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Last weekend, while i was at a batchelors party my roomate found it funny to use my user name to create posts. This ended up in me being banned for 7 days and the vulgarity used was very disrespectful to me and this community. He is/was pissed of at me because he hasnt chippd in on rent in about 2 1/2 months so i told him last friday he needed to move. So as i was at the party he used my user name (because cookies enabled im always logged in) and created a new user name using a diffrent broswer. I hope you members can accept my apologie, as im deeply sorry. This was extremely embarrasing to me. And now i have kicked this mother out of my home. again i am deeply sorry for the actions last weekend, and once again i hope you all can forgive the situation. And for reference here is a link to the post i was talking about (CLICK AT YOUR OWN RISK) http://forum.xda-developers.com/showthread.php?t=389943
And again im so so sorry.
don't sweat it man. we all run into people like that who are supposedly our friend's, but reality speak they are nothing more than a bunch of losers.
glad to see u got ur act reinstated.
That was not a good enough punishment. I think you should have to give me your Kasier/tilt/whatever, and that would be a suitable punishment.
thesire said:
don't sweat it man. we all run into people like that who are supposedly our friend's, but reality speak they are nothing more than a bunch of losers.
glad to see u got ur act reinstated.
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i concurr. . pick and choose them wisely.. hopefully this will be an eye opener!
As I previously stated in those threads, I didn't think that was you anyway. Just seemed really out of character to me. Almost child like I thought. No hard feelings here as I didn't think it was you anyway. I couldn't explain the IP similiarities but you just did so in my opinion its the past and there is no need to dwell in the past.
Welcome back.
I really appreciate the support, bad thing is this guy has been a really good friend since college. And ever since he moved in with me its been a nightmare. Well now he had moved in with his parents. I am also filing suit in small claim's to get back rent and utilites that he never paid.
So no tilt for me?
KD8DNS said:
I really appreciate the support, bad thing is this guy has been a really good friend since college. And ever since he moved in with me its been a nightmare. Well now he had moved in with his parents. I am also filing suit in small claim's to get back rent and utilites that he never paid.
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Sometimes its just better to cut your losses and move on.
I too thought it was a little strange to see Banned under your name. I had never seen any wild posts on your part that would have caused it...
Now take that SOB to People's Court so we can all watch him look like a jackass in front of Judge Marilyn Milian.
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That was not a good enough punishment. I think you should have to give me your Kasier/tilt/whatever, and that would be a suitable punishment.
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Yea sure, I work for att so i can hook you up with a tilt (A dummy display)!! ha ha ha ha
Dude!! I was in the same exact situation. I kicked this one guy out, not because of rent, but because of disrespect. He would bring his gf at night and you know what when I was trying to get sleep. I gave the guy consideration to have the place to himself for a few hours. What I did was told him to watch a movie with him and his girlfriend as well as me adn my girlfriend. The movie was called You Me and Dupree (if I got it right) He got the point I was trying to make and at the end of the movie we got in an argument. I won. Yay!
Is it too soon to laugh at this? (Or am I just a bit twisted?).
Still, sorry to here that happen to you mate. Seen it happen on a Wiki I go on and it really pi$$es people off.
Once a vandal created a login of an admin with an i instead of an l in the username, everyone thought the admin had gone nuts. Very funny.
Dave
KD8DNS said:
Yea sure, I work for att so i can hook you up with a tilt (A dummy display)!! ha ha ha ha
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Hmm something to drop infront of a crowed to make them think I broke my preciouseses.. Sounds good to me.
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Hmm something to drop infront of a crowed to make them think I broke my preciouseses.. Sounds good to me.
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p.m. your address to me and ill se what i can do
It all clicks into place now. Yeah I thought the same as P1Tater. You never really attacked the community, but the newbs. Then that day, you got more and more wacky and disrepectful. I thought you had gone off your meds.
BTW, Never become roomates with your buddies, they are always more of a slacker than you expect.
Anyhow, welcome back man.
