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ok first thing...i swear this is not about me (believe me or not...its not bout' me) my friend likes this chick, he really likes her but she doesnt like him but they are friends and talk and wutever but she doesnt like him like that. I told him to let it go and just stop messin' wit her so he doesnt think bout her, he isnt the most social person but he wants to ask her out (i said no) wut would u do in his situation? (i kno every ones gonna be like thats a personal problem and blah blah blah, just wanted some input on this...other opinions dont hurt)

I'd Say this Qualifies for off topic.
He needs to realize Real Life Is nothing like TV if The Girls doesn't like him, She's not going to randomly start liking him.
If he values their friendship and wants to keep it No asky her out. If He is willing to lose that. Ask her out. People seem to forget the worst she can do is say "No."

If I was him, I would think of ways like: What does she like and what can I make her to like me?
Never give up.. Are you a guy? Proove it!

am i guy? hahaha
this chick is hot too, i dont talk to her like my boy does ( ithink shes a bizzzatch) but its another chick...i tell him ur not getting married to her u will meet so many other girls and to let it go...but she seems (to me) that she would only go out wit those hot guys u kno? here: say ur at a party and there is the best chick, chillin', (ur not the hottest guy) and she looks at u and make it seem like ur not her "their" type and she can only go wit hot dudes...it like that except my bro talks to the chick but u can tell she doesnt like him...(i hate chicks like this)

rico002 said:
ok first thing...i swear this is not about me (believe me or not...its not bout' me) my friend likes this chick, he really likes her but she doesnt like him but they are friends and talk and wutever but she doesnt like him like that. I told him to let it go and just stop messin' wit her so he doesnt think bout her, he isnt the most social person but he wants to ask her out (i said no) wut would u do in his situation? (i kno every ones gonna be like thats a personal problem and blah blah blah, just wanted some input on this...other opinions dont hurt)
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Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin

Olipro said:
Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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BEST. ADVICE. EVER.

Olipro said:
Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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I'm using this!

I wonder if this guy is one of those guys that are perpetually the "friend". One of those guys that girls like to chat too, but only as a friend. They'd never look at him romantically in any way.
My advice...move on. There's other hot chicks out there to ask. Find one, ask and if she says no, she's not good enough for you. Her loss. Keep head up and move on till the fish bite.
That's my two cents anyways.

can6rxw said:
I wonder if this guy is one of those guys that are perpetually the "friend". One of those guys that girls like to chat too, but only as a friend. They'd never look at him romantically in any way.
My advice...move on. There's other hot chicks out there to ask. Find one, ask and if she says no, she's not good enough for you. Her loss. Keep head up and move on till the fish bite.
That's my two cents anyways.
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perfect answer, that's the only way. This happened thrice to me, i was totally lost until i recognized that there's more to life than focussing on what will never be. Interestingly, one of them changed her mind a few days after i got another girl ...
... and the answer is: MOVE ON ...

yea i agree with the last 2 comments...im gonna show him this ahahha...there is so many girls out there

My advice...have your friend value friendship over asking out, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Olipro said:
Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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The best advice in the whole world!
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That would be great advice if you hadn't dug up a thread from 2008! ......

Olipro said:
Very simple... you video the car crash as it happens then upload to YouTube later for all to see.
of course, if he's serious, there's always rohypnol, of course, when she wakes up, she might want to know why she has carpet burns on her chin
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Bad nerd! BAD, BAD NERD! NO!
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mrahm01 said:
My advice...have your friend value friendship over asking out, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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Bros before (u know what here).
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He could ask her to go out for a meal and just see if there would be be a chance,it would be perfectly normal for him to at least ask.
If she says no just stay as friends,if they are good friends it wouldn't take much to go back to normal.
Its not as if he's married and fancies another girl...Thats a dilemma!....
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Tell him not to mess up a good friendship with her and if its meant to be then they will be together .

conantroutman said:
That would be great advice if you hadn't dug up a thread from 2008! ......
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Good advice is still good advice.

I think no need to run after one girlfriend. Yes, you need to achieve, but you need to understand a categorical refusal. Therefore, I suggest trying again, but if it doesn’t work out, you should look for a new girlfriend.

Dassote said:
I think no need to run after one girlfriend. Yes, you need to achieve, but you need to understand a categorical refusal. Therefore, I suggest trying again, but if it doesn’t work out, you should look for a new girlfriend.
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A 2008 thread and then re-awoke in 2011 and then now....

Give my concert tickets to someone else?

