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lots of problems and misunderstanding and such
would prob be solved if more people used PM (personal message)
to communicate when they had a message to a surden member
at times posting such messages for all to see can cause problems
and may be seen as washing ones dirty landury in public
a personal meesage is when one have a msg for a person
and a post is when one feel it necessary to share this msg with everybody
might save people from a week of banning one of these days...
finnaly here is my man
you look to be more fun than your avatar
cheers
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finnaly here is my man
you look to be more fun than your avatar
cheers
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since you lost your job it seams you feel boring? take it easy chief!
thanks, at least one read my article about waking to death
but I'm surviving
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thanks, at least one read my article about waking to death
but I'm surviving
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My Arabic is not the best, But as I think it is written in Quaran : Hayrihi we shehrihe minallahu taala!!!!
Every one experience in his live up and downs. One more then other. However that is not means the end of live but is a challenge that have to master.
Yes I have read your post and please dont take it as a offense what I am going to say openly.
Frankly speaking I did not know how to response to your post. You calling some lady's as "beaches" then say openly: "you just wan to have sex "and wonder why they reject you??? Moreover again in your post you blame your BOSS, the Doctors they not giving you the pass, the parents which not supporting you (even as you described they are reach). Sorry I dont know you well but the post indicates me that you are busy blaming other people as then looking what YOU may have own issues!!
As I believe the basic of everything in this live is: YOU NEED TO RESPECT PEOPLE, IF YOU WAN TO BE RESPECTED.
Well you seams to me well educated person going through difficult time which will sure pass. Yes I do also understand you living in a difficult environment which makes you even further unhappy.
What I would suggest you is stop waiting of others! take the control of your live. Use the free time that you now have to upgrade your self. Make a effort to express your thoughts and the political situation that exist in your environment on your Web page. BE a GOOD example of what you expecting from others!
I had also difficult times in my live( I believe I will have it again sometimes) but I always try to make the best of it. I have lost as well my Job but find again a new one. Started as Engineer( which I completely financed it, as my parents was not reach) go up to VP of Large company but also come down and worked as normal Operator. Some times later go up again as Regional Director.
Well What I am trying to say is nothing is lost. it is always a gain. Even from Bad thinks you gain, Gain experiences which you will use later.
Indeed, BE a GOOD example of what you expecting from others and You will find the MAN that you wan to be only in your self.
asselamun alaikum
first of all thank you for caring, that means a lot to me,
- when a lady open her legs up and play with her ***** infront of my eyes, and if I try to do anything, she will rebuke me, and told me by marriage we can have sex, tell me what do you call this lady, this is nothing I have more stories.
I don't just wanna have sex, did u see my playing, I love to hold a girl and cry more than have sex with her, although I'm sex addiced; my **** is hard almost 12 hours a day I need to cum 2-3 times a day or maybe more, but I'm more romantic, I love Chopin, I love to play Chopin the Romance and cry, I spend most of my times a lone playing the piano or crying.
I spend my girlfriend 3 years without a even kiss, and she promise me to make love, I learned the piano for her, and when I played her the most romantic piece ever, she laughed, and about the promise, she told me we can't do that until get married. I dumed her, and she still pursuing me, and I had sex her after 2 years from the 3 years, that mean after 5 years doing her, and still proposing to me, she lives in UAE, she is a docort very beautiful and rich. but she did hurt me a lot, i wish she can read this to tell you how romantic and good guy I'm.
most of boys her have sex by tell the girl I'm going to merry you, and then after that they dump the girl, I have sex only by telling the girl I just wanna have some fun and sex.
becasue I can't lie, so if I say the truth it is wrong. and I'm 24 years old, it is my body needing.
-my boss, I wish you can ask the other emplyees how they told he is like this we have to stand him, but treate us like slaves, and give us less than others Syrian Salaries, believe me I was a slave.
-the Doctors in my college, it is long sotry, but the passing mark was 48, I failed for now
4 years beacuse I have 47, I'm atheist and can't swear, but I write almost everything right, and this year the passing mark become 50 instead of 48, and now I got 3 subjects 48, I never got 48 in college in all 7 years when the passing mark was 48, called it what ever you want, I'm used to that now, I laugh about it.
-I wish I have a poor family, that will not me feel bad at all, but seeing my father and motehr working and make a lot of money, and I was given less than other children whom parntes are less rich than my father only, that is nothing, when I caught my father with *****es more than once and I doubt he gives her money, I didn't see him gives her money, but this is one of the 2 ways to have sex, 1.money 2.love; and he is married 55 years old and she is in the20 (27 maybe I don't know exactly but at half his age), how that would you make feel, he gives money to *****es and I'm his own child didn't give me. belive me that is nothing I have more stories let me cry alone.
- I don't blame other people, I just wanna say I have a bad luck, belive me. I'm very funny and alive I like tio make jokes parties, drink, when I go out, but when I'm alone I play the piano and cry.
- about respecting other people, who can I respect one who defence the rapist who take my land Palestine and kills my people every day, how that could be, for example today israel killed 2 Palesinian children one is 10 years old and the other 12 years old was playing in the gardin; I'll start a new thread about that for you, and you want me to respect the feeling of israeli and other people who support them, I wish there is God to put them in hell, as I wrote before, I don't belive in patriosim or nationnalism but I belive in human, and the israel didn't just respect the human but kills him like an animal it is an racism country, I don't care if its name israel or whatever, I don't care about the relgion, I care only about the human living there.
