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ok first thing...i swear this is not about me (believe me or not...its not bout' me) my friend likes this chick, he really likes her but she doesnt like him but they are friends and talk and wutever but she doesnt like him like that. I told him to let it go and just stop messin' wit her so he doesnt think bout her, he isnt the most social person but he wants to ask her out (i said no) wut would u do in his situation? (i kno every ones gonna be like thats a personal problem and blah blah blah, just wanted some input on this...other opinions dont hurt)
I'd Say this Qualifies for off topic.
He needs to realize Real Life Is nothing like TV if The Girls doesn't like him, She's not going to randomly start liking him.
If he values their friendship and wants to keep it No asky her out. If He is willing to lose that. Ask her out. People seem to forget the worst she can do is say "No."
If I was him, I would think of ways like: What does she like and what can I make her to like me?
Never give up.. Are you a guy? Proove it!
am i guy? hahaha
this chick is hot too, i dont talk to her like my boy does ( ithink shes a bizzzatch) but its another chick...i tell him ur not getting married to her u will meet so many other girls and to let it go...but she seems (to me) that she would only go out wit those hot guys u kno? here: say ur at a party and there is the best chick, chillin', (ur not the hottest guy) and she looks at u and make it seem like ur not her "their" type and she can only go wit hot dudes...it like that except my bro talks to the chick but u can tell she doesnt like him...(i hate chicks like this)
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ok first thing...i swear this is not about me (believe me or not...its not bout' me) my friend likes this chick, he really likes her but she doesnt like him but they are friends and talk and wutever but she doesnt like him like that. I told him to let it go and just stop messin' wit her so he doesnt think bout her, he isnt the most social person but he wants to ask her out (i said no) wut would u do in his situation? (i kno every ones gonna be like thats a personal problem and blah blah blah, just wanted some input on this...other opinions dont hurt)
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Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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BEST. ADVICE. EVER.
Olipro said:
Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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I'm using this!
I wonder if this guy is one of those guys that are perpetually the "friend". One of those guys that girls like to chat too, but only as a friend. They'd never look at him romantically in any way.
My advice...move on. There's other hot chicks out there to ask. Find one, ask and if she says no, she's not good enough for you. Her loss. Keep head up and move on till the fish bite.
That's my two cents anyways.
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I wonder if this guy is one of those guys that are perpetually the "friend". One of those guys that girls like to chat too, but only as a friend. They'd never look at him romantically in any way.
My advice...move on. There's other hot chicks out there to ask. Find one, ask and if she says no, she's not good enough for you. Her loss. Keep head up and move on till the fish bite.
That's my two cents anyways.
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perfect answer, that's the only way. This happened thrice to me, i was totally lost until i recognized that there's more to life than focussing on what will never be. Interestingly, one of them changed her mind a few days after i got another girl ...
... and the answer is: MOVE ON ...
yea i agree with the last 2 comments...im gonna show him this ahahha...there is so many girls out there
My advice...have your friend value friendship over asking out, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Olipro said:
Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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The best advice in the whole world!
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That would be great advice if you hadn't dug up a thread from 2008! ......
Olipro said:
Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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Bad nerd! BAD, BAD NERD! NO!
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mrahm01 said:
My advice...have your friend value friendship over asking out, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Bros before (u know what here).
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He could ask her to go out for a meal and just see if there would be be a chance,it would be perfectly normal for him to at least ask.
If she says no just stay as friends,if they are good friends it wouldn't take much to go back to normal.
Its not as if he's married and fancies another girl...Thats a dilemma!....
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Tell him not to mess up a good friendship with her and if its meant to be then they will be together .
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That would be great advice if you hadn't dug up a thread from 2008! ......
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Good advice is still good advice.
I think no need to run after one girlfriend. Yes, you need to achieve, but you need to understand a categorical refusal. Therefore, I suggest trying again, but if it doesn’t work out, you should look for a new girlfriend.
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I think no need to run after one girlfriend. Yes, you need to achieve, but you need to understand a categorical refusal. Therefore, I suggest trying again, but if it doesn’t work out, you should look for a new girlfriend.
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A 2008 thread and then re-awoke in 2011 and then now....
