I have a boil on my butt! How do i treat it? - Off-topic

I hope you guys never go thrrough it
Okay so I've had it for 5days I haven't gone to a dr and don't want tto becaause all they are gonna do is drain the puss and charge me $100
So i have draained some pus but there is still some that wont go away trust me it won't
Any ways to treat it?
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Be careful with it....you don't want it to get infected. I would highly recommend for you to go to the doctor and get it treated.

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WTF????

Make sure it's not inside the rectum. If it is, it's hemorrhoids, and that **** really sucks. Go to the doctor, he'll give you some cream.

dont waste your time with the doc , ur days are numbered , do something better while u can

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Lol I'm gonna wait a few days until it makes a head then pop it with a needle.
If it doesn't make a head I'm screwed and will have to pay a doctor a billion dollars to do something simple
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My gf mad at me for going out...

Ok so what should I do my gf is pissed at me for going out drinking and bowling with my friends when she had to work tomorrow?
Should I (of) ?
A) Take her feelings in consideration and apologize for having fun cause I have the weekend off.
B) Should of forced her to come with me and her being tired for work tomorrow.
C) Or don't worry about it as she will get over it tomorrow and be normal (as girls are crazy and go bananas fir the most retarded reasons).
I think option C is appropriate what do u all think?
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Haha, just sit her down and explain that you're entitled to enjoy your weekend off and you're sorry if you disturbed her.
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psx612 said:
Haha, just sit her down and explain that you're entitled to enjoy your weekend off and you're sorry if you disturbed her.
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Hey that's not an option and u think I havnt tried that? We've been going out for 3 years and half and we live together and she birches and complains.I don't give her enough attention or spend enough time with her.
I think she needs mire gfs to hang out with and go out with and talk to!! I can't deal with her issues that to me I would of dumped off a cliff the minute the hit me! (IE: trouble at work, issues with retarded issues lol)
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I'd say A ,Sorry will mean a lot even if you don't mean it, Plus you don't want it to end over something silly
Also... Hello new Alan
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I'd say A ,Sorry will mean a lot even if you don't mean it, Plus you don't want it to end over something silly
Also... Hello new Alan
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lol, so everyone who asks for relationship advice is called Alan now
Option D: you nd the boys spend a week binge drinking and visiting strip clubs. After that she shouldn't have a problem with a Saturday night of bowling
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Yeah, go with C. Use it as leverage if she ever goes out.
deliriousDroid said:
Option D: you nd the boys spend a week binge drinking and visiting strip clubs. After that she shouldn't have a problem with a Saturday night of bowling
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That's because she will leave him for good
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That's because she will leave him for good
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Yeah, that might happen to. But you never know till you try. Haha.jks
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Buy her candy and flowers and give her a back rub. Spend the next evening with her watching a movie you rented and eat dinner that you made. Tell her your sorry and that you mean the world to me, I appreciate all you do...yada yada all that corny sh#t you hear on TV. Girls are dumb they wont make any reference from that. Anyways do all that and your clear for a couple weeks.
Well she's still pisses this morning and flowers and candy wont work as she will say :
Are u trying to make me fat?
As for the flowers they only work for a day.
For movie watching that wont work, as we always do that as we don't have much money as we are poor college students
Anyway in about an hour going over to my buddies house to pre drink for a concert and drink this mild hangover away from last night.
I think she needs mire friends as she really only has 1 and she is now a pothead and hardly hangs out with her, and a new one from work that she's only known from work, she needs to have mire fun so she is not *****ing at me every weekend I have off for wanting to go out and have fun and not be a waste if a weekend
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B all the way, take her as an unwilling fun hostage haha
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Buy her candy and flowers and give her a back rub. Spend the next evening with her watching a movie you rented and eat dinner that you made. Tell her your sorry and that you mean the world to me, I appreciate all you do...yada yada all that corny sh#t you hear on TV. Girls are dumb they wont make any reference from that. Anyways do all that and your clear for a couple weeks.
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I'm a chick be and I'm telling you this is the correct answer.
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I'm a chick be and I'm telling you this is the correct answer.
Magicriggs: you win a cookie!
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The problem with that is I would have to do that every weekend I go out so it would get very expensive
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The problem with that is I would have to do that every weekend I go out so it would get very expensive
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You don't have to do, that every single weekend just once a month and in between make sure she knows you appreciate her... Words work well for that and are free
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You don't have to do, that every single weekend just once a month and in between make sure she knows you appreciate her... Words work well for that and are free
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What kinda words would u like to hear if ur bf went out drinking and u were pisses that u couldn't have fun cause u had to work the next morning
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davidrules7778 said:
What kinda words would u like to hear if ur bf went out drinking and u were pisses that u couldn't have fun cause u had to work the next morning
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"I'm sorry honey.
It was insensitive of me to go out and not realize I maybe made you feel left out.
I really love you and I truly appreciate all that you do for me.
I think we need some time just for us and I will make it up to you."
Listen, most chicks eat that crap right up. (unfortunately for Sparky I see it for what it truly is an attempt to get me to stop *****ing and out of the doghouse...but I digress...)
Just keep it along those lines and spend some time with her and you should be fine....
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Ya believe me I think I've used this many times and it doesn't work that well so I kinda gave up on that and wait for her to get over with which usually takes a whole day
I think its just retarded that she does this to me everytime I go out and she is invited to cone but never hangs out with my friends or there gf when she doesn't ever get out and do fun stuff with her friends as she only has a couple and was too quiet in high school and still too quiet now to make them
It only gets harder as more time we are together
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talk to her seriously, ask her what's wrong with what you're doing. There's nothing bad hanging out with friends once in a while. And tell her it's better than cheating like what other guys do.
ok don't tell her the last part, she might get furious with that.
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what would you guys do?

