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well i have a slight problem at work. i work as a security guard at my work place and there is a guard that comes in the morning that has been here prob 4 months prior to me and is the same rank and everything as me. well ever since i started she is a b**ch to me and wont even talk to me (god knows why i never did anything to her) well i hear for the pass 2 months she has been keeping tabs on my clock ins and my badge punch in's all over the building
and well i guess alot of my badges request dont save for when i leave (we have a bad system here) and well she knows that and is gonna use that to her advatge to take that to our boss and get me in trouble because she dont like me (which i dont know why as i only see her 5 mins out of my day and i hear she is friends with everyone else here) and i feel like this is really weird and taking this as harassment.
and well i got some stuff on her that she brings her BF to the work place and makes out with him and hides and stuff
should i confront her about this and ask her why she is doing this to me or should i go straight to my boss (or HR) about this problem? my boss and her are buddies and well she acts like she is boss around this building and tells everyone what to do for when he is not here and she has no right doing that at all so idk if i should even go to my own boss (there is a higher up then him that he has to report to he is just head security guard for this building)

i think it would be best to go to your boss with your issue

Honestly, if you aren't comfortable going to your direct boss since he is friends with her, you should be able to either go to HR or your bosses manager. HR preferably.
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TELL HER TO GET HER MIND CORRECT B4 YOU BEAT HER AND HER BF ASS THATS WHAT I WOULD DO ANYWAY!

Don't go to her about it. She can try to make you seem like a liar. Don't let her know and if you need to use it against her than do it. But I would tell the boss before anything just so he won't think you've just been saving that to hold over her head.
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Not gonna lie, but this is what I would probably do too xp
fleurdelisxliv said:
TELL HER TO GET HER MIND CORRECT B4 YOU BEAT HER AND HER BF ASS THATS WHAT I WOULD DO ANYWAY!
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see the thing is my boss knows about her Bf and them coming in to make out and stuff but he dont care (and for all i know is he prob dont even care that she is coming to him to get me in trouble) my boss is just some 20yr old kid who just makes a ton of money lol like we have a HR but its station in a different town so like they dont have direct contact with us

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Not gonna lie, but this is what I would probably do too xp
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i know right lol, but i dont put up with sh!t from anyone just sayin

Your best bet is to go to hr and talk to them before she does anything first.
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I have a boil on my butt! How do i treat it?

I hope you guys never go thrrough it
Okay so I've had it for 5days I haven't gone to a dr and don't want tto becaause all they are gonna do is drain the puss and charge me $100
So i have draained some pus but there is still some that wont go away trust me it won't
Any ways to treat it?
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Why do you ask us these things?! Lmao!
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Be careful with it....you don't want it to get infected. I would highly recommend for you to go to the doctor and get it treated.
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Pics or it didn't happen...
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WTF????
Make sure it's not inside the rectum. If it is, it's hemorrhoids, and that **** really sucks. Go to the doctor, he'll give you some cream.
dont waste your time with the doc , ur days are numbered , do something better while u can
And I thought I've seen it all in the offtopic.
And pleaseee...don't post any pictures
Lol I'm gonna wait a few days until it makes a head then pop it with a needle.
If it doesn't make a head I'm screwed and will have to pay a doctor a billion dollars to do something simple
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xda isn't a doctor's surgery.....

Girl trouble?