HEy im not trying to compare the iPhone to the G1, but I was looking at my Aunts iPhone and she has a Mobsters and Racing app. Can someone PLEASE make that for the G1. If you havent seen it, go get someones iPhone and try it. Its very similar to te myspace version. I just really want to play it. If i knew how to create it I would. Thanks to who ever can do it or has already.
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hey im not trying to compare the iphone to the g1, but i was looking at my aunts iphone and she has a mobsters and racing app. Can someone please make that for the g1. If you havent seen it, go get someones iphone and try it. Its very similar to te myspace version. I just really want to play it. If i knew how to create it i would. Thanks to who ever can do it or has already.
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i second that!!!! I need mafia wars!!!! Asap!!! The downloadable version... Cause the version we have for the g1 is a weblink.... Go check the iphone's setup for mafia wars... And make it happen... With a widget thats linked to the app to keep me posted on whats going on..... Oh and have them all connected so when i have signal i can add other g1 users to my mafia.... Hey i dont think im asking for to much... Just cool animation... Vibration... Led notification... You know ... The works!!!.... Oh and this one is very very important...... Being that the mafia wars for the iphone.... Is.... Fffrrrreeeeeeeeeee...... Free!!!!!.... So there you go... Wake it happen
Make me whatever I ask for and make it free because I don't understand that people have other stuff to do and would like some money to make things that take up there precious time! Make me the fastest car in the world, get on it, and oh yeah give it to me for free!!
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Make me whatever I ask for and make it free because I don't understand that people have other stuff to do and would like some money to make things that take up there precious time! Make me the fastest car in the world, get on it, and oh yeah give it to me for free!!
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oh god... here you go.... smh.... you must be one of those people thats making another app ... thats the same as four other apps that was created.... 60 of the same apps on here.... everyone has a file manager... everyone has a note pad.....just asking for something that people actually wanna see on the maket besides.. 100 ahome themes....
Actually I have little knowledge in java. But if you want something so bad, go get a book on android's sdk and get to some reading.
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oh god... here you go.... smh.... you must be one of those people thats making another app ... thats the same as four other apps that was created.... 60 of the same apps on here.... everyone has a file manager... everyone has a note pad.....just asking for something that people actually wanna see on the maket besides.. 100 ahome themes....
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you are the very embodyment of what is wrong with the internet.
If you want it that much, get studying already. Learn the OOP basics, learn java (it's really not that hard) and start practicing just like everyone else by...for example....making a notepad or filemanager.
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you are the very embodyment of what is wrong with the internet.
If you want it that much, get studying already. Learn the OOP basics, learn java (it's really not that hard) and start practicing just like everyone else by...for example....making a notepad or filemanager.
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okay if your not gonna make the app then why are you talking.... cause nobody knows you... or even asked for your opinion....
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I don't even know how to reply to such stupidity.
I'm guessing he was drunk
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.............jibberish.......Dotdevil.. thank you
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Looks like someone learned about the ellipsis in grammar class today. Oh wait, excessive ellipsis usage is part of your online persona, hence the screenname "Dotdevil". Neat.
Im shoked..... that my original post.... i agree that a mafia wars type of game should be made.... a simple requst being that there is an actuall thread to where people can request / give ideas about apps..... all this was .....was a simple game... hope that someone with the time or someone that needed a new project ... would step up if was willing to.......It wasnt a stupid game or a dumb idea....
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To everyone out there on my post blowing it up with loads of bull, your ignorant. If your not going create the app then stop waisting time posting stupid comments in reference to my post. Your waisting my time and yours. All I asked was if someone could I would greatly appreciate it, that means if you cant or dont want to then dont reply at all. Ya'll childish as crap. Stop complaining and ranting and move on with ya life.
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this is epic
How do I forward this comment to my inner thoughts? Do I need one of those cool $700 - $1000 CAR RADIOS with (fm transmitter)?
At least I can understand why my question is an invalid one, but it is very funny to me that you're trying to make fun of me without even knowing what you're making fun of. Building a flash light app is way beyond your level of comprehension of anything. I do feel bad for your son, his own father cannot construct a simple question or make sense in an argument. I do hope your persona is just a joke because you sir are a sad excuse as a human being.
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Mods, nuke this whole thread, please. Bring XDA back to what it was. This whole place is a joke now.