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well i have a slight problem at work. i work as a security guard at my work place and there is a guard that comes in the morning that has been here prob 4 months prior to me and is the same rank and everything as me. well ever since i started she is a b**ch to me and wont even talk to me (god knows why i never did anything to her) well i hear for the pass 2 months she has been keeping tabs on my clock ins and my badge punch in's all over the building
and well i guess alot of my badges request dont save for when i leave (we have a bad system here) and well she knows that and is gonna use that to her advatge to take that to our boss and get me in trouble because she dont like me (which i dont know why as i only see her 5 mins out of my day and i hear she is friends with everyone else here) and i feel like this is really weird and taking this as harassment.
and well i got some stuff on her that she brings her BF to the work place and makes out with him and hides and stuff
should i confront her about this and ask her why she is doing this to me or should i go straight to my boss (or HR) about this problem? my boss and her are buddies and well she acts like she is boss around this building and tells everyone what to do for when he is not here and she has no right doing that at all so idk if i should even go to my own boss (there is a higher up then him that he has to report to he is just head security guard for this building)
i think it would be best to go to your boss with your issue
Honestly, if you aren't comfortable going to your direct boss since he is friends with her, you should be able to either go to HR or your bosses manager. HR preferably.
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TELL HER TO GET HER MIND CORRECT B4 YOU BEAT HER AND HER BF ASS THATS WHAT I WOULD DO ANYWAY!
Don't go to her about it. She can try to make you seem like a liar. Don't let her know and if you need to use it against her than do it. But I would tell the boss before anything just so he won't think you've just been saving that to hold over her head.
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Not gonna lie, but this is what I would probably do too xp
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TELL HER TO GET HER MIND CORRECT B4 YOU BEAT HER AND HER BF ASS THATS WHAT I WOULD DO ANYWAY!
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see the thing is my boss knows about her Bf and them coming in to make out and stuff but he dont care (and for all i know is he prob dont even care that she is coming to him to get me in trouble) my boss is just some 20yr old kid who just makes a ton of money lol like we have a HR but its station in a different town so like they dont have direct contact with us
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Not gonna lie, but this is what I would probably do too xp
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i know right lol, but i dont put up with sh!t from anyone just sayin
Your best bet is to go to hr and talk to them before she does anything first.
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Girl trouble?