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It all clicks into place now. Yeah I thought the same as P1Tater. You never really attacked the community, but the newbs. Then that day, you got more and more wacky and disrepectful. I thought you had gone off your meds.
BTW, Never become roomates with your buddies, they are always more of a slacker than you expect.
Anyhow, welcome back man.
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noo, i still taken my crazy pills, i think anyway. (listen do you hear that) what did you say. huh, your freakin me out. Ohhh what was i talking about
Decent
I think its decent of you to respond the way you did to the community. Given what life throws at us from time to time, it makes things like rubbish video drivers on the Kaiser rather a petty complaint (gritted teeth - gimme decent drivers HTC damn it!).
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I think its decent of you to respond the way you did to the community. Given what life throws at us from time to time, it makes things like rubbish video drivers on the Kaiser rather a petty complaint (gritted teeth - gimme decent drivers HTC damn it!).
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Calm down now Buudy. Take it from me, you are going to get ulcers if you worry about the Video Driver issue. My phone works great. Video could be better but, I live stress free not worrying about it.
Thank you
Just wanted to say thanks to all that realized that the disrespectful posts were not me but a immature arse hole x-roommate. (And today is the day i sue his ass in court) i have printed off the posts he created to use in court to justify his character. Anyway thanks much FRIENDS.
With the release of the 2.1 with camera and the new kernel. I've found myself checking this forum every chance I get. It has become so addicting that I can't even think of anything else. Almost once every hour, I get on my laptop pop open my browser and goto xda-developers.com (even in my sleep!). "Did they fix facebook sync?! or maybe video recording!" I ponder in my head as the page loads, secretly crossing my fingers. "Alas not yet, no worries I'll check again in another hour (or maybe 45 minutes)" Making sure I have the LATEST has become more important than meals. My friends don't recognize me anymore, not one shares in my excitement when I say LIVE WALLPAPERS! I don't know what to do. Someone please help.
I hope you are being sarcastic? If not, try getting a girlfriend My girlfriend has significantly reduced the amount of time I spend on here
I have xda open always....feeding directly to my phone..and subscribed to a few threats ;D welcome to our world .... any way of doing some cool XDA tshirts?
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I hope you are being sarcastic? If not, try getting a girlfriend My girlfriend has significantly reduced the amount of time I spend on here
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oddly enough, my girlfriend got me STARTED with this android crap...she bought me the phone lol
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oddly enough, my girlfriend got me STARTED with this android crap...she bought me the phone lol
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Oh damn! I got no solutions then haha.
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With the release of the 2.1 with camera and the new kernel. I've found myself checking this forum every chance I get. It has become so addicting that I can't even think of anything else. Almost once every hour, I get on my laptop pop open my browser and goto xda-developers.com (even in my sleep!). "Did they fix facebook sync?! or maybe video recording!" I ponder in my head as the page loads, secretly crossing my fingers. "Alas not yet, no worries I'll check again in another hour (or maybe 45 minutes)" Making sure I have the LATEST has become more important than meals. My friends don't recognize me anymore, not one shares in my excitement when I say LIVE WALLPAPERS! I don't know what to do. Someone please help.
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HA! I'm glad to know I'm not the only one. My girlfriend isn't fanatical but she thoroughly enjoys the fruits of my obsession(s). She loves fresh 1.1 and the performance improvements of the gumbo kernel.
this was truly funny to read.
with all the crap and drama that's been happening in this forum, i'm so glad you posted something that was truly funny to read and relevant(kind of?) at the same time.
thank you.
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this was truly funny to read.
with all the crap and drama that's been happening in this forum, i'm so glad you posted something that was truly funny to read and relevant(kind of?) at the same time.
thank you.
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glad it helped..i was so sick of the drama myself.
So I'm getting married in 2 months and I'm a T-Mo rep so in essence I live and breath phones. It's just my thing I've been a phone nerd since I started working at T-Mo and got my first Dash. So I was taking a nap before I needed to head to work this afternoon and had a crazy ass dream. I dreamed about my wedding. At some point I was talking with the preacher who is to officiate the wedding and he told me I couldn't get married because he doesn't do 2.1 weddings. My immediate reaction was in shock asking him why he wasn't compatible with Google's Android 2.1 build and if I really had to revert to 1.6 to have the wedding done. Yeah I know weird but I woke up laughing and realizing I might have a problem..
hahahaha You should make a pitch of it and send it to hollywood!