Idk if this is the right place to go, but I'm at a pretty bad place. My gf of 2.5 years just broke up with me about a week and a half ago. She keeps telling me to move on and stuff, but we had a history of coming back to each other. This time she says its real. Now, I tried took her advice and tried moving on. I went to this small party last night and her one, pretty babish friend was there. We talked a lot and later told me that she wouldn't hurt my ex like that but told me I'm a pretty good guy. I think I like the new one, but I'm worried that what if my ex comes back? I don't want to hurt this chick cause I kinda care about her. My friends who are pretty close to her told me I should wait a month then go after her. I just need some help, you guys seem pretty smart.
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I think you shouldn't jump from one relationship to another. Take sometime for yourself. How old are you? (should of been my first question)
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I think you shouldn't jump from one relationship to another. Take sometime for yourself. How old are you? (should of been my first question)
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18. I'm a senior in high school. Y a I know its hs BS to most. But they said to take like a month off then try with the new girl. And to not talk to my ex or hangout with her unlees she texts me first. My ex is 18 too and is off at college 5 hours away.
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Your ex sounds pretty determined that it's off for good. You shouldn't put your life on hold hoping she might change her mind but you shouldn't rush headlong into something else either. The new babe has potential? Tell her you like her and that you hope that something happens in future, but that you don't want to make a rebound mistake.
Go out with some friends and keep yourself busy with stuff you enjoy. Try to put your ex out of your mind and take advantage of the free time you have now. Don't be tempted to make a fool of yourself with your ex when you're feeling low. Months from now when you're looking back on this time, you will want to be able to hold your head up and say that you kept your dignity through the hard times.
If its meant to be, you'll get back together sometime. The question is when. When I was in high school I dated someone for a year. I broke up with her and some how 3 years later we found each other. That was 2001. We are now married and have 3 kids.
But to be honest, since you said she's in college 5 hours away, it sounds as if she found someone else or doesn't want to be that committed to any guy. Between the college atmosphere and 100' s of new people and new friends, they are more, I've seen so many relationships end when one of them goes onto college or both go to different colleges. You want someone who is there everyday.
Either way I would pursue the new girl. You don't need to sit around and continue to be sad.
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If its meant to be, you'll get back together sometime. The question is when. When I was in high school I dated someone for a year. I broke up with her and some how 3 years later we found each other. That was 2001. We are now married and have 3 kids.
But to be honest, since you said she's in college 5 hours away, it sounds as if she found someone else or doesn't want to be that committed to any guy. Between the college atmosphere and 100' s of new people and new friends, they are more, I've seen so many relationships end when one of them goes onto college or both go to different colleges. You want someone who is there everyday.
Either way I would pursue the new girl. You don't need to sit around and continue to be sad.
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Thank you. That's what I was thinking about doing. What worries me though is what happens if we reconnect over her Xmas break? I don't want to ruin this new girl, she had guy problems in the past. Also I have the problem of these two girls being friends. Good idea or bad idea? My friends said wait and then see. I have to prove it to the new girl that I'm worth it and that she isn't just some rebound, which she isn't.
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Go drink, and without knowing, you have been friendzoned by the new girl.
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Go drink, and without knowing, you have been friendzoned by the new girl.
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Yeup. That's what happened.