Idk if this is the right place to go, but I'm at a pretty bad place. My gf of 2.5 years just broke up with me about a week and a half ago. She keeps telling me to move on and stuff, but we had a history of coming back to each other. This time she says its real. Now, I tried took her advice and tried moving on. I went to this small party last night and her one, pretty babish friend was there. We talked a lot and later told me that she wouldn't hurt my ex like that but told me I'm a pretty good guy. I think I like the new one, but I'm worried that what if my ex comes back? I don't want to hurt this chick cause I kinda care about her. My friends who are pretty close to her told me I should wait a month then go after her. I just need some help, you guys seem pretty smart.
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I think you shouldn't jump from one relationship to another. Take sometime for yourself. How old are you? (should of been my first question)
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dankieperez said:
I think you shouldn't jump from one relationship to another. Take sometime for yourself. How old are you? (should of been my first question)
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18. I'm a senior in high school. Y a I know its hs BS to most. But they said to take like a month off then try with the new girl. And to not talk to my ex or hangout with her unlees she texts me first. My ex is 18 too and is off at college 5 hours away.
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Your ex sounds pretty determined that it's off for good. You shouldn't put your life on hold hoping she might change her mind but you shouldn't rush headlong into something else either. The new babe has potential? Tell her you like her and that you hope that something happens in future, but that you don't want to make a rebound mistake.
Go out with some friends and keep yourself busy with stuff you enjoy. Try to put your ex out of your mind and take advantage of the free time you have now. Don't be tempted to make a fool of yourself with your ex when you're feeling low. Months from now when you're looking back on this time, you will want to be able to hold your head up and say that you kept your dignity through the hard times.
If its meant to be, you'll get back together sometime. The question is when. When I was in high school I dated someone for a year. I broke up with her and some how 3 years later we found each other. That was 2001. We are now married and have 3 kids.
But to be honest, since you said she's in college 5 hours away, it sounds as if she found someone else or doesn't want to be that committed to any guy. Between the college atmosphere and 100' s of new people and new friends, they are more, I've seen so many relationships end when one of them goes onto college or both go to different colleges. You want someone who is there everyday.
Either way I would pursue the new girl. You don't need to sit around and continue to be sad.
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If its meant to be, you'll get back together sometime. The question is when. When I was in high school I dated someone for a year. I broke up with her and some how 3 years later we found each other. That was 2001. We are now married and have 3 kids.
But to be honest, since you said she's in college 5 hours away, it sounds as if she found someone else or doesn't want to be that committed to any guy. Between the college atmosphere and 100' s of new people and new friends, they are more, I've seen so many relationships end when one of them goes onto college or both go to different colleges. You want someone who is there everyday.
Either way I would pursue the new girl. You don't need to sit around and continue to be sad.
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Thank you. That's what I was thinking about doing. What worries me though is what happens if we reconnect over her Xmas break? I don't want to ruin this new girl, she had guy problems in the past. Also I have the problem of these two girls being friends. Good idea or bad idea? My friends said wait and then see. I have to prove it to the new girl that I'm worth it and that she isn't just some rebound, which she isn't.
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Go drink, and without knowing, you have been friendzoned by the new girl.
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Go drink, and without knowing, you have been friendzoned by the new girl.
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Yeup. That's what happened.