Is it possible? Decided not to go cos my friends arnt either.. uts to see Hadoulen! If that helps
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Should be possible as long as your name isn't on the ticket or anything.

Don't miss what could be a good show beacause of lame ass friends. I think some of the best concerts I've been to were the ones where the gf or friends pussed out and I just went by myself.
good day.

chopper the dog said:
Don't miss what could be a good show beacause of lame ass friends. I think some of the best concerts I've been to were the ones where the gf or friends pussed out and I just went by myself.
good day.
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well its happpenning rigth now and still I have the ticket ;( shame..

I have a boil on my butt! How do i treat it?

I hope you guys never go thrrough it
Okay so I've had it for 5days I haven't gone to a dr and don't want tto becaause all they are gonna do is drain the puss and charge me $100
So i have draained some pus but there is still some that wont go away trust me it won't
Any ways to treat it?
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Why do you ask us these things?! Lmao!
-If ignorance is bliss why aren't you smiling?-

Muchacho cochino
Be careful with it....you don't want it to get infected. I would highly recommend for you to go to the doctor and get it treated.

Pics or it didn't happen...

EuroSpeed said:
Pics or it didn't happen...
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WTF????

Make sure it's not inside the rectum. If it is, it's hemorrhoids, and that **** really sucks. Go to the doctor, he'll give you some cream.

dont waste your time with the doc , ur days are numbered , do something better while u can

And I thought I've seen it all in the offtopic.
And pleaseee...don't post any pictures

Lol I'm gonna wait a few days until it makes a head then pop it with a needle.
If it doesn't make a head I'm screwed and will have to pay a doctor a billion dollars to do something simple
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xda isn't a doctor's surgery.....

what would you guys do?

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well i have a slight problem at work. i work as a security guard at my work place and there is a guard that comes in the morning that has been here prob 4 months prior to me and is the same rank and everything as me. well ever since i started she is a b**ch to me and wont even talk to me (god knows why i never did anything to her) well i hear for the pass 2 months she has been keeping tabs on my clock ins and my badge punch in's all over the building
and well i guess alot of my badges request dont save for when i leave (we have a bad system here) and well she knows that and is gonna use that to her advatge to take that to our boss and get me in trouble because she dont like me (which i dont know why as i only see her 5 mins out of my day and i hear she is friends with everyone else here) and i feel like this is really weird and taking this as harassment.
and well i got some stuff on her that she brings her BF to the work place and makes out with him and hides and stuff
should i confront her about this and ask her why she is doing this to me or should i go straight to my boss (or HR) about this problem? my boss and her are buddies and well she acts like she is boss around this building and tells everyone what to do for when he is not here and she has no right doing that at all so idk if i should even go to my own boss (there is a higher up then him that he has to report to he is just head security guard for this building)

i think it would be best to go to your boss with your issue

Honestly, if you aren't comfortable going to your direct boss since he is friends with her, you should be able to either go to HR or your bosses manager. HR preferably.
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TELL HER TO GET HER MIND CORRECT B4 YOU BEAT HER AND HER BF ASS THATS WHAT I WOULD DO ANYWAY!

Don't go to her about it. She can try to make you seem like a liar. Don't let her know and if you need to use it against her than do it. But I would tell the boss before anything just so he won't think you've just been saving that to hold over her head.
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Not gonna lie, but this is what I would probably do too xp
fleurdelisxliv said:
TELL HER TO GET HER MIND CORRECT B4 YOU BEAT HER AND HER BF ASS THATS WHAT I WOULD DO ANYWAY!
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see the thing is my boss knows about her Bf and them coming in to make out and stuff but he dont care (and for all i know is he prob dont even care that she is coming to him to get me in trouble) my boss is just some 20yr old kid who just makes a ton of money lol like we have a HR but its station in a different town so like they dont have direct contact with us

MarsVoltron said:
Not gonna lie, but this is what I would probably do too xp
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i know right lol, but i dont put up with sh!t from anyone just sayin

Your best bet is to go to hr and talk to them before she does anything first.
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How would you handle this awkward situation?

Well I have my setup at my parents house so that I can remotely access their computer at any time (VNC client). They aren't the most tech savvy so it's a benefit to me so I can "fix" any problems or do general maintenance on the machine. Well this is the second time this week I randomly go to log on and notice firefox minimized with two active windows for porn sites...
Awkward much? My parents are happily married over 30 years but my dad's retired so he's home during the day while my mother is working.
I just politely covered his paper trail these two times (close it and delete cookies/browsing history/etc.).
Would you say something to your dad or just play dumb??? I'm not suspicious of anything bad but it just seemed really weird to stumble on.