"the Android wedding"
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So I'm getting married in 2 months and I'm a T-Mo rep so in essence I live and breath phones. It's just my thing I've been a phone nerd since I started working at T-Mo and got my first Dash. So I was taking a nap before I needed to head to work this afternoon and had a crazy ass dream. I dreamed about my wedding. At some point I was talking with the preacher who is to officiate the wedding and he told me I couldn't get married because he doesn't do 2.1 weddings. My immediate reaction was in shock asking him why he wasn't compatible with Google's Android 2.1 build and if I really had to revert to 1.6 to have the wedding done. Yeah I know weird but I woke up laughing and realizing I might have a problem..
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That's different
I'm wondering if you "future" wife to be knows about your adiction to XDA and phones
oh she is very aware of it. She wanted to buy a Cliq when she last had an upgrade and I refused to let her get a phone that has practically no real devs supporting it and got her a MT3G instead. She came home last night around 10pm and asked if I'd eaten I replied with "no" and her immediate response was, "well you could always eat one of your phones, they got that donut, eclair stuff on them, right?"
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oh she is very aware of it. She wanted to buy a Cliq when she last had an upgrade and I refused to let her get a phone that has practically no real devs supporting it and got her a MT3G instead. She came home last night around 10pm and asked if I'd eaten I replied with "no" and her immediate response was, "well you could always eat one of your phones, they got that donut, eclair stuff on them, right?"
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That's funny! she sounds like a keeper
Fasho. Lmaoo. Donut Eclair stuff. I think another person has been infected with the Epidemic of ORD. Can I get a Holla back?
lol, love it!
Gotta love crazy messed up dreams!
Damn... why always girls are jeleaous of XDA and our stuff? the car... the phone... the PC... the dog... the house...
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Damn... why always girls are jeleaous of XDA and our stuff? the car... the phone... the PC... the dog... the house...
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Yeap, that's my wife....We will never understand them....
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Yeap, that's my wife....We will never understand them....
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No. We understand them, they don't understand how good an All Head Shot Kill Streak on MW2 is.
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No. We understand them, they don't understand how good an All Head Shot Kill Streak on MW2 is.
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I actually started laughing at this in my office.... maybe I should get back to work...
it is very true though, my fianceé never understands the complexities involved in getting a killstreak greater then 3... typical...
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I actually started laughing at this in my office.... maybe I should get back to work...
it is very true though, my fianceé never understands the complexities involved in getting a killstreak greater then 3... typical...
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EXACTLY! HARD AS CRAP! And when you miss and you throw the controller and move about like a retard crying, they look at you like your crazy.
GIRL PLEASE!
Red means I had to censorship myself.
lol, its worse when I start telling myself to aim up, or, if I make game me look up, and do the same in person, or, even worse, start insulting myself for missing a shot! (I play with sound off a lot so I don't wake my little girl when she is sleeping, so someone has to insult me! [Apart from the missus....])
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EXACTLY! HARD AS CRAP! And when you miss and you throw the controller and move about like a retard crying, they look at you like your crazy.
GIRL PLEASE!
Red means I had to censorship myself.
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My girlfriend is totally the opposite. she lets me play or be on my gadgets whenever i want. even she has interests in them =)
Wow!! You guys do have a lot of free time
and djteotancolis...you have a girlfriend??
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Wow!! You guys do have a lot of free time
and djteotancolis...you have a girlfriend??
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I have a lot of free time it's the half term in england for me!!!!!!!!!
all the time in the world
no not really went for such a long bike ride in the morning so so so tired and it's only 6 here!
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Wow!! You guys do have a lot of free time
and djteotancolis...you have a girlfriend??