I'm closing the thread guys.. this is ridiculous, 2 pages of flaming and arguing..
Please, Please be respectful and try to be helpful..
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Whenever you give users—especially kids—a photo sharing application where they can upload their own photos, you're gonna get some nudity. That's fine, except for the part where I said kids. Now it's bad news for Apple.
We can see how they approved the app, since it's innocent by itself (a photo sharing and uploading app). But when 15 year old girls start uploading topless photos of themselves, like the previously approved and then denied Hottest Girls app, that's when someone needs to take the app off the market.
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thats bad.
But its just a part of larger malaise. We are determined to eradicate it.
mate has got the program on his iPhone, tis a good program, very funny.
he has had it for a week and hasnt been lucky enough to get any 'Adult' pictures yet.
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
so.... What a lucky guy!!!!
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so.... What a lucky guy!!!!
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i think uv misunderstood the topic
the application for the iphone has child pornography not monly is this stuff sicks it highly illegal
No I didn't!!!!
hehehehehehe
im confused
this means there is picture of children naked on a n iphone app
how is this lucky?
forget it
Forget it dude! forget it...
remenber one more thing please...
The one who searchs... find.
I know a monster that is on every house of this fu*_*n world called--- Internet--- and something even worst!!!! bad dad's!! unresponsible fathers... thats about we must to be aware... not if we let our divece to our children... cellphones never will be on hands of a child!
See winmo too it has a great app with this enhacement!
We sucks Srs not phone platforms! be smart.
Skyfire great with flash videos! as you can see below... MODS Im going to delete this but i need to hold this till this guys keep it on their minds! Thanks.
Oh BTW censored her face please kraize...
Removed the offensive pics!!!!
Wow... that's just disgusting.
You should delete that picture + Que PPC, it is really gross... (and your "joke" wasn't funny either)
Applications like this need to be monitored, and that girl needs to get legal action. To punish her? No, but to show her parents what she is doing, and maybe get her some help. Girls who that do it have problems with their self-image... it is very sad.
I've seen many stories like this, but when I see people doing stuff like this (especially kids/teens drinking, nude, doing drugs) on the news, I still get this sick feeling in my stomach... these kids need help.
Thats the reason i did it derek!
Cause its not funny to get hiden into an app and a fu*_*d thing like the app is the reason for all!
Do whatever you want dudes if a mod bann me for a few days is alright with me. cause my point is solid...
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So... mikey1022... the first post pic isnt offensive? come on dude even thought... her face is shown!
blaming apple for this is like blaming google for letting me do a search for "nude jailbait" or something else equally silly.
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blaming apple for this is like blaming google for letting me do a search for "nude jailbait" or something else equally silly.
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Actually. I was just making fun of apple.. I know it's not their fault, but it's their loss either way.
technology comes with its costs. We should ready to pay for all those pleasures.
This is disgusting and degrading! how can you people call this lucky?! Where is your respect and modesty? Adults are the root of this evil, act your age and promote positive attitudes and influences!!! While sure you could say it is the media blah blah blah, but then again who is the media made up of? adults. This is repulsive.
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This is disgusting and degrading! how can you people call this lucky?! Where is your respect and modesty? Adults are the root of this evil, act your age and promote positive attitudes and influences!!! While sure you could say it is the media blah blah blah, but then again who is the media made up of? adults. This is repulsive.
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Two things... first, nobody "forced" her to take the picture. She knew what she was doing. Everyone has their own choices, and they must take responsablity.
And all adults aren't evil... just adults who act like horny teenagers...
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Two things... first, nobody "forced" her to take the picture. She knew what she was doing. Everyone has their own choices, and they must take responsablity.
And all adults aren't evil... just adults who act like horny teenagers...
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i didnt say all where i said they adults were, in general. And maybe if the girl was raised better she would make smarter/better choices? :O
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i didnt say all where i said they adults were, in general. And maybe if the girl was raised better she would make smarter/better choices? :O
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But just how bad your parents are doesn't mean you should, say, go kill someone. I know plenty of people that have had terrible parents/child hoods and have become great people. I think people are just looking for an excuse for their behavior.
no derek i think shes right
if a person is taught proper morals and have a better upbringing then they dont do this
and it falls to the adults everytime
yes she took the picture
but surely here parnts know about what shes up to?
if they dont then they must be neglectful
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But just how bad your parents are doesn't mean you should, say, go kill someone. I know plenty of people that have had terrible parents/child hoods and have become great people. I think people are just looking for an excuse for their behavior.
