This one's for all my fellow men out there (Fallen Sparten). The guys (us ORD's). My homies (pretty much everyone). Even people who tend to use big words and diss us (you know who you are *Jagurrie*). Don't you just hate it when a girl keeps texting you. And then like, you don't want to text back but you do anyway. And you don't know what to talk about. And you don't really want to flirt with her because you don't like her. And even if you do like her, you don't know if she's for real or not. So then it gets boring. And then you try to keep her laughing because you have nothing better to do. But then you don't know if your jokes are funny enough. So what do you do?
sounds like ur not really into her from what ive learned in ur post ... u should just friendzone her , treat her like a boy and she'll wash off ... that is if she doesnt have some nice friends , cuz in that case u could exploit ur "friendship" with her nicely (cough wingman cough)
COUGH if your talking about yourself idrk u n datd be weird cuz yeah COUGH!
so what do u prefer to do?
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........you don't know if she's for real or not.
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Take the red pill.
Eww dude no I know her friend... sikke! I dont't know. I'll see what I'm finna do. N it's kinda awkward she's friends with some girls that don't really like me cuz they're player haters so yeaah.
I want the blue frickin pill. It allows me to touch my G1.
I hear if you can't get them after the first drugging, you never get them
What would u know about girls?
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What would u know about girls?
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Obviously more than you, I'm not the one asking for help on a tech forum.
I had a feeling you were going to say that. I'm asking if anyone else has had a clingy girl... just cause I don't use big words doesn't mean u have to make me look stupid.
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This one's for all my fellow men out there (Fallen Sparten). The guys (us ORD's). My homies (pretty much everyone). Even people who tend to use big words and diss us (you know who you are *Jagurrie*). Don't you just hate it when a girl keeps texting you. And then like, you don't want to text back but you do anyway. And you don't know what to talk about. And you don't really want to flirt with her because you don't like her. And even if you do like her, you don't know if she's for real or not. So then it gets boring. And then you try to keep her laughing because you have nothing better to do. But then you don't know if your jokes are funny enough. So what do you do?
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get drunk and then start texting/talking..
I'm dracula.
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get drunk and then start texting/talking..
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LoL...deifnitely I will do this...
First I'd find out if she is in fact actually a 'she', then I'd find out what age she 'really' is so I wouldn't get a knock on the door by the police.
If you've got the above info and you're satisfied that its correct, then text away. If you are unsure of what to say, I always find a bottle of whiskey helps with this.....makes you more relaxed, less nervous and you come up with completely insane things to say....which will keep her interested as lets be honest. If you're boring and not funny she'll stop texting you back
If you're really stuck on what to say/ask....just type in something like 'Things to ask a girl' into Google and I'm sure you'll probably get lots of sites with advice
Best of luck
Lol she goes to my school so no worries.
Lol at u suggesting that. You sure do like to google things don't you!?
So none of you Maa Flippers are answering my ?
Who's ever had an annoying girl?
Me getting many girls have had many.
U?
Simple advice...
If you do want to talk to her...text her back.
If you don't want to talk to her...just ignore her text messages.
lol Guyz.. i guess our friend G1BRICKED here is not asking for suggestions, but is asking if any of us faced such an issue...
Yeah i had one such instance (not many )...but i didnt took it to be that big a issue to have a thread about it ...lolz...
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lol Guyz.. i guess our friend G1BRICKED here is not asking for suggestions, but is asking if any of us faced such an issue...
Yeah i had one such instance (not many )...but i didnt took it to be that big a issue to have a thread about it ...lolz...
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It this is indeed the case, then as G1BRICKED stated, he doesn't really want to text her. Been there done that. I found somebody I wanted to text and stopped texting the other flirtatiously. Nothing wrong with 2 friends texting occasionally, but if you want to flirt text....find someone who fits the bill first
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ok first thing...i swear this is not about me (believe me or not...its not bout' me) my friend likes this chick, he really likes her but she doesnt like him but they are friends and talk and wutever but she doesnt like him like that. I told him to let it go and just stop messin' wit her so he doesnt think bout her, he isnt the most social person but he wants to ask her out (i said no) wut would u do in his situation? (i kno every ones gonna be like thats a personal problem and blah blah blah, just wanted some input on this...other opinions dont hurt)
I'd Say this Qualifies for off topic.