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ummm why? i'm not icky like you
djteotancolis said:
ummm why? i'm not icky like you
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You can only wish to be as good looking and smart as yours truly
Hello dj
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You can only wish to be as good looking and smart as yours truly
Hello dj
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atleast i know i'm better lookin than you and have a better life
hahahahaha hey people i know how orb goes around the forums without it saying he's online and i can do it and am doing it now!!!
So this has absolutely nothing to do with Android or anything...
So me and my wife have been together since freshman year in high school we are now 27.. have a 7 year old and a 1 month old. I love her.. and would never cheat on her..
A week or so ago I got a message from a cute chick on facebook saying she wanted to be my friend. I asked her why she said because she thought i looked cute in my pictures. I told her she wasn't so bad looking and we had a kind of flirty conversation. I did however tell her about my wife and kids and we talked about things like where we live and what not.. noting more than a PG conversation..
IT NEVER WENT ANY FARTHER THAN THIS CONVERSATION AND ONLY ONCE...
So i left my FB page up and my wife snooped and read my messages.. she is now crying..
I do feel bad that she got her feelings hurt, but i don't really feel like i did anything wrong..
Let me know what you guys think about my mess i made... just curious about outside opinions..
Well, just tell her it was a mistake.
You were stupid and just liked the attention. It wasn't like you intended to cheat on her.
Think about how you would feel if you seen her doing that to you.
Nothing will gain you're trust back from her but time...
The above is very good advice.
This seems like a weird place to ask such a question, but what the hell, I'll give it a shot too.
Tell her you love her very much and that you would never, ever cheat on her. You have to be absolutely sincere about this and make yourself believe it even if you actually did think about cheating. Any doubt that you show she will pick up on now.
PS: I've never understood why everyone loves Facebook. I hate that ****.
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Well, just tell her it was a mistake.
You were stupid and just liked the attention. It wasn't like you intended to cheat on her.
Think about how you would feel if you seen her doing that to you.
Nothing will gain you're trust back from her but time...
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Thanks. Good advice
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The above is very good advice.
This seems like a weird place to ask such a question, but what the hell, I'll give it a shot too.
Tell her you love her very much and that you would never, ever cheat on her. You have to be absolutely sincere about this and make yourself believe it even if you actually did think about cheating. Any doubt that you show she will pick up on now.
PS: Facebook sucks.
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I am sincere. I had no intentions of cheating..
LOL and i know but I am here alot you guys are like family and it seemed like a good place to get non objective view..
Its reasons like that me and my wife share a FB account. Full freaking transparency! Just tell her you got caught up for a minute because we all like to be flattered once in a while. I'm sure she has flirted at some point behind your back.
In times of great personal conflict and inner-turmoil with the ones I love, I also think of turning to an cell-phone internet message board of complete strangers for advice.
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Its reasons like that me and my wife share a FB account. Full freaking transparency! Just tell her you got caught up for a minute because we all like to be flattered once in a while. I'm sure she has flirted at some point behind your back.
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+1 to this. My wife and I share one too and have the privacy set high. We orignally got it to "spy" on people but have since put some stuff on there. Agree also with the "everyone wants to feel special" once in awhile aspect too. I can garauntee that if you try hard enough, you can find some instance that she has flirted too, but why would you want to do that b/c you'll just end up over analyzing everything. Just say you are sorry.
Side story:
A long time ago (15+) before FB, G+ ot twitter, I used to work nights in college. I got home late one night and my girlfriend at the time was asleep. The phone rang and I used to have this habit of screwing with tele-marketers to hopefully piss them off enough to drop my number.
This time it was just a wrong number, but there was a shy, what sounded like a cute voice on the other line that apologized for calling the wrong number. Before she got off the phone, I asked her what she was wearing and messed with her a little bit, then hung up. Told my girlfriend in the morning about it and we laughed (full disclosure-sorry I'm honest like that).
Anyways this girl called back the next night too and this time my girlfriend was up and we totally messed with this girls head and got her to agree to meet for a 3-way (only problem was she didn't know my GF was on the phone so it was going to be with her and her boyfriend-I don't do two swords if you know what I mean).