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If the new girl isn't worried about what it could do to her relationship with your ex, why should you. You need to do what will make you happy. If your ex wants to get back with you later in, but you have found someone that makes you happier, that is her loss. She made the decision to leave you. If you're waiting to see if its meant to be, you could be waiting years, months, or even a lifetime. Move on and let life take its course. The lowest points in your life will only make you.stronger.
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I wish I could help, but my avatar is the way it is for a reason lol... I've taken to the idea of "don't try and wait for something to just happen." Terrible technique, but whatever. The other ways didn't work either lol.
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At your age you should be slaying hoes......that's all. Once you've dine enough slaying then start to look for that relationship
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At your age you should be slaying hoes......that's all. Once you've dine enough slaying then start to look for that relationship
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At your age you should be slaying hoes......that's all. Once you've dine enough slaying then start to look for that relationship
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That's what I'm saying! But I get too attached, ya its kinda ***** like, but idk
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goob1284 said:
That's what I'm saying! But I get too attached, ya its kinda ***** like, but idk
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Who cares if you're like that? Chicks don't like the super macho douche man. If you're looking for the kind of girl that does then stop looking for relationships and start looking for an easy score. Living up to the standards of sleeping with as many people as you can is actually kinda gross to me personally. Just do what you want, not what you feel as if everyone else will approve of.
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Who cares if you're like that? Chicks don't like the super macho douche man. If you're looking for the kind of girl that does then stop looking for relationships and start looking for an easy score. Living up to the standards of sleeping with as many people as you can is actually kinda gross to me personally. Just do what you want, not what you feel as if everyone else will approve of.
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You make valid points my good friend. And with both of us bring in the same position with women at one point or another, I can not help but agree with you.
-My life is a shooting range, people never change-
I'm trying to do what I want. But I'm supposed to hang with the ex Friday. But she doesn't want to but she will allow it. Does that mean anything? And like I really want this new girl, but she thinks its too sketchy since its so close to the break up.
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goob1284 said:
I'm trying to do what I want. But I'm supposed to hang with the ex Friday. But she doesn't want to but she will allow it. Does that mean anything? And like I really want this new girl, but she thinks its too sketchy since its so close to the break up.
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take a break and learn android development (or try to) it helped me through some tough times (the attempting to learn)
watt9493 said:
take a break and learn android development (or try to) it helped me through some tough times (the attempting to learn)
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I really want to learn, but I tried so many times and always came up short. Also, I annoyed the living crap out of the girl I was gonna go to, what do I do?
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I really want to learn, but I tried so many times and always came up short. Also, I annoyed the living crap out of the girl I was gonna go to, what do I do?
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Take it easy, just sit back for a while. Its best to not rush into things
-My life is a shooting range, people never change-
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Take it easy, just sit back for a while. Its best to not rush into things
-My life is a shooting range, people never change-
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Ya. I think that's really what I'll do. Thanks all you guys!
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Help me please..