He needs to realize Real Life Is nothing like TV if The Girls doesn't like him, She's not going to randomly start liking him.
If he values their friendship and wants to keep it No asky her out. If He is willing to lose that. Ask her out. People seem to forget the worst she can do is say "No."
If I was him, I would think of ways like: What does she like and what can I make her to like me?
Never give up.. Are you a guy? Proove it!
am i guy? hahaha
this chick is hot too, i dont talk to her like my boy does ( ithink shes a bizzzatch) but its another chick...i tell him ur not getting married to her u will meet so many other girls and to let it go...but she seems (to me) that she would only go out wit those hot guys u kno? here: say ur at a party and there is the best chick, chillin', (ur not the hottest guy) and she looks at u and make it seem like ur not her "their" type and she can only go wit hot dudes...it like that except my bro talks to the chick but u can tell she doesnt like him...(i hate chicks like this)
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ok first thing...i swear this is not about me (believe me or not...its not bout' me) my friend likes this chick, he really likes her but she doesnt like him but they are friends and talk and wutever but she doesnt like him like that. I told him to let it go and just stop messin' wit her so he doesnt think bout her, he isnt the most social person but he wants to ask her out (i said no) wut would u do in his situation? (i kno every ones gonna be like thats a personal problem and blah blah blah, just wanted some input on this...other opinions dont hurt)
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Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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BEST. ADVICE. EVER.
Olipro said:
Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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I'm using this!
I wonder if this guy is one of those guys that are perpetually the "friend". One of those guys that girls like to chat too, but only as a friend. They'd never look at him romantically in any way.
My advice...move on. There's other hot chicks out there to ask. Find one, ask and if she says no, she's not good enough for you. Her loss. Keep head up and move on till the fish bite.
That's my two cents anyways.
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I wonder if this guy is one of those guys that are perpetually the "friend". One of those guys that girls like to chat too, but only as a friend. They'd never look at him romantically in any way.
My advice...move on. There's other hot chicks out there to ask. Find one, ask and if she says no, she's not good enough for you. Her loss. Keep head up and move on till the fish bite.
That's my two cents anyways.
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perfect answer, that's the only way. This happened thrice to me, i was totally lost until i recognized that there's more to life than focussing on what will never be. Interestingly, one of them changed her mind a few days after i got another girl ...
... and the answer is: MOVE ON ...
yea i agree with the last 2 comments...im gonna show him this ahahha...there is so many girls out there
My advice...have your friend value friendship over asking out, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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The best advice in the whole world!
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That would be great advice if you hadn't dug up a thread from 2008! ......
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Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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Bad nerd! BAD, BAD NERD! NO!
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My advice...have your friend value friendship over asking out, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Bros before (u know what here).
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He could ask her to go out for a meal and just see if there would be be a chance,it would be perfectly normal for him to at least ask.
If she says no just stay as friends,if they are good friends it wouldn't take much to go back to normal.
Its not as if he's married and fancies another girl...Thats a dilemma!....
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Tell him not to mess up a good friendship with her and if its meant to be then they will be together .
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That would be great advice if you hadn't dug up a thread from 2008! ......
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Good advice is still good advice.
I think no need to run after one girlfriend. Yes, you need to achieve, but you need to understand a categorical refusal. Therefore, I suggest trying again, but if it doesn’t work out, you should look for a new girlfriend.
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I think no need to run after one girlfriend. Yes, you need to achieve, but you need to understand a categorical refusal. Therefore, I suggest trying again, but if it doesn’t work out, you should look for a new girlfriend.
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A 2008 thread and then re-awoke in 2011 and then now....