Long story short, we completely messed with this girl and my phone company at the time had this feature that if right after you got an annoying call you could hit *57 and if you did it to the same number 3 times in one month, it got their phone shut off for a month for harassing.
If you can't or won't follow though woth something, don't chat with someone you don't know. For all you know, it could have been me on the other side of the Facebook message.
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I am sincere. I had no intentions of cheating..
LOL and i know but I am here alot you guys are like family and it seemed like a good place to get non objective view..
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Yeah man, what you SHOULD do now, dont know if youre willing to do so, but you should just give her your facebook password. If you know youre not going to do anything like that again, she should be able to have it.
It will get a LOADDD off her shoulders knowing she doesnt have to sneak up on you, but rather look for herself at any time.
Hope everything goes well for you man. Just give it time.
FACEBOOK IS FULL OF PEOPLE YOU USED TO KNOW AND DONT WANT TO TALK TO, TWITTER IS FULL OF PEOPLE YOU DONT KNOW AND WOULD LIKE TO TALK TO..IMO,Hope everything works out,
hope everything is working out.
Im just a couple yrs older than you and have have been married about the same time, have 1 child also; so I can understand how this would be a really emotional situation for her and then you.
others gave good advice. be honest w her. tell her it was a mistake. let her look through all your other FB, email, ect... messages to prove to her that this was a one time semi-inocent situation.
even though you did nothing wrong, and maybe you did not, but put yourself in her situation. if you found that on her FB, you would probably be pretty pissed too (at least I would be).
so let her look at everything, give her your passwords, what ever you need to show her that this was a one time incident, that it was nothing more then casual chatting, but you understand that she is upset and you see how it looks now, you would be too in her situation, and that you wont do it again.
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Online cheating is cheating.
I have a different opinion.
I think you should have never added her and never had any type of conversation with her. There is no reason a married man with children should be adding random females to his Facebook.
Secondly, you said you had no intention of cheating, but what about online cheating? What if she had asked you to get on Skype so she could give you a little show. Are you telling me you wouldn't go and watch and maybe join on Skype yourself?
That is my opinion. We live in a new world, and online relationships are a form of cheating in my opinion. You wouldn't sit with this girl at a coffee shop and chit chat, you shouldn't online either.
That's why I'm getting married till I'm like late 20's/early 30's
Hope it works out mate!
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So this has absolutely nothing to do with Android or anything...
So me and my wife have been together since freshman year in high school we are now 27.. have a 7 year old and a 1 month old. I love her.. and would never cheat on her..
A week or so ago I got a message from a cute chick on facebook saying she wanted to be my friend. I asked her why she said because she thought i looked cute in my pictures. I told her she wasn't so bad looking and we had a kind of flirty conversation. I did however tell her about my wife and kids and we talked about things like where we live and what not.. noting more than a PG conversation..
IT NEVER WENT ANY FARTHER THAN THIS CONVERSATION AND ONLY ONCE...
So i left my FB page up and my wife snooped and read my messages.. she is now crying..
I do feel bad that she got her feelings hurt, but i don't really feel like i did anything wrong..
Let me know what you guys think about my mess i made... just curious about outside opinions..
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Tell her you love her AND that you were A COMPETE DUMBASS for having a meaningless, stupid convo. Then be good and don't do this AGAIN!
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One day I was at my girlfriend's house, her hot sister came to me and asked if I would like to sleep with her. I was shocked, and, as fast as I could, ran out of the house to my car. To my surprise my girlfriend was outside leaning against the car. She then said, "I knew I could trust you! ", then gave me a hug and told me she loved me.
Moral of the story?
Always keep your condoms in your car.
Wow, what a mess you've gotten yourself into.
If you haven't already, I think you need to first know and understand why your wife is upset.
After years of marriage, she certainly knows you as a person. If you're the type of person who doesn't cheat, she probably knows it. So it's not really a matter of "cheating".
It's a matter of loyalty and sense of security.