Me and my gf have a fight... i accidentally pushed her... but she said to her family i "hit" her... now her family hates me... i know i shouldn't have done it in the first place but i was mad on what she told me.. i lost control.. i shouldnt have done it.... i **** it up...
But again i just pused her?.. i didnt punch her.. if i punch her she be bleeding with black eyes... but no, i stop myself...
I still love her,, I'm hoping she will forgive me.... my parents said she should forgive me if she really loves me...i made a mistake and i won't do it again... but she's having a hard time believing me....
... i message her family and ask for forgiveness.... idk if they will forgive me.....
.. i just feel like my gf like someone new now and just using the "hit" alibi..... but i still love her and i dont wanna think that way... thats why im still tryng to fight for her..
Can you tell us more about the situation?
You aren't supposed to hit girls ever.
But the situation may turn out better for you based on what happened.
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If you truly just pushed her, and that is not good, and she is running around saying you hit her , then kick her to the curb. She is psycho and will lie to get a desired result. And that is not something to lie about. Things will only get worse.
She told me " i dont know what i feel about you anymore".. "i dont wanna hurt your feelings".... thats why i lost my mind.. but i really didnt punch her or anythinh...
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If you truly just pushed her, and that is not good, and she is running around saying you hit her , then kick her to the curb. She is psycho and will lie to get a desired result. And that is not something to lie about. Things will only get worse.
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Thats the thing.. i dont get her anymore... i just really pushed her.. but again.. what she keeps telling people is i hit her.... and the reason i pushed her is because she was acting weird... she doesnt even listen to me anymore.. i told her that we can talk this out.. you dont need to talk to ur mom about this im already here...
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...she told me i control her too much.... she bought this wig and it doesnt look good on her and i told her stop wearing it... but she said all her friends say it looks good... but im just being honest.. she doesnt believe me..... wtf....
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how old are you? dude just leave her alone and act like you dont care and then she will trip out that you arent worried about it or she will just move on and not care! either way prob a good thing since she is acting funny. oh yea and have you seen how many girls are out there in the world find a new one!
Is "pushed" considered abuse or "hit".. ugghh... i just took all the blame... i didnt really hit her.. wtf..
... my parents find it hard to trust her.. her parent find it hard to trust me..... wtf should i do? Im asking forgiveness to her family and hope that they will..... i wanna still fight for this relationship...i dont wanna just throw everything away.....
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...she told me i control her too much.... she bought this wig and it doesnt look good on her and i told her stop wearing it... but she said all her friends say it looks good... but im just being honest.. she doesnt believe me..... wtf....
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Meh if she likes the wig and her friends like the wig let her wear it. If you feel she is not respecting your opinion and its making you angry maybe you should take a break and possibly meet other people and see how you feel after a couple of months. She sounds like she wants a break at the moment. Also I agree if she is going to lie about your altercation its probrobly better to try and move on as you probrobly can't trust her after future arguments
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how old are you? dude just leave her alone and act like you dont care and then she will trip out that you arent worried about it or she will just move on and not care! either way prob a good thing since she is acting funny. oh yea and have you seen how many girls are out there in the world find a new one!
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we are both 19... we've been together for 2 years...i jsut dont wanna throw it all away.... i tried acting i dont care but.. but ,, but ,,, but i fkkking love her...
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Is "pushed" considered abuse or "hit".. ugghh... i just took all the blame... i didnt really hit her.. wtf..
... my parents find it hard to trust her.. her parent find it hard to trust me..... wtf should i do? Im asking forgiveness to her family and hope that they will..... i wanna still fight for this relationship...i dont wanna just throw everything away.....
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Pushing is legally considered assault most places. Cut your losses while you can.
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Meh if she likes the wig and her friends like the wig let her wear it. If you feel she is not respecting your opinion and its making you angry maybe you should take a break and possibly meet other people and see how you feel after a couple of months. She sounds like she wants a break at the moment. Also I agree if she is going to lie about your altercation its probrobly better to try and move on as you probrobly can't trust her after future arguments
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thats the thing.. i find it hard to trust her.. but again, i love her so much, and shes not like this before.... ugghhh...