So we had another fight about me spending too much time playing with and talking about android and phones. As long as cellphones don't come up in conversation we were the happiest couple in the world. But I finally broke up with her because I couldn't even think about android without her getting mad at me. And I figured I would just find a girl that shared my interest. But I just realized that there are ZERO females(at least in the state of alabama) that even know what android is. Should I quit looking now? Does anyone have any advice to find them(if they exist that is)?
I lol'ed so hard.
if this isnt a troll , ur a noob for not being able to control urself not to talk about ur fone
sounded like my wife ...picking a fight because too much time on xda and phones.... Well, you can move from your state
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if this isnt a troll , ur a noob for not being able to control urself not to talk about ur fone
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Sorry you think I'm a noob, but I can control myself enough to not talk about it, but WHY should I? I'm going to look for a girl with common interest, and if I don't find anyone I will suppress my techie talk. But until I know that she doesn't exist, why would I change the kind of woman I would like to date?
So next time your off just supermanning hoes think about what a relationship should be about.
This is what I get for asking for girl advice on xda
LMAOO! If your serious, I really think you messed up BIG time! Call her now, apologize, and get off of XDA.
sorry to hear it bro. my wife also gets pissy when im on modding/hacking forums too much, but she'll get used to it eventually
I somewhat agree with Original Android.... if you usually get along, apologize and try to consider some of her interests. some people just dont get our devotion(addiction) to such things
as far as quitting XDA..... bad idea. maybe just set a specific time for this great site.
its all about compromise homey..... i hate you for making me think serious!! j/k
Had a fight here too for this very same reason...
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sounded like my wife ...picking a fight because too much time on xda and phones.... Well, you can move from your state
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Had a fight here too for this very same reason...
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Well my friend, it's time to negotiate . I did this with my wife, I agreed with her that I will spend some hours a week to be on the web and xda of course (while she's around). So both of us are happy since I comply with the terms when she's around ....but she's not always around you know.
Yes, time is not equal my girl says...
Anyway we should re negotiate a new way if possible
She's the one, I'm pretty sure of it
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LMAOO! If your serious, I really think you messed up BIG time! Call her now, apologize, and get off of XDA.
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Ok first off, hope you are LOVING highschool and football still. And yes I messed up big time, she's truely a wonderful person. But I didn't have to call her, she called me and we came to a compromise. She said if I would buy her that "nexus thingy" and actually "teach" her what I was talking about, she thinks she would really enjoy learning about it. And in my mind it wasn't a compromise, I got exactly what I wanted..... oh wait I just spent $500 on an N1
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Ok first off, hope you are LOVING highschool and football still. And yes I messed up big time, she's truely a wonderful person. But I didn't have to call her, she called me and we came to a compromise. She said if I would buy her that "nexus thingy" and actually "teach" her what I was talking about, she thinks she would really enjoy learning about it. And in my mind it wasn't a compromise, I got exactly what I wanted..... oh wait I just spent $500 on an N1
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I'm going to be frank. Return that N1. The relationship is now headed in the wrong direction for the wrong reasons.
In your future relationships, if you're with your girl, be with your girl. Learn to compromise. Your partner's reaction to the particular behavior (i.e., dealing/talking Android) is ultimately just a natural reaction towards the frequency in which you exhibited it (i.e., excessively). Imagine if your partner asked you to accompany them to go shopping every day of the week for at least 3 hours each day. While you guys are shopping, she'll talk to you about every brand, and fashion, etc. Should she leave you because you aren't interested in her interests?
Your Android fetish is a hobby. There are more important things in life that you should be paying attention to. I'm not saying this girl is -the- one you'll be with for the rest of your life, but things like growing and improving social skills should take greater precedence than learning and keeping what's up with the latest and greatest on Cyanogen mods.
Take my advice for what it's worth to you. Just remember, at the end of the day, it's just a phone.
Im not returning the N1. I shouldn't have ever posted this thread. I know exactly what important things are in my life(what exactly did you even mean by that??). I'm going to stop this now because people don't and can't know every detail about our relationship and it is now being misinterpreted.
