going to do what i wanted regardless. The last thing i did before hauling my bags out of the house was write a letter for my mum to find. It was covered in my tears, but told her how grateful i was for all the sacrifices she had made to raise me.
She was good about it. We spoke regularly. It made me realise how tough things had been for her. I signed up to job agencies and went to work to help pay the rent. It sucked, and inevitably it went to pieces. Instead of sitting my GCSE exams i was loading Lorries in a warehouse, pretending i was 18 so that i could get paid.
Needless to say my Mother saw it coming. When i wanted to move back home i had to ask if it was ok. Of course she wasn't going to say no.. but you have to ask...!
Long story short..do what your Mother tells you. It might seem like it sucks... but there's nothing more important in life than respecting your 'rents! I know that my mother still has the letter that i wrote her. In her eyes it's probably the only thing that's justified putting up with having with me in the first place; let alone raising me for 15 years!
You'll get your License eventually, and be glad when you do.. but your Mother is always right...even when she is wrong. Give her a kiss and tell her you understand. It's the least you can do...
DirkGently said:
Perfect chance for me to slide an apt, drunken rant in. What Jaszek just said is 100% solid. When i started spending nights with my new GF at the age of 15, my mother didn't like it. The 'curfew' was an obvious punishment. It's not like i didn't see it coming, but was i going to ditch my first 'adult' relationship?
So i moved out. It was an emotional day. It hit me all at once what my mother had gone through to raise me to that age. I felt like crap for abandoning ship, but i was going to do what i wanted regardless. The last thing i did before hauling my bags out of the house was write a letter for my mum to find. It was covered in my tears, but told her how grateful i was for all the sacrifices she had made to raise me.
She was good about it. We spoke regularly. It made me realise how tough things had been for her. I signed up to job agencies and went to work to help pay the rent. It sucked, and inevitably it went to pieces. Instead of sitting my GCSE exams i was loading Lorries in a warehouse, pretending i was 18 so that i could get paid.
Needless to say my Mother saw it coming. When i wanted to move back home i had to ask if it was ok. Of course she wasn't going to say no.. but you have to ask...!
Long story short..do what your Mother tells you. It might seem like it sucks... but there's nothing more important in life than respecting your 'rents! I know that my mother still has the letter that i wrote her. In her eyes it's probably the only thing that's justified putting up with having with me in the first place; let alone raising me for 15 years!
You'll get your License eventually, and be glad when you do.. but your Mother is always right...even when she is wrong. Give her a kiss and tell her you understand. It's the least you can do...
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thanks, you guys just opened my eyes, and me realize im being irrational.

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