i dotn want it to look that its her fault... we both made mistake, but she doesnt accept that she made a mistake too.. she always wanna be right.. i hate that... she not using ehr brain.. all shes using is her emotions.. wtf.....
,.... why everyone telling me to move on and theres a plenty of girl out there
i love her soo much.. omg.. fkk thss...
if her family cant forgive me, i guess thats the time to tell myself i need to move on...
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Pushing is legally considered assault most places. Cut your losses while you can.
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then i guess its all my fault... i messed this up?... ugghhh.. i just hate the way she acted...
she just started keeping secrets... writinng "pros" and "cons" about me... wtf...
Watch out for her man....my brother had a girlfriend who did pretty much the same thing.....after he gave up on her she lied even more about him because she still liked him......does your chick do drugs lol?
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I think maybe you should stop with the confessions to criminal acts online, actually all together, keep your hands to yourself, cut your losses, take an anger management class and find a new woman who performs sexual favors and not reality tv drama filled escalations of bad situations. You got lucky, she could have really messed your life up. And still may.
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Not to be rude but my last relationship started out by just pushing it also had controlling.. i stayed and in the seven years it turned into domestic violence by him.. it was the worst time of my life if you honestly love someone that much let them go if its meant to be itll be.. but you can never say you didnt mean to push hit or say things because its in you learning to control yourself and anger is the first thing i would recommend before allowing her or someone else in your life.. and any girl that wants the attention by lying is honestly just a little immature still and not worth it
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DustByte said:
She told me " i dont know what i feel about you anymore".. "i dont wanna hurt your feelings".... thats why i lost my mind.. but i really didnt punch her or anythinh...
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Did no one else read this? There is nothing okay about getting physical with someone because he or she tells you about being unsure of how he or she feels about the relationship.
You need to give her some space, and you need to figure out what made you feel violence was the answer to her being honest with you. Some people might sugar coat this but that's how this kind of stuff keeps going on. You assaulted her and you need to realize that. There's something wrong with how you saw fit to handle the situation, and honestly it sounds like you are basing too much of who you are on the relationship. Nip this in the bud, now.
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Did no one else read this? There is nothing okay about getting physical with someone because he or she tells you about being unsure of how he or she feels about the relationship.
You need to give her some space, and you need to figure out what made you feel violence was the answer to her being honest with you. Some people might sugar coat this but that's how this kind of stuff keeps going on. You assaulted her and you need to realize that. There's something wrong with how you saw fit to handle the situation, and honestly it sounds like you are basing too much of who you are on the relationship. Nip this in the bud, now.
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i know its my fault? i realized that?..... but she leaves under our families' roof.. she said i control her? cause i keep asking where she goes? who she with?.. my family and i are just worried about her... but no she wants to live free..
... she got kicked out by her mom, no one in her family took her in.. my family did... they didnt like her at first but since i love her they let her in.....
she was hospitalized.. she called all her family members and no one came.. no one answered her call.... im the only one who sat right next to her....
now she have problems with me, she's bestfriend with her mom again?? she cant even talk about it to me? why? is that a relationship?
and now that i "pushed" her all her family is present to help her? now they support her? now they all hate me? now theyre here with her? wtf....wtf...
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Watch out for her man....my brother had a girlfriend who did pretty much the same thing.....after he gave up on her she lied even more about him because she still liked him......does your chick do drugs lol?
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@OP
Dude, whatever is going on with that girl and you, it sure ain't love. I haven't actually read a single word you've written that indicates you love her, just going on about how much you and your family have done for her.
She doesn't owe you anything and if she is having doubts about the relationship it is far better that she tells you than keeps it secret. When she told you, that was your opportunity to sit down with her, talk, tell her how you feel and try to work on things -.not to react the way you did or to blame her for her feelings.
Accept that it is probably over. Give her space, let her carry on living under your family's roof if she needs to and let her know that you are sorry, will be there as a friend if she needs it and will deal with the anger issues - professionally if you need to.
The way you reacted physically at 19 years old isn't just a sign of immaturity, it is a precursor to a much worse future - take that as advice from someone who has done time and seen / heard many things that would scare the crap out of you. Deal with your anger NOW before it deals with you.