It's just awkward for you really, isn't it. I've stumbled upon various things whilst fixing other people's PCs, or once when wiping down a PC for a deceased friend's family. My opinion is to just act as if you never saw it. I just don't see the point in the embarrassment for either party. That's my opinion anyway.

The way you handle this is closely related to the kind of relationship you have with your father. If it was my father, after laughing a lot I would even call him and recommend him the best porn sites across the web
But if the relation is more "serious" you should just ignore what happened. I don´t think that is something you should worry about.

I'd ignore it if I were you. It will feel more awkward when he knows that you know.

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have you tried having a long talk with him, about what he is feeling being normal. that his body will under go a change and he will loose hair in places he once had it?
also that there is nothing wrong with what he is doing except that you can see his computer.
also maybe gift him a splash proof keyboard

thoughtlesskyle said:
have you tried having a long talk with him, about what he is feeling being normal. that his body will under go a change and he will loose hair in places he once had it?
also that there is nothing wrong with what he is doing except that you can see his computer.
also maybe gift him a splash proof keyboard
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Hahahahahahahahaha!!!! This!!! Now this is one of the funniest things ive read on this site
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I would of left a comment iin the address bar.
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Curiousn00b said:
I would of left a comment iin the address bar.
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Put a notepad file right in the center of the desktop with better suggestions. If my dad would be able to figure out how to open it im sure he'd laugh his ass off
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Nosferatu. said:
Well I have my setup at my parents house so that I can remotely access their computer at any time (VNC client). They aren't the most tech savvy so it's a benefit to me so I can "fix" any problems or do general maintenance on the machine. Well this is the second time this week I randomly go to log on and notice firefox minimized with two active windows for porn sites...
Awkward much? My parents are happily married over 30 years but my dad's retired so he's home during the day while my mother is working.
I just politely covered his paper trail these two times (close it and delete cookies/browsing history/etc.).
Would you say something to your dad or just play dumb??? I'm not suspicious of anything bad but it just seemed really weird to stumble on.
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As an older guy...... (old as your dad) it is ok to be straight up with him. Tell him that you were doing maint./cleaning up on the computer and noticed this. Show him how to cover his own tracks and tell him you don't care one way or the other........ none of your business.... but tell him you want him to know how do the cleanup/deleting so Mom never finds out..... of course ..unless it was mom who was looking......

oka1 said:
As an older guy...... (old as your dad) it is ok to be straight up with him. Tell him that you were doing maint./cleaning up on the computer and noticed this. Show him how to cover his own tracks and tell him you don't care one way or the other........ none of your business.... but tell him you want him to know how do the cleanup/deleting so Mom never finds out..... of course ..unless it was mom who was looking......
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...or just you didnt see it and avoid that situation.
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Or just sneak into his room and join him when he's watching it...

Just pretend it never happened.....
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@iynfynity - this is seek dude
Pretend it never happen
I see you worry more about your mother - she probably knows it , soo - pretend it never happen

Pretend it never happened, its not that big of a deal its just porn, at least hes not cheating on her
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Whats the big deal dude?? Watching porn has been proven healthy, scientifically!!
Itellya.. its all cool.. put it this way.. atleast he is savvy enough to look up sites.. I told my dad to take the mouse to the top right corner of the screen and click the cross to close the window.. he couldnt Mum told me that he was actually hovering the mouse (physically) towards the top right corner and hitting the screen... I stood still!!
Nosferatu. said:
Well I have my setup at my parents house so that I can remotely access their computer at any time (VNC client). They aren't the most tech savvy so it's a benefit to me so I can "fix" any problems or do general maintenance on the machine. Well this is the second time this week I randomly go to log on and notice firefox minimized with two active windows for porn sites...
Awkward much? My parents are happily married over 30 years but my dad's retired so he's home during the day while my mother is working.
I just politely covered his paper trail these two times (close it and delete cookies/browsing history/etc.).
Would you say something to your dad or just play dumb??? I'm not suspicious of anything bad but it just seemed really weird to stumble on.
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thanks for all the posts...I decided so far to just not say anything. If I catch it again I'll just say look I don't care but here's how to cover your tracks.

Nosferatu. said:
thanks for all the posts...I decided so far to just not say anything. If I catch it again I'll just say look I don't care but here's how to cover your tracks.
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seriously, I don't think your mom would even have a problem with it.
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iynfynity said:
seriously, I don't think your mom would even have a problem with it. So don't bother with it.
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