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If the new girl isn't worried about what it could do to her relationship with your ex, why should you. You need to do what will make you happy. If your ex wants to get back with you later in, but you have found someone that makes you happier, that is her loss. She made the decision to leave you. If you're waiting to see if its meant to be, you could be waiting years, months, or even a lifetime. Move on and let life take its course. The lowest points in your life will only make you.stronger.
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I wish I could help, but my avatar is the way it is for a reason lol... I've taken to the idea of "don't try and wait for something to just happen." Terrible technique, but whatever. The other ways didn't work either lol.
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At your age you should be slaying hoes......that's all. Once you've dine enough slaying then start to look for that relationship
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At your age you should be slaying hoes......that's all. Once you've dine enough slaying then start to look for that relationship
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At your age you should be slaying hoes......that's all. Once you've dine enough slaying then start to look for that relationship
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That's what I'm saying! But I get too attached, ya its kinda ***** like, but idk
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goob1284 said:
That's what I'm saying! But I get too attached, ya its kinda ***** like, but idk
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Who cares if you're like that? Chicks don't like the super macho douche man. If you're looking for the kind of girl that does then stop looking for relationships and start looking for an easy score. Living up to the standards of sleeping with as many people as you can is actually kinda gross to me personally. Just do what you want, not what you feel as if everyone else will approve of.
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Who cares if you're like that? Chicks don't like the super macho douche man. If you're looking for the kind of girl that does then stop looking for relationships and start looking for an easy score. Living up to the standards of sleeping with as many people as you can is actually kinda gross to me personally. Just do what you want, not what you feel as if everyone else will approve of.
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You make valid points my good friend. And with both of us bring in the same position with women at one point or another, I can not help but agree with you.
-My life is a shooting range, people never change-
I'm trying to do what I want. But I'm supposed to hang with the ex Friday. But she doesn't want to but she will allow it. Does that mean anything? And like I really want this new girl, but she thinks its too sketchy since its so close to the break up.
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goob1284 said:
I'm trying to do what I want. But I'm supposed to hang with the ex Friday. But she doesn't want to but she will allow it. Does that mean anything? And like I really want this new girl, but she thinks its too sketchy since its so close to the break up.
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take a break and learn android development (or try to) it helped me through some tough times (the attempting to learn)
watt9493 said:
take a break and learn android development (or try to) it helped me through some tough times (the attempting to learn)
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I really want to learn, but I tried so many times and always came up short. Also, I annoyed the living crap out of the girl I was gonna go to, what do I do?
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I really want to learn, but I tried so many times and always came up short. Also, I annoyed the living crap out of the girl I was gonna go to, what do I do?
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Take it easy, just sit back for a while. Its best to not rush into things
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Take it easy, just sit back for a while. Its best to not rush into things
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Ya. I think that's really what I'll do. Thanks all you guys!
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Help me please..