Going back to school

well im a full time welder and I've always liked my job But lately things have been going slow in my life and I feel like i'm just going nowhere in life.
I went to college coming out of high school and blew it off like an idiot. I've always been wanting to go back but I always feel like i'm setting myself up for failure and will just waste my time and money.
I'm 24 years old and now i'm at a point in my life where I have to start getting my **** together, but this welding job is just moving to slow for me.
for the past 3-4 years, I've been learning and working with computers. Im not a pro at it but I know more then the average person.
Well I've been doing a lot of thinking and its time I go back to school to improve my life. i want to get more into the computer world and chase a computer science degree. My question to you guys is, where should I start? I know I need to look into schools, classes etc. what I mean is what can I start studying in the mean time (before I actually start my schooling) so that I can have a head start.
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What kind of thing do you want to do with computers? Hardware, software, app development, web development, game development, db admin, network admin? There's loads of routes to go down, all dependant on what you want to do.
And if anyone recommends a programming language to you before you answer that question then they don't know what they're talking about. Either that, or they're just saying "this is what I know - look at me - aren't I clever?".
Im leaning toward network admin. Im planning to aign up fall or winter classes but I wanna study a bit before starting. My company will pay for the schooling depending on the grades.
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Good for you man !!! Its never too late to do something.
Im also going back to college in september, Im 22 with a fiance and child, But that aint stopping me !!
Hopefully looking to do a course on Programming and Software Development
I'm trying to learn Python. I think I can get the hang of it before school starts again in September.
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I can't advise you on the network admin side of things, other than you'll need a good degree to get a decent job, or start really at the bottom and work your way up slowly. It's quite a well-educated field, for real pros. There's plenty of hack and slash network admins out there, but they're the type that bring networks down by saying "I wonder what that does!" (I've worked with some of them before )
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Good for you man !!! Its never too late to do something.
Im also going back to college in september, Im 22 with a fiance and child, But that aint stopping me !!
Hopefully looking to do a course on Programming and Software Development
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Respect man. I think it gets harder once you have a family. I got a nice girl now and been thinking about settling down but the thought of not being able to provide is the only thing stopping me.
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I can't advise you on the network admin side of things, other than you'll need a good degree to get a decent job, or start really at the bottom and work your way up slowly. It's quite a well-educated field, for real pros. There's plenty of hack and slash network admins out there, but they're the type that bring networks down by saying "I wonder what that does!" (I've worked with some of them before )
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Well my plan is to use my company To pay for my school and at the.same time switch over to the I.T department (which will be no problem). That way I can be hands on while im learning. After im finished, I should have enough.experience to move up, weather its in this company or somewhere else.
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Good luck
Its never to late to do something
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Absolutely, good luck with it. I was 22 before I got a qualification in programming, despite developing software since the age of 8. No-one would give me a job without it, so I did a course, got the paper and got a job. Been doing it ever since.
It's good to do something new and start over, as long as it's something you have a passion for.
I'm in medical school now, three years to graduation(but, I'll study another six years after that...). I have this friend, he's, I think over 30 years, and he's at the same "grade" as I am. He also was like you, had a "low-education"(help me here ) job, and then he decided to go into Med. I'm kinda proud of him, he's a good inspiration for people like you. It's a long way to become a doc, but it's never too late. I strongly recommend you to go to school, it'll be worth it!
All respect and luck shall be with you!
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Yea man 24 is not late at all! Im a emt and a emergency medical flight dispatcher and when my girl gets done with school in like 3 semesers i think ima go back and be a game warden for the state of louisiana. She is 28 and im 34 and we have a two year old good luck man its worth it.
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..if I were to go back to school I would like to take up Android Software Development & know all there is to know about Andy coz Andy is the Future
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my son will be graduating from HS, what's his best move to get into "Android Software Development"? you developed software at 8? how is that possible
tnx
Definitely check out the Community Colleges in your area, especially ones that have really good relationships with the better Engineering/Technical universities in your area. You will save yourself a ton doing your first two years there, and a lot of schools that will even let you get complete your four year degree through associated Community Colleges. You also get the benefit of smaller classes and professors that actually know your name.
I just finished my associates after going on and off forever so don't feel like you're outback because you've waited. Get it done man, you're still well ahead of the curve. If you want to start this fall though you need to go ahead and sign up.
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Is it bad that I don't want to go to college? I'm a high honors student and everything but I don't know. My parents would hate me for this. After highschool I want to book a flight to some other part of the country. Maybe somewhere in California? Find an okay job and a little apartment. Buy myself a comfy couch and live alone and sit and soak in life. It's all I want I guess... But I get it you guys are motivated by things like your own family and stuff. I'd love to find someone but I know that probably won't happen because of the person I am. So I have no need to have a lot of money or be rich at all like most people. Just enough to get by and maybe occasionally buy a game or phone or something haha.
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Don't be a hermit.
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deadlocked007 said:
Not really a hermit haha. Just going on with life but alone mostly. I'd still have a job and stuff which would lead to talking to some extent. I'd be kinda talking to you guys through here because I would never leave you guys :3 even if I did go to college my life would be the same. I'd just be earning more money....
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With the high cost of living in California, you'll need more motivation than that.
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deadlocked007 said:
Fine then :I Texas?
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I never lived there, but if boborone finds this thread, he can clue you in on TX.
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And as could I, im located about 45 minutes from houston xD
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Most apartments and stuff in my particular area are about 300 to 400 a month which isn't too bad for a decent place. But im in a small town, now if I was to drive about 15 minutes to the next town they can be around 700 to 1200 a month
Im a special case however the place I got me and the roommate own the property and the house, so we only have to pay utilities and bills.
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What do you believe to be a good reason to get a tattoo?