It's inevitable that people change over time. They're older, wiser, have different perspectives, etc. But the one thing that doesn't (ie, shouldn't) change is your commitment to your spouse.
when people first started dating, they think they're the perfect match for each other. After years of marriage you might:
-pack on some extra weight
-lose some hair
-no longer buy flowers for your wife
-no longer put up the toilet seat
-have different political views
-discover both of you have different tastes in music
-etc
But, damn it, she knows that at least she can confidently say "After all this time, my husband still loves me."
And if she has a bad day at work or if she just needs a hug, you're there for her. No matter what, you're suppose to have her back. You're her pillar to lean on. She might not need your support all the time, but she knows that if she does, you're there all the time, rock solid.
That "pillar" is what you've compromised here.
So when trying to make amends, don't focus on the FB chat. That's not the real issue at hand. Do what you need to do to let her know that you're still there for her.
TO YOUR WIFE :
plz forgive him, it's nothing, he's a loving husband if he's asking such a small thing here, that means he loves you alot.
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now THATS a helpful answer xD
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Me and my GF had a three day fight cause I never changed my Facebook profile from "single" to "in a relationship", and she thinks she had it bad. Of cpurse her drama queen sister conviced her it was so i can cheat. I only log in once or twice a month and never thought to change it.
OP you guys should just delete all your Facebook profiles, its more trouble than it's worth, like the situation you got into.
Facebook is nothing but a gathering for information and statistics anyway.
Simply don't post stuff at all
Hey guys, i don't do anything like this usually,its way awkward for me. But desperate times call for desperate measures as they say... Iv'e dated only one girl all my life...we have been in a stable relationship since the past 8 and a half years. but since the last two years,because of my career and all,and because of some silly things that happened, i did the worst mistake of my life. i abused her,didnt respect her and never trusted her even when i knew she is a good person...she loves my alot but three weeks back she left town to pursue her higher studies...eventually,she let it all out and told me she no longer wants to be in a relationship with me...last week was our anniversary and she didn't even bother to wish me...instead she said she likes someone else now. im shattered. i know somewhere deep down that this may not be the case and she wont ever do anything like this..we are from india and from conservative families.our families know about us and they all love me. still i went ahead and fell so low and have even messaged that guy on facebook today and begged him to leave this on for me...he's 26 and 4 years elder to me and my girl..he must be taking care and maybe thats why she slipped. i dunno what to do but i wanna get her back cos all ive been doing since last week is cry. i cannot afford to lose her or i know il\'ll ruin my life...
dear friends at XDA, i need your help.all i want is that if i post a number her...can you guys please send just one small sms to her with your own message for her to come back to me and end the sms with "varun loves you"? if you guys think i should still have her,will you please help me out...its a request and my life is dependent on that girl.please.
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Hey guys, i don't do anything like this usually,its way awkward for me. But desperate times call for desperate measures as they say... Iv'e dated only one girl all my life...we have been in a stable relationship since the past 8 and a half years. but since the last two years,because of my career and all,and because of some silly things that happened, i did the worst mistake of my life. i abused her,didnt respect her and never trusted her even when i knew she is a good person...she loves my alot but three weeks back she left town to pursue her higher studies...eventually,she let it all out and told me she no longer wants to be in a relationship with me...last week was our anniversary and she didn't even bother to wish me...instead she said she likes someone else now. im shattered. i know somewhere deep down that this may not be the case and she wont ever do anything like this..we are from india and from conservative families.our families know about us and they all love me. still i went ahead and fell so low and have even messaged that guy on facebook today and begged him to leave this on for me...he's 26 and 4 years elder to me and my girl..he must be taking care and maybe thats why she slipped. i dunno what to do but i wanna get her back cos all ive been doing since last week is cry. i cannot afford to lose her or i know il\'ll ruin my life...
dear friends at XDA, i need your help.all i want is that if i post a number her...can you guys please send just one small sms to her with your own message for her to come back to me and end the sms with "varun loves you"? if you guys think i should still have her,will you please help me out...its a request and my life is dependent on that girl.please.