Me and my gf have a fight... i accidentally pushed her... but she said to her family i "hit" her... now her family hates me... i know i shouldn't have done it in the first place but i was mad on what she told me.. i lost control.. i shouldnt have done it.... i **** it up...
But again i just pused her?.. i didnt punch her.. if i punch her she be bleeding with black eyes... but no, i stop myself...
I still love her,, I'm hoping she will forgive me.... my parents said she should forgive me if she really loves me...i made a mistake and i won't do it again... but she's having a hard time believing me....
... i message her family and ask for forgiveness.... idk if they will forgive me.....
.. i just feel like my gf like someone new now and just using the "hit" alibi..... but i still love her and i dont wanna think that way... thats why im still tryng to fight for her..
Can you tell us more about the situation?
You aren't supposed to hit girls ever.
But the situation may turn out better for you based on what happened.
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If you truly just pushed her, and that is not good, and she is running around saying you hit her , then kick her to the curb. She is psycho and will lie to get a desired result. And that is not something to lie about. Things will only get worse.
She told me " i dont know what i feel about you anymore".. "i dont wanna hurt your feelings".... thats why i lost my mind.. but i really didnt punch her or anythinh...
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If you truly just pushed her, and that is not good, and she is running around saying you hit her , then kick her to the curb. She is psycho and will lie to get a desired result. And that is not something to lie about. Things will only get worse.
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Thats the thing.. i dont get her anymore... i just really pushed her.. but again.. what she keeps telling people is i hit her.... and the reason i pushed her is because she was acting weird... she doesnt even listen to me anymore.. i told her that we can talk this out.. you dont need to talk to ur mom about this im already here...
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...she told me i control her too much.... she bought this wig and it doesnt look good on her and i told her stop wearing it... but she said all her friends say it looks good... but im just being honest.. she doesnt believe me..... wtf....
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how old are you? dude just leave her alone and act like you dont care and then she will trip out that you arent worried about it or she will just move on and not care! either way prob a good thing since she is acting funny. oh yea and have you seen how many girls are out there in the world find a new one!
Is "pushed" considered abuse or "hit".. ugghh... i just took all the blame... i didnt really hit her.. wtf..
... my parents find it hard to trust her.. her parent find it hard to trust me..... wtf should i do? Im asking forgiveness to her family and hope that they will..... i wanna still fight for this relationship...i dont wanna just throw everything away.....
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...she told me i control her too much.... she bought this wig and it doesnt look good on her and i told her stop wearing it... but she said all her friends say it looks good... but im just being honest.. she doesnt believe me..... wtf....
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Meh if she likes the wig and her friends like the wig let her wear it. If you feel she is not respecting your opinion and its making you angry maybe you should take a break and possibly meet other people and see how you feel after a couple of months. She sounds like she wants a break at the moment. Also I agree if she is going to lie about your altercation its probrobly better to try and move on as you probrobly can't trust her after future arguments
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how old are you? dude just leave her alone and act like you dont care and then she will trip out that you arent worried about it or she will just move on and not care! either way prob a good thing since she is acting funny. oh yea and have you seen how many girls are out there in the world find a new one!
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we are both 19... we've been together for 2 years...i jsut dont wanna throw it all away.... i tried acting i dont care but.. but ,, but ,,, but i fkkking love her...
DustByte said:
Is "pushed" considered abuse or "hit".. ugghh... i just took all the blame... i didnt really hit her.. wtf..
... my parents find it hard to trust her.. her parent find it hard to trust me..... wtf should i do? Im asking forgiveness to her family and hope that they will..... i wanna still fight for this relationship...i dont wanna just throw everything away.....
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Pushing is legally considered assault most places. Cut your losses while you can.
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Meh if she likes the wig and her friends like the wig let her wear it. If you feel she is not respecting your opinion and its making you angry maybe you should take a break and possibly meet other people and see how you feel after a couple of months. She sounds like she wants a break at the moment. Also I agree if she is going to lie about your altercation its probrobly better to try and move on as you probrobly can't trust her after future arguments
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thats the thing.. i find it hard to trust her.. but again, i love her so much, and shes not like this before.... ugghhh...
i dotn want it to look that its her fault... we both made mistake, but she doesnt accept that she made a mistake too.. she always wanna be right.. i hate that... she not using ehr brain.. all shes using is her emotions.. wtf.....
,.... why everyone telling me to move on and theres a plenty of girl out there
i love her soo much.. omg.. fkk thss...
if her family cant forgive me, i guess thats the time to tell myself i need to move on...
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Pushing is legally considered assault most places. Cut your losses while you can.
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then i guess its all my fault... i messed this up?... ugghhh.. i just hate the way she acted...
she just started keeping secrets... writinng "pros" and "cons" about me... wtf...