And it's not about roms or tweaks it's about the future of technology, which I think everyone can agree is rather important
well this is funny... you are trying to find a girlfriend on XDA ?
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well this is funny... you are trying to find a girlfriend on XDA ?
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LOL, I lol'd big time.
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LOL, I lol'd big time.
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So did I mate ! The OP should go to some dating fora or something why on XDA ! LOL !
fk, i had something like this too once, since then i didnt talk about phones that much anymore xD..
well but she knows now that this is like a hobby for me, and its not that bad when i talk about it from time to time...
hell we are techjunkies, but even we need to hold back with our tech **** when talking to a girl xD
(i knew that before, but, for example, i couldnt live with it, if my gf would buy an iphone.................XD)
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Im not returning the N1. I shouldn't have ever posted this thread. I know exactly what important things are in my life(what exactly did you even mean by that??). I'm going to stop this now because people don't and can't know every detail about our relationship and it is now being misinterpreted.
And it's not about roms or tweaks it's about the future of technology, which I think everyone can agree is rather important
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You telling me that it's not about ROM or tweaks and that it is actually about the future of technology is really a bad attempt at justifying your hobby. This is even illustrated by the following clause when you feel the need to garner further support of your hobby by amassing the opinions of your fellow XDA members.
But nevermind that, good luck with the relationship. I do hope that things work out in the end.
daamn!!!
I usually dont talk about phones when Im with my girl... hell I've even visited xda less, since Im in a normal relations (not those in which I have to be responsible for everyf**king thing.. - had one of those about a year and a half ago)
anyways - just find something to talk about that is interesting for both of you + keeps your mind off the phones...
or if you can't you can get yourself off the xda, or you can always ask someone to ban you.. just kidding
so basically she had the bravery to say : $500 fone or no sammiches
and ur happy about it
hi everyone,
i really really love someone in my year but dont know how to talk to her, ive never really talked to any girls. We are friends on facebook and i was going to talk to her today but shyed off. its half term now so wont see her for a week should i just tell her that i love her on facebook as i dont think i can hold it in for a week, im missing her already
any help is appreciated
thanks
Don't tell her you love her straight away dude... That could get creepy
I take it you're from the UK if you broke up today? And I take it you found this site because you googled relationship advice and came across Alan's threads thinking this was a dating advice site
Some nice deducctions here eh?
You might want to start with saying "Hi", everything else will follow after that.. I suppose you know how to talk right, so that won't be a problem. You've got to learn to step over your shyness anyway, this seems like a nice way to start
How 'bout practise on some other girls too first
how do you love her if u never talked to her? how old are u ?
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Don't tell her you love her straight away dude... That could get creepy
I take it you're from the UK if you broke up today? And I take it you found this site because you googled relationship advice and came across Alan's threads thinking this was a dating advice site
Some nice deducctions here eh?
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Ok i won't, nd yeah im in UK, however i go on this site quite a lot coz i have an HTC HD2 and am always looking for good custom roms xda rules
I think one of my friends kinda told her but heck im gonna try to talk to her after half term
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Ok i won't, nd yeah im in UK, however i go on this site quite a lot coz i have an HTC HD2 and am always looking for good custom roms xda rules
I think one of my friends kinda told her but heck im gonna try to talk to her after half term
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Haha Okay Just saw the one post
Okay Awesome! Good luck
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how do you love her if u never talked to her? how old are u ?
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im 16, i dunno i just really seem to like her nd shes always in my head (not in a sexual way) and i cant exactly go 5 minutes without thinking of her
well im sorry to tell ya since itll be your first few times ull prolly mess up and the one after and after and after ... ull get it sooner or later but dont give up its the only way ull ever have one
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You might want to start with saying "Hi", everything else will follow after that.. I suppose you know how to talk right, so that won't be a problem. You've got to learn to step over your shyness anyway, this seems like a nice way to start
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yeah i tried to overcome it today, will try again when school starts cheers
Maybe he is a natural in seducing woman
Ask her if she wants sex. If she answers 'no', ask her if she minds laying still while you have it.
all in your hands
LOL @ nerdy interwebz kids thinking about love at 1st sight. hahahaha if you dont know how to talk to girls and cant socialize with them maybe its time to go outside or attempt to talk to people in your school, assuming your young and still in school or at least i hope so or else this whole thread is complete utter hilarity...
i think you should go on facebook and tell her you love her... see what happens next !