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Ok,it seems like you need help from an expert.
You mistreated her.and they hate that.you cant act like that to a girl! Se is always right,even if shes wrong.and if you really love her,you will understand that.you need to apologize,and tell her you made a huge mistake,and that you cant live without her.that she is your whole life,and you will do anything to get her back.now go get her!
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1st off..the worst you can do, you have done..
2nd..if she likes someone else and has moved on, i suggest you move on too...it is but natural that the depression last for a few days but make new friends and move on..dont stop talking though..
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Ok,it seems like you need help from an expert.
You mistreated her.and they hate that.you cant act like that to a girl! Se is always right,even if shes wrong.and if you really love her,you will understand that.you need to apologize,and tell her you made a huge mistake,and that you cant live without her.that she is your whole life,and you will do anything to get her back.now go get her!
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That "you are my life, cant live without you" ****e works rarely..no girl who is genuinely angry and hurt will believe in that..
i know it that i have done mistakes...im working on that...it's hard for me and i know its even harder for her...i guess i took her for granted...she has loved me more than i can all her life...i dont know why after all these years she did this..she could have asked me to change,but she left by the time i realized my mistakes. problem is...she has blocked me everywhere,i cannot contact her on whatsapp or facebook or anywhere...she doesn't pick up unknown calls and india has limited the number of sms we can send to 20. i have three simcards and thats all i can manage to send.i never wrote to her a love letter even once,,,thanks to email and all...but today i even mailed her a 6 page long letter along with her favourite chocolates...i am not asking her to continue this relationship rihgt now...i will change and become the guy she always wanted and only then if she wants she can come back. she still loves me too much to leave me...maybe she's doing this to make me realize the importance of my career and to be a nice guy.. btw,both of us are android buffs,so i turned towards xda to help me out.
Since she's your first girlfriend, this also means that this is the first time you've experienced this. The feelings you're having are normal. You'll be sad and maybe cry for a while, but that's just natural. The worst thing you can do now is "stalking" her or send tons of SMS' or constantly calling her. Let her have some space and time to think, then after a while you can try to contact her and see if she wants to talk. If she says no, then move on. You can't force her to be with you.
I know you're having a hard time, but this is life.
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i know it that i have done mistakes...im working on that...it's hard for me and i know its even harder for her...i guess i took her for granted...she has loved me more than i can all her life...i dont know why after all these years she did this..she could have asked me to change,but she left by the time i realized my mistakes. problem is...she has blocked me everywhere,i cannot contact her on whatsapp or facebook or anywhere...she doesn't pick up unknown calls and india has limited the number of sms we can send to 20. i have three simcards and thats all i can manage to send.i never wrote to her a love letter even once,,,thanks to email and all...but today i even mailed her a 6 page long letter along with her favourite chocolates...i am not asking her to continue this relationship rihgt now...i will change and become the guy she always wanted and only then if she wants she can come back. she still loves me too much to leave me...maybe she's doing this to make me realize the importance of my career and to be a nice guy., she has a number on which she uses EDGE...its safe to post here cos she cannot recieve calls,just messages. . its a request if ppl can just message her anything that ends with "varun loves you" please no offences. btw,both of us are android buffs,so i turned towards xda to help me out.
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You say android buffs, make something special for her...
Honestly, move on..
its safe to post here cos she cannot recieve calls,just messages. [number removed]. its a request if ppl can just message her anything that ends with "varun loves you" please no offences. btw,both of us are android buffs,so i turned towards xda to help me out.
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I would advice you to remove that number from your post. This is a public forum after all.
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You say android buffs, make something special for her...
Honestly, move on..
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i did.sent her a pendrive as well with a video...added something close to her heart in it. she's immature at times but a very nice person...i cnnot move on like this...afterall, how couldn't i be possessive for someone who makes me what i am...i love her..i have to do all this...just cannot let her go that easily!