Watch out for her man....my brother had a girlfriend who did pretty much the same thing.....after he gave up on her she lied even more about him because she still liked him......does your chick do drugs lol?
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I think maybe you should stop with the confessions to criminal acts online, actually all together, keep your hands to yourself, cut your losses, take an anger management class and find a new woman who performs sexual favors and not reality tv drama filled escalations of bad situations. You got lucky, she could have really messed your life up. And still may.
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Not to be rude but my last relationship started out by just pushing it also had controlling.. i stayed and in the seven years it turned into domestic violence by him.. it was the worst time of my life if you honestly love someone that much let them go if its meant to be itll be.. but you can never say you didnt mean to push hit or say things because its in you learning to control yourself and anger is the first thing i would recommend before allowing her or someone else in your life.. and any girl that wants the attention by lying is honestly just a little immature still and not worth it
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DustByte said:
She told me " i dont know what i feel about you anymore".. "i dont wanna hurt your feelings".... thats why i lost my mind.. but i really didnt punch her or anythinh...
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Did no one else read this? There is nothing okay about getting physical with someone because he or she tells you about being unsure of how he or she feels about the relationship.
You need to give her some space, and you need to figure out what made you feel violence was the answer to her being honest with you. Some people might sugar coat this but that's how this kind of stuff keeps going on. You assaulted her and you need to realize that. There's something wrong with how you saw fit to handle the situation, and honestly it sounds like you are basing too much of who you are on the relationship. Nip this in the bud, now.
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Did no one else read this? There is nothing okay about getting physical with someone because he or she tells you about being unsure of how he or she feels about the relationship.
You need to give her some space, and you need to figure out what made you feel violence was the answer to her being honest with you. Some people might sugar coat this but that's how this kind of stuff keeps going on. You assaulted her and you need to realize that. There's something wrong with how you saw fit to handle the situation, and honestly it sounds like you are basing too much of who you are on the relationship. Nip this in the bud, now.
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i know its my fault? i realized that?..... but she leaves under our families' roof.. she said i control her? cause i keep asking where she goes? who she with?.. my family and i are just worried about her... but no she wants to live free..
... she got kicked out by her mom, no one in her family took her in.. my family did... they didnt like her at first but since i love her they let her in.....
she was hospitalized.. she called all her family members and no one came.. no one answered her call.... im the only one who sat right next to her....
now she have problems with me, she's bestfriend with her mom again?? she cant even talk about it to me? why? is that a relationship?
and now that i "pushed" her all her family is present to help her? now they support her? now they all hate me? now theyre here with her? wtf....wtf...
ScubaSteev said:
Watch out for her man....my brother had a girlfriend who did pretty much the same thing.....after he gave up on her she lied even more about him because she still liked him......does your chick do drugs lol?
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@OP
Dude, whatever is going on with that girl and you, it sure ain't love. I haven't actually read a single word you've written that indicates you love her, just going on about how much you and your family have done for her.
She doesn't owe you anything and if she is having doubts about the relationship it is far better that she tells you than keeps it secret. When she told you, that was your opportunity to sit down with her, talk, tell her how you feel and try to work on things -.not to react the way you did or to blame her for her feelings.
Accept that it is probably over. Give her space, let her carry on living under your family's roof if she needs to and let her know that you are sorry, will be there as a friend if she needs it and will deal with the anger issues - professionally if you need to.
The way you reacted physically at 19 years old isn't just a sign of immaturity, it is a precursor to a much worse future - take that as advice from someone who has done time and seen / heard many things that would scare the crap out of you. Deal with your anger NOW before it deals with you.

My fulltime return to XDA

Well Hello there!
I know that I have been around for a few years, haven't posted very often, but I just wanted to say, if anyone missed me, I'm returning to XDA.
I will not talk bad about another site, however after a few comments were made to me about my posts there, I felt that I needed to return home. Good to see ya'll again, and love ya!
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Welcome back lol! Anyways..be careful, dont spend to much time here or else your gf or wife might think you're cheating on her! Iol! I dont go on as much as before bc I still want to get raw sushi every night if u know what I mean! .)
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I feel ya lol
dannydv said:
Welcome back lol! Anyways..be careful, dont spend to much time here or else your gf or wife might think you're cheating on her! Iol! I dont go on as much as before bc I still want to get raw sushi every night if u know what I mean! .)
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My wife thinks I don't care about her since I work all the time to pay her bills! LOL! And I know exactly what ya mean.
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This is me returning, you know, an average user that never contributed anything to the community as a dev or themer, just a user! YAY! :highfive:
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