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Well that just puts us back at the: either learn the easy way or the hard way. And you're saying that parents/upbring plays little role in how people turn out? sure some have ****ty parents but what about other adults? or other friends that have been raised properly in which the troubled child looks to them for guidance and love.
This one's for all my fellow men out there (Fallen Sparten). The guys (us ORD's). My homies (pretty much everyone). Even people who tend to use big words and diss us (you know who you are *Jagurrie*). Don't you just hate it when a girl keeps texting you. And then like, you don't want to text back but you do anyway. And you don't know what to talk about. And you don't really want to flirt with her because you don't like her. And even if you do like her, you don't know if she's for real or not. So then it gets boring. And then you try to keep her laughing because you have nothing better to do. But then you don't know if your jokes are funny enough. So what do you do?
sounds like ur not really into her from what ive learned in ur post ... u should just friendzone her , treat her like a boy and she'll wash off ... that is if she doesnt have some nice friends , cuz in that case u could exploit ur "friendship" with her nicely (cough wingman cough)
COUGH if your talking about yourself idrk u n datd be weird cuz yeah COUGH!
so what do u prefer to do?
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........you don't know if she's for real or not.
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Take the red pill.
Eww dude no I know her friend... sikke! I dont't know. I'll see what I'm finna do. N it's kinda awkward she's friends with some girls that don't really like me cuz they're player haters so yeaah.
I want the blue frickin pill. It allows me to touch my G1.
I hear if you can't get them after the first drugging, you never get them
What would u know about girls?
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What would u know about girls?
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Obviously more than you, I'm not the one asking for help on a tech forum.
I had a feeling you were going to say that. I'm asking if anyone else has had a clingy girl... just cause I don't use big words doesn't mean u have to make me look stupid.
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This one's for all my fellow men out there (Fallen Sparten). The guys (us ORD's). My homies (pretty much everyone). Even people who tend to use big words and diss us (you know who you are *Jagurrie*). Don't you just hate it when a girl keeps texting you. And then like, you don't want to text back but you do anyway. And you don't know what to talk about. And you don't really want to flirt with her because you don't like her. And even if you do like her, you don't know if she's for real or not. So then it gets boring. And then you try to keep her laughing because you have nothing better to do. But then you don't know if your jokes are funny enough. So what do you do?
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get drunk and then start texting/talking..
I'm dracula.
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get drunk and then start texting/talking..
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LoL...deifnitely I will do this...
First I'd find out if she is in fact actually a 'she', then I'd find out what age she 'really' is so I wouldn't get a knock on the door by the police.
If you've got the above info and you're satisfied that its correct, then text away. If you are unsure of what to say, I always find a bottle of whiskey helps with this.....makes you more relaxed, less nervous and you come up with completely insane things to say....which will keep her interested as lets be honest. If you're boring and not funny she'll stop texting you back
If you're really stuck on what to say/ask....just type in something like 'Things to ask a girl' into Google and I'm sure you'll probably get lots of sites with advice
Best of luck
Lol she goes to my school so no worries.
Lol at u suggesting that. You sure do like to google things don't you!?
So none of you Maa Flippers are answering my ?
Who's ever had an annoying girl?
Me getting many girls have had many.
U?
Simple advice...
If you do want to talk to her...text her back.
If you don't want to talk to her...just ignore her text messages.
lol Guyz.. i guess our friend G1BRICKED here is not asking for suggestions, but is asking if any of us faced such an issue...
Yeah i had one such instance (not many )...but i didnt took it to be that big a issue to have a thread about it ...lolz...
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lol Guyz.. i guess our friend G1BRICKED here is not asking for suggestions, but is asking if any of us faced such an issue...
Yeah i had one such instance (not many )...but i didnt took it to be that big a issue to have a thread about it ...lolz...