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LOL @ nerdy interwebz kids thinking about love at 1st sight. hahahaha if you dont know how to talk to girls and cant socialize with them maybe its time to go outside or attempt to talk to people in your school, assuming your young and still in school or at least i hope so or else this whole thread is complete utter hilarity...
i think you should go on facebook and tell her you love her... see what happens next !
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Actually can i just say that i spend most of my time outside:
I am Top in year for badminton, captain of 1st XI Hockey Team and 1st XI of Cricket Team and have around 5 matches every week so im not nerdy and i only get back home at around 8pm - 9pm everyday so yeah i pretty much stay outside the house
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Actually can i just say that i spend most of my time outside:
I am Top in year for badminton, captain of 1st XI Hockey Team and 1st XI of Cricket Team and have around 5 matches every week so im not nerdy and i only get back home at around 8pm - 9pm everyday so yeah i pretty much stay outside the house
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thats a good start... but how are your social skills... are you nervous to talk to all girls or just this one in general?
and badminton? srsly? LOL
Badminton is baller as f*uck actually
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Badminton is baller as f*uck actually
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haha nothing like smakin a birdie around i guess lol
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haha nothing like smakin a birdie around i guess lol
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Its actually extremely tiring when you play against county champions, nd my main sport is hockey followed by cricket then badminton
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thats a good start... but how are your social skills... are you nervous to talk to all girls or just this one in general?
and badminton? srsly? LOL
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Hi, I am fine talking to girls in my classes but am nervous when talking to those who are not in my classes, its mainly just this one girl though
I am a geek.lol and yes I know how to have fun and go dating. I stopped dating a software developer guy months ago because I can't feel the spark anymore. It could be a temporary feeling. And last week, a friend of mine introduced me to his friend and it was love at first sight. He asked me out. The only problem is, he said he's not looking for anything serious. I don't think I want to be in this relationship but I like him. Maybe in the future he might change his mind?
If you like the guy, you gotta play "hard to get". I know it may be uncomfortable for you, but it really works well, especially if he seems to be attractive. In addition, really try to enjoy and be interested in the things he likes. Don't be showy about it, but ask him questions about it in a casual tone. People love to talk about their interests and hobbies and he will think the conversation is going really well when you do that.
Who knows, maybe something more will come out of it. I am just giving you a starting point.
He asked you out and said he didn't want to be in a serious relationship? Sounds like he just wants teh secks without having to deal with an actual relationship. As a guy, I can admit to have saying such similar things. Proceed at your own caution!
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If you like the guy, you gotta play "hard to get".
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As a guy, I hate this bull****.
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As a guy, I hate this bull****.
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I second this. :/
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cds0699 said:
As a guy, I hate this bull****.
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+1
Dont bother with the hard to get stuff.
But dont start seeing him, grow attached, and then be surprised and hurt when it turns out he really doesn't want a relationship. He told you he didn't. Plus he's a friend of your ex-guy so if you want to have another go at a relationship with him sometime (since you said the lack of spark could be just a temporary feeling), then you're best off staying away from his buddy. The grass isn't always greener over there on the other side of the fence.
Dont make the classic chick move where u go for the guy who's not good for you just because he's new meat and he's hot, only to regret it later.
My $0.02
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Me and my gf have a fight... i accidentally pushed her... but she said to her family i "hit" her... now her family hates me... i know i shouldn't have done it in the first place but i was mad on what she told me.. i lost control.. i shouldnt have done it.... i **** it up...
But again i just pused her?.. i didnt punch her.. if i punch her she be bleeding with black eyes... but no, i stop myself...
I still love her,, I'm hoping she will forgive me.... my parents said she should forgive me if she really loves me...i made a mistake and i won't do it again... but she's having a hard time believing me....