You're smothering her. The things you're doing right now doesn't help. At all.
varunoza said:
i did.sent her a pendrive as well with a video...added something close to her heart in it. she's immature at times but a very nice person...i cnnot move on like this...afterall, how couldn't i be possessive for someone who makes me what i am...i love her..i have to do all this...just cannot let her go that easily!
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No one's telling you to move on without trying..like i said, talk to her, explain your past and current situation and tell her you realise your mistake and promise you wont do it again..(not in the right mind atleast)..then give her some time to think over it(even if she gives a straight answer immediately) and if she comes back, well and good, if not, you need to move on too..
I have two bits of advice for you.
Firstly, if you do this...
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dear friends at XDA, i need your help.all i want is that if i post a number her...can you guys please send just one small sms to her with your own message for her to come back to me and end the sms with "varun loves you"? if you guys think i should still have her,will you please help me out...its a request and my life is dependent on that girl.please.
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it will be immediately removed, probably reported by other members, and you will get in trouble for posting it. Do you really think that if you post her mobile number on here people will send her text messages telling her you love her, or do you think she'll get people ringing and texting her and "having fun" at her expense. Probably a bit of both. Do not post her number - official all proper and stuff mod warning for you!
Secondly, if she wants to move on then you have to move on as well. I know that's not what you want to hear, but you're going to have to do it eventually so you may as well start now. Accept that she has gone and get on with your life without her. When you're with the next love of your life you probably won't even think about her.
Harsh, but true.
Archer said:
I have two bits of advice for you.
Firstly, if you do this...
it will be immediately removed, probably reported by other members, and you will get in trouble for posting it. Do you really think that if you post her mobile number on here people will send her text messages telling her you love her, or do you think she'll get people ringing and texting her and "having fun" at her expense. Probably a bit of both. Do not post her number - official all proper and stuff mod warning for you!
Secondly, if she wants to move on then you have to move on as well. I know that's not what you want to hear, but you're going to have to do it eventually so you may as well start now. Accept that she has gone and get on with your life without her. When you're with the next love of your life you probably won't even think about her.
Harsh, but true.
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Wholly agreed upon..
this crap happened with me too, but i moved on..and as stated :
When you're with the next love of your life you probably won't even think about her.
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maybe i can't give you the best advise, after all i'm just 15 but i'd recommend this: have some time to think, just 1 or 2 or maybe if you need 3 days... just think about what she can reply to any of your words. at these days don't bother her - they are for looking inside yourself. make your speech perfect. then ask her (someway) to just sit down and talk normally - this way she will know you have changed, not by begging... then you take out your previously thought up speech and hope for the best... and one more thing - be positive - that way everything will turn up alright and in the best way possible
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Yup...removed it. Had posted cos its number for her dongle.she cannot receive calls...I know I should be patient...if I am though...I'll lose her to someone else ..I'm just scared
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varunoza said:
Yup...removed it. Had posted cos its number for her dongle.she cannot receive calls...I know I should be patient...if I am though...I'll lose her to someone else ..I'm just scared
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She already does like someone else, doesnt she?
Of course you're scared. But she's in control now, and you can't change that. Sending her loads of text messages won't help you. Give her time, and if she misses you, she'll contact you herself. I've been in this mess myself, and acting like a maniac with low self-esteem doesn't help.
Call your buds and do things with them. Play some Xbox or something and get your thoughts on something else.
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She already does like someone else, doesnt she?
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Im in mumbai and she went to Manipal recently...she says she likes a guy she just met in her batch...and he treats her much better than what i did..it scrares the **** outta me cos never in the last 8 years she said something like this.
Buy her a android phone,and tell her to join xda we wil talk to her! Lolz!
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King ACE said:
She already does like someone else, doesnt she?
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Looks like it, and that means that she's had an eye on the other guy for a while, which isn't good news.
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stanlin salu said:
Buy her a android phone,and tell her to join xda we wil talk to her! Lolz!
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Hey hey hey, we got Dr.Phil for a reason
LordManhattan said:
Looks like it, and that means that she's had an eye on the other guy for a while, which isn't good news.
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Hey hey hey, we got Dr.Phil for a reason
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Yup, not good news...