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It this is indeed the case, then as G1BRICKED stated, he doesn't really want to text her. Been there done that. I found somebody I wanted to text and stopped texting the other flirtatiously. Nothing wrong with 2 friends texting occasionally, but if you want to flirt text....find someone who fits the bill first
Me and my gf have a fight... i accidentally pushed her... but she said to her family i "hit" her... now her family hates me... i know i shouldn't have done it in the first place but i was mad on what she told me.. i lost control.. i shouldnt have done it.... i **** it up...
But again i just pused her?.. i didnt punch her.. if i punch her she be bleeding with black eyes... but no, i stop myself...
I still love her,, I'm hoping she will forgive me.... my parents said she should forgive me if she really loves me...i made a mistake and i won't do it again... but she's having a hard time believing me....
... i message her family and ask for forgiveness.... idk if they will forgive me.....
.. i just feel like my gf like someone new now and just using the "hit" alibi..... but i still love her and i dont wanna think that way... thats why im still tryng to fight for her..
Can you tell us more about the situation?
You aren't supposed to hit girls ever.
But the situation may turn out better for you based on what happened.
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If you truly just pushed her, and that is not good, and she is running around saying you hit her , then kick her to the curb. She is psycho and will lie to get a desired result. And that is not something to lie about. Things will only get worse.
She told me " i dont know what i feel about you anymore".. "i dont wanna hurt your feelings".... thats why i lost my mind.. but i really didnt punch her or anythinh...
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If you truly just pushed her, and that is not good, and she is running around saying you hit her , then kick her to the curb. She is psycho and will lie to get a desired result. And that is not something to lie about. Things will only get worse.
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Thats the thing.. i dont get her anymore... i just really pushed her.. but again.. what she keeps telling people is i hit her.... and the reason i pushed her is because she was acting weird... she doesnt even listen to me anymore.. i told her that we can talk this out.. you dont need to talk to ur mom about this im already here...
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...she told me i control her too much.... she bought this wig and it doesnt look good on her and i told her stop wearing it... but she said all her friends say it looks good... but im just being honest.. she doesnt believe me..... wtf....
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how old are you? dude just leave her alone and act like you dont care and then she will trip out that you arent worried about it or she will just move on and not care! either way prob a good thing since she is acting funny. oh yea and have you seen how many girls are out there in the world find a new one!
Is "pushed" considered abuse or "hit".. ugghh... i just took all the blame... i didnt really hit her.. wtf..
... my parents find it hard to trust her.. her parent find it hard to trust me..... wtf should i do? Im asking forgiveness to her family and hope that they will..... i wanna still fight for this relationship...i dont wanna just throw everything away.....
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...she told me i control her too much.... she bought this wig and it doesnt look good on her and i told her stop wearing it... but she said all her friends say it looks good... but im just being honest.. she doesnt believe me..... wtf....
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Meh if she likes the wig and her friends like the wig let her wear it. If you feel she is not respecting your opinion and its making you angry maybe you should take a break and possibly meet other people and see how you feel after a couple of months. She sounds like she wants a break at the moment. Also I agree if she is going to lie about your altercation its probrobly better to try and move on as you probrobly can't trust her after future arguments
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how old are you? dude just leave her alone and act like you dont care and then she will trip out that you arent worried about it or she will just move on and not care! either way prob a good thing since she is acting funny. oh yea and have you seen how many girls are out there in the world find a new one!
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we are both 19... we've been together for 2 years...i jsut dont wanna throw it all away.... i tried acting i dont care but.. but ,, but ,,, but i fkkking love her...
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Is "pushed" considered abuse or "hit".. ugghh... i just took all the blame... i didnt really hit her.. wtf..
... my parents find it hard to trust her.. her parent find it hard to trust me..... wtf should i do? Im asking forgiveness to her family and hope that they will..... i wanna still fight for this relationship...i dont wanna just throw everything away.....
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Pushing is legally considered assault most places. Cut your losses while you can.
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Meh if she likes the wig and her friends like the wig let her wear it. If you feel she is not respecting your opinion and its making you angry maybe you should take a break and possibly meet other people and see how you feel after a couple of months. She sounds like she wants a break at the moment. Also I agree if she is going to lie about your altercation its probrobly better to try and move on as you probrobly can't trust her after future arguments
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thats the thing.. i find it hard to trust her.. but again, i love her so much, and shes not like this before.... ugghhh...
i dotn want it to look that its her fault... we both made mistake, but she doesnt accept that she made a mistake too.. she always wanna be right.. i hate that... she not using ehr brain.. all shes using is her emotions.. wtf.....