... i message her family and ask for forgiveness.... idk if they will forgive me.....
.. i just feel like my gf like someone new now and just using the "hit" alibi..... but i still love her and i dont wanna think that way... thats why im still tryng to fight for her..
Can you tell us more about the situation?
You aren't supposed to hit girls ever.
But the situation may turn out better for you based on what happened.
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If you truly just pushed her, and that is not good, and she is running around saying you hit her , then kick her to the curb. She is psycho and will lie to get a desired result. And that is not something to lie about. Things will only get worse.
She told me " i dont know what i feel about you anymore".. "i dont wanna hurt your feelings".... thats why i lost my mind.. but i really didnt punch her or anythinh...
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If you truly just pushed her, and that is not good, and she is running around saying you hit her , then kick her to the curb. She is psycho and will lie to get a desired result. And that is not something to lie about. Things will only get worse.
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Thats the thing.. i dont get her anymore... i just really pushed her.. but again.. what she keeps telling people is i hit her.... and the reason i pushed her is because she was acting weird... she doesnt even listen to me anymore.. i told her that we can talk this out.. you dont need to talk to ur mom about this im already here...
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...she told me i control her too much.... she bought this wig and it doesnt look good on her and i told her stop wearing it... but she said all her friends say it looks good... but im just being honest.. she doesnt believe me..... wtf....
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how old are you? dude just leave her alone and act like you dont care and then she will trip out that you arent worried about it or she will just move on and not care! either way prob a good thing since she is acting funny. oh yea and have you seen how many girls are out there in the world find a new one!
Is "pushed" considered abuse or "hit".. ugghh... i just took all the blame... i didnt really hit her.. wtf..
... my parents find it hard to trust her.. her parent find it hard to trust me..... wtf should i do? Im asking forgiveness to her family and hope that they will..... i wanna still fight for this relationship...i dont wanna just throw everything away.....
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...she told me i control her too much.... she bought this wig and it doesnt look good on her and i told her stop wearing it... but she said all her friends say it looks good... but im just being honest.. she doesnt believe me..... wtf....
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Meh if she likes the wig and her friends like the wig let her wear it. If you feel she is not respecting your opinion and its making you angry maybe you should take a break and possibly meet other people and see how you feel after a couple of months. She sounds like she wants a break at the moment. Also I agree if she is going to lie about your altercation its probrobly better to try and move on as you probrobly can't trust her after future arguments
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fleurdelisxliv said:
how old are you? dude just leave her alone and act like you dont care and then she will trip out that you arent worried about it or she will just move on and not care! either way prob a good thing since she is acting funny. oh yea and have you seen how many girls are out there in the world find a new one!
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we are both 19... we've been together for 2 years...i jsut dont wanna throw it all away.... i tried acting i dont care but.. but ,, but ,,, but i fkkking love her...
DustByte said:
Is "pushed" considered abuse or "hit".. ugghh... i just took all the blame... i didnt really hit her.. wtf..
... my parents find it hard to trust her.. her parent find it hard to trust me..... wtf should i do? Im asking forgiveness to her family and hope that they will..... i wanna still fight for this relationship...i dont wanna just throw everything away.....
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Pushing is legally considered assault most places. Cut your losses while you can.
hungry81 said:
Meh if she likes the wig and her friends like the wig let her wear it. If you feel she is not respecting your opinion and its making you angry maybe you should take a break and possibly meet other people and see how you feel after a couple of months. She sounds like she wants a break at the moment. Also I agree if she is going to lie about your altercation its probrobly better to try and move on as you probrobly can't trust her after future arguments
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thats the thing.. i find it hard to trust her.. but again, i love her so much, and shes not like this before.... ugghhh...
i dotn want it to look that its her fault... we both made mistake, but she doesnt accept that she made a mistake too.. she always wanna be right.. i hate that... she not using ehr brain.. all shes using is her emotions.. wtf.....