I was arguing this with my professor. I cannot find a good reason to get a tattoo! I did jokingly say you could get one to cover up an embarrassing tatto lol. What do you guys think?
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UncivilSavage said:
I was arguing this with my professor. I cannot find a good reason to get a tattoo! I did jokingly say you could get one to cover up an embarrassing tatto lol. What do you guys think?
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The best reason that I can give you is that you want something that you can carry with you for the rest of your life!
UncivilSavage said:
I was arguing this with my professor. I cannot find a good reason to get a tattoo! I did jokingly say you could get one to cover up an embarrassing tatto lol. What do you guys think?
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A good reason? Okay. An evil villain has taken over the world and is destroying everything and killing everyone. An old tattooist does tattoos that give the person super powers. You get the tattoo and save humanity. Plus the tattoo is sick and you get tons of b***hes.
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veeman said:
A good reason? Okay. An evil villain has taken over the world and is destroying everything and killing everyone. An old tattooist does tattoos that give the person super powers. You get the tattoo and save humanity. Plus the tattoo is sick and you get tons of b***hes.
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That was a really cr4p reason until the final sentence
Military pride is a legit reason. To this day, if I see an older man with a wrinkly Military based tattoo, he gets much respect.
Good reason? You're really drunk on a Saturday night, and it seems like a really good idea at the time.
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I designed and drew all of mine. Full sleeve on one arm and randoms on the other. I thought it would be the best way to show my work.
Good thing too, because all the original drawings were destroyed in a fire a few years ago. I'm glad I went through with getting them tattooed.
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SimonTS said:
The best reason that I can give you is that you want something that you can carry with you for the rest of your life!
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That's behind every tat on me. It's gotta mean something and you've got to believe it will always mean something,
Good and bad are not quantifiable things. You can't measure goodness. There is no such thing as a "good" reason. There are only reasons. So anybody who has a reason has a "good" reason. It's not done for you to agree with it.
I don't see a good reason. When I see people with tattoos, I don't think of them in a good way. It just looks stupid. That's just me though.
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You were drunk!!!
errrr... Wait! That's an excuse, not a reason!!
Archer said:
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That's behind every tat on me. It's gotta mean something and you've got to believe it will always mean something,
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+1 I got a few, but they each mean something deep personally.
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My humble opinion...
There's no real answer. My first tattoo was a giant 8-bit pixelated Mega Man on my leg. I got it because when I was a kid, my pops lost his business in Boston and we were stuck moving down to Florida where my grandparents lived. We moved into their 2-bedroom "manufactured" home in the middle of a retirement community. My folks saw that my brother and I had no kids in the neighborhood to play with, so they got us an NES and a copy of Mega Man 2 for Christmas that year. I played that game for months on end, well past the point where my parents were obviously annoyed with the music in the game. For that first few months until my family got back on its collective feet, Mega Man was my best friend. Fast forward almost 20 years later, I decided I wanted to get a tattoo, and the Blue Bomber was my choice. I was actually a little afraid that when I went back to visit my mom, she was going to freak out about me getting inked. But instead, she immediately recognized it and even thought it was a great tattoo to get.
The moral of this story? The only reason that matters is the one you rationalize yourself. To most people, a Mega Man tattoo is a silly and nerdy thing to do. To me, it's a silly and nerdy thing to do that reminds me of how much my parents cared about my happiness as a child, no matter what. I'm happy with it, and I couldn't care less if the rest of the world doesn't see or know the reason for it. Every tattoo I have means something to me, and I'm the only one who needs to know it.
I personally cannot think of a reason I'd get one. Other than the military pride that was mentioned because of the whole brotherhood the army gives you. I just don't see myself getting one, but I've heard quite a good amount of reasons for others.
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I think there is no good reason simply because it's hard to remove a tattoo if you don't like this tattoo any more.
t0lik said:
I think there is no good reason simply because it's hard to remove a tattoo if you don't like this tattoo any more.
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anyway, well one good reason to get a tattoo would be because you are extremely compassionate about art.
well that's my reason.. i'm planning to get an awesome tat on my nape as soon as i turn 18 or something, but that tat has to have a significant meaning to my life of course
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I think there is no good reason simply because it's hard to remove a tattoo if you don't like this tattoo any more.
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Twenty years on and i hate my tattoos now. Given the choice i would still have tattoos in the same places, but they would be different tattoos. Therein lies the problem though. Your tastes change from year to year as you yourself change, but tattoos are permanent.
I agree with Card83 and a few others that have said, it's should mean something to you, not just something that is cool at the time like a barb wire arm band because you will come to hate it.
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Well ive always said i would only have my kids names on me.
And when my son was born I had his name tattooed onto my chest. And if i have any more kids then i will be putting there names on my chest aswell.
But apart from that i will not be having any other tattoo on me as anything else wont mean anything to me apart from "looking nice"
A friend of mine got the name of his best friend tattooed inside his wrist when said best friend took his own life two years ago. As a way to remember, and a reminder. They were very close.
And there are always more practical reasons for tattoos. You just don't always consider them. There are a lot of soldiers who get their data tattooed on various bodyparts, just in case. IED's really don't care if you want to keep you bodyparts attached, and thus the tattoos makes IDing easier.
Personally I don't have any. I'm not on good terms with needles.

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