,.... why everyone telling me to move on and theres a plenty of girl out there
i love her soo much.. omg.. fkk thss...
if her family cant forgive me, i guess thats the time to tell myself i need to move on...
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Pushing is legally considered assault most places. Cut your losses while you can.
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then i guess its all my fault... i messed this up?... ugghhh.. i just hate the way she acted...
she just started keeping secrets... writinng "pros" and "cons" about me... wtf...
Watch out for her man....my brother had a girlfriend who did pretty much the same thing.....after he gave up on her she lied even more about him because she still liked him......does your chick do drugs lol?
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I think maybe you should stop with the confessions to criminal acts online, actually all together, keep your hands to yourself, cut your losses, take an anger management class and find a new woman who performs sexual favors and not reality tv drama filled escalations of bad situations. You got lucky, she could have really messed your life up. And still may.
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Not to be rude but my last relationship started out by just pushing it also had controlling.. i stayed and in the seven years it turned into domestic violence by him.. it was the worst time of my life if you honestly love someone that much let them go if its meant to be itll be.. but you can never say you didnt mean to push hit or say things because its in you learning to control yourself and anger is the first thing i would recommend before allowing her or someone else in your life.. and any girl that wants the attention by lying is honestly just a little immature still and not worth it
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She told me " i dont know what i feel about you anymore".. "i dont wanna hurt your feelings".... thats why i lost my mind.. but i really didnt punch her or anythinh...
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Did no one else read this? There is nothing okay about getting physical with someone because he or she tells you about being unsure of how he or she feels about the relationship.
You need to give her some space, and you need to figure out what made you feel violence was the answer to her being honest with you. Some people might sugar coat this but that's how this kind of stuff keeps going on. You assaulted her and you need to realize that. There's something wrong with how you saw fit to handle the situation, and honestly it sounds like you are basing too much of who you are on the relationship. Nip this in the bud, now.
MissionImprobable said:
Did no one else read this? There is nothing okay about getting physical with someone because he or she tells you about being unsure of how he or she feels about the relationship.
You need to give her some space, and you need to figure out what made you feel violence was the answer to her being honest with you. Some people might sugar coat this but that's how this kind of stuff keeps going on. You assaulted her and you need to realize that. There's something wrong with how you saw fit to handle the situation, and honestly it sounds like you are basing too much of who you are on the relationship. Nip this in the bud, now.
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i know its my fault? i realized that?..... but she leaves under our families' roof.. she said i control her? cause i keep asking where she goes? who she with?.. my family and i are just worried about her... but no she wants to live free..
... she got kicked out by her mom, no one in her family took her in.. my family did... they didnt like her at first but since i love her they let her in.....
she was hospitalized.. she called all her family members and no one came.. no one answered her call.... im the only one who sat right next to her....
now she have problems with me, she's bestfriend with her mom again?? she cant even talk about it to me? why? is that a relationship?
and now that i "pushed" her all her family is present to help her? now they support her? now they all hate me? now theyre here with her? wtf....wtf...
ScubaSteev said:
Watch out for her man....my brother had a girlfriend who did pretty much the same thing.....after he gave up on her she lied even more about him because she still liked him......does your chick do drugs lol?
sent from my girlfriends bearded clam
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she doesnt do drugs...
@OP
Dude, whatever is going on with that girl and you, it sure ain't love. I haven't actually read a single word you've written that indicates you love her, just going on about how much you and your family have done for her.
She doesn't owe you anything and if she is having doubts about the relationship it is far better that she tells you than keeps it secret. When she told you, that was your opportunity to sit down with her, talk, tell her how you feel and try to work on things -.not to react the way you did or to blame her for her feelings.
Accept that it is probably over. Give her space, let her carry on living under your family's roof if she needs to and let her know that you are sorry, will be there as a friend if she needs it and will deal with the anger issues - professionally if you need to.
The way you reacted physically at 19 years old isn't just a sign of immaturity, it is a precursor to a much worse future - take that as advice from someone who has done time and seen / heard many things that would scare the crap out of you. Deal with your anger NOW before it deals with you.