,.... why everyone telling me to move on and theres a plenty of girl out there
i love her soo much.. omg.. fkk thss...
if her family cant forgive me, i guess thats the time to tell myself i need to move on...
85gallon said:
Pushing is legally considered assault most places. Cut your losses while you can.
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then i guess its all my fault... i messed this up?... ugghhh.. i just hate the way she acted...
she just started keeping secrets... writinng "pros" and "cons" about me... wtf...
Watch out for her man....my brother had a girlfriend who did pretty much the same thing.....after he gave up on her she lied even more about him because she still liked him......does your chick do drugs lol?
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I think maybe you should stop with the confessions to criminal acts online, actually all together, keep your hands to yourself, cut your losses, take an anger management class and find a new woman who performs sexual favors and not reality tv drama filled escalations of bad situations. You got lucky, she could have really messed your life up. And still may.
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Not to be rude but my last relationship started out by just pushing it also had controlling.. i stayed and in the seven years it turned into domestic violence by him.. it was the worst time of my life if you honestly love someone that much let them go if its meant to be itll be.. but you can never say you didnt mean to push hit or say things because its in you learning to control yourself and anger is the first thing i would recommend before allowing her or someone else in your life.. and any girl that wants the attention by lying is honestly just a little immature still and not worth it
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DustByte said:
She told me " i dont know what i feel about you anymore".. "i dont wanna hurt your feelings".... thats why i lost my mind.. but i really didnt punch her or anythinh...
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Did no one else read this? There is nothing okay about getting physical with someone because he or she tells you about being unsure of how he or she feels about the relationship.
You need to give her some space, and you need to figure out what made you feel violence was the answer to her being honest with you. Some people might sugar coat this but that's how this kind of stuff keeps going on. You assaulted her and you need to realize that. There's something wrong with how you saw fit to handle the situation, and honestly it sounds like you are basing too much of who you are on the relationship. Nip this in the bud, now.
MissionImprobable said:
Did no one else read this? There is nothing okay about getting physical with someone because he or she tells you about being unsure of how he or she feels about the relationship.
You need to give her some space, and you need to figure out what made you feel violence was the answer to her being honest with you. Some people might sugar coat this but that's how this kind of stuff keeps going on. You assaulted her and you need to realize that. There's something wrong with how you saw fit to handle the situation, and honestly it sounds like you are basing too much of who you are on the relationship. Nip this in the bud, now.
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i know its my fault? i realized that?..... but she leaves under our families' roof.. she said i control her? cause i keep asking where she goes? who she with?.. my family and i are just worried about her... but no she wants to live free..
... she got kicked out by her mom, no one in her family took her in.. my family did... they didnt like her at first but since i love her they let her in.....
she was hospitalized.. she called all her family members and no one came.. no one answered her call.... im the only one who sat right next to her....
now she have problems with me, she's bestfriend with her mom again?? she cant even talk about it to me? why? is that a relationship?
and now that i "pushed" her all her family is present to help her? now they support her? now they all hate me? now theyre here with her? wtf....wtf...
ScubaSteev said:
Watch out for her man....my brother had a girlfriend who did pretty much the same thing.....after he gave up on her she lied even more about him because she still liked him......does your chick do drugs lol?
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she doesnt do drugs...
@OP
Dude, whatever is going on with that girl and you, it sure ain't love. I haven't actually read a single word you've written that indicates you love her, just going on about how much you and your family have done for her.
She doesn't owe you anything and if she is having doubts about the relationship it is far better that she tells you than keeps it secret. When she told you, that was your opportunity to sit down with her, talk, tell her how you feel and try to work on things -.not to react the way you did or to blame her for her feelings.
Accept that it is probably over. Give her space, let her carry on living under your family's roof if she needs to and let her know that you are sorry, will be there as a friend if she needs it and will deal with the anger issues - professionally if you need to.
The way you reacted physically at 19 years old isn't just a sign of immaturity, it is a precursor to a much worse future - take that as advice from someone who has done time and seen / heard many things that would scare the crap out of you. Deal with your anger NOW before it deals with you.