I'll talk to you like the Muslims, if one killed your father and brother, and raped your motehr and sister, and then killed them after that, and kick you out from your home and you become a homeless, will you respect him.
-I don't wait anything from others, I just like to talk, I just wanna talk I didn't ask anything and dont need anything,
it was in my signature donate, but it was a joke, without a link, and now I remove it, and if you want to see I'll give a pic in my work. I usualy help people, and refuse a charity I don;t need it, I'm just looking for work, and here in Syria cause I can't travel.
-all people who met me here say I'm a very respected guy, and my advice to u don't judge anyone from few writings, the human is more than that.
Unluckiest_Atheist_pianis said:
first of all thank you for caring, that means a lot to me,
- when a lady open her legs up and play with her ***** infront of my eyes, and if I try to do anything, she will rebuke me, and told me by marriage we can have sex, tell me what do you call this lady, this is nothing I have more stories.
I don't just wanna have sex, did u see my playing, I love to hold a girl and cry more than have sex with her, although I'm sex addiced; my **** is hard almost 12 hours a day I need to cum 2-3 times a day or maybe more, but I'm more romantic, I love Chopin, I love to play Chopin the Romance and cry, I spend most of my times a lone playing the piano or crying.
I spend my girlfriend 3 years without a even kiss, and she promise me to make love, I learned the piano for her, and when I played her the most romantic piece ever, she laughed, and about the promise, she told me we can't do that until get married. I dumed her, and she still pursuing me, and I had sex her after 2 years from the 3 years, that mean after 5 years doing her, and still proposing to me, she lives in UAE, she is a docort very beautiful and rich. but she did hurt me a lot, i wish she can read this to tell you how romantic and good guy I'm.
most of boys her have sex by tell the girl I'm going to merry you, and then after that they dump the girl, I have sex only by telling the girl I just wanna have some fun and sex.
becasue I can't lie, so if I say the truth it is wrong. and I'm 24 years old, it is my body needing.
-my boss, I wish you can ask the other emplyees how they told he is like this we have to stand him, but treate us like slaves, and give us less than others Syrian Salaries, believe me I was a slave.
-the Doctors in my college, it is long sotry, but the passing mark was 48, I failed for now
4 years beacuse I have 47, I'm atheist and can't swear, but I write almost everything right, and this year the passing mark become 50 instead of 48, and now I got 3 subjects 48, I never got 48 in college in all 7 years when the passing mark was 48, called it what ever you want, I'm used to that now, I laugh about it.
-I wish I have a poor family, that will not me feel bad at all, but seeing my father and motehr working and make a lot of money, and I was given less than other children whom parntes are less rich than my father only, that is nothing, when I caught my father with *****es more than once and I doubt he gives her money, I didn't see him gives her money, but this is one of the 2 ways to have sex, 1.money 2.love; and he is married 55 years old and she is in the20 (27 maybe I don't know exactly but at half his age), how that would you make feel, he gives money to *****es and I'm his own child didn't give me. belive me that is nothing I have more stories let me cry alone.
- I don't blame other people, I just wanna say I have a bad luck, belive me. I'm very funny and alive I like tio make jokes parties, drink, when I go out, but when I'm alone I play the piano and cry.
- about respecting other people, who can I respect one who defence the rapist who take my land Palestine and kills my people every day, how that could be, for example today israel killed 2 Palesinian children one is 10 years old and the other 12 years old was playing in the gardin; I'll start a new thread about that for you, and you want me to respect the feeling of israeli and other people who support them, I wish there is God to put them in hell, as I wrote before, I don't belive in patriosim or nationnalism but I belive in human, and the israel didn't just respect the human but kills him like an animal it is an racism country, I don't care if its name israel or whatever, I don't care about the relgion, I care only about the human living there.
I'll talk to you like the Muslims, if one killed your father and brother, and raped your motehr and sister, and then killed them after that, and kick you out from your home and you become a homeless, will you respect him.
-I don't wait anything from others, I just like to talk, I just wanna talk I didn't ask anything and dont need anything,
it was in my signature donate, but it was a joke, without a link, and now I remove it, and if you want to see I'll give a pic in my work. I usualy help people, and refuse a charity I don;t need it, I'm just looking for work, and here in Syria cause I can't travel.
-all people who met me here say I'm a very respected guy, and my advice to u don't judge anyone from few writings, the human is more than that.
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Your banned - this time it is permanent - for crude language
you knew someone was gonna say it...
guess he should have used a PM! ;[
http://www.youtube.com/watch_popup?v=Z2mf8DtWWd8
It makes me cry
3:05 Is that guy got half a leg?!?!?
I wish they would run ad campaigns like that in the US. It's too bad most people here have a rod up their ass about reality.
On another note, I would really like to see the numbers of people that drive drunk and the ratio of that to the people who get caught or in an accident. I'm not defending drunk driving, but I strongly believe it happens WAY more than people think.
that's a very good video, show's how things can lead to an collision course if you drink n drive... Now, all we need is people to take these kind of videos seriously...
Drink driving is bad mmmkay, dont drink and drive drink and swerve!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UAtSuY6c8Vw
this is mine ^^
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UAtSuY6c8Vw
this is mine ^^
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hahaha awesome
although his movements make me think that he's on ether or robotripping in addition to being drunk
WOW!! I almost cried....take this seriuosly guys...tell everyone on your family and friends...don't drink and drive...
I couldn't possibly care less about these sort of games. This puts me in, I'd venture, less than 3% of the young male population of this country who can buy an Xbox or whatnot in the first place.
Discuss.
Homework or a public speaking competition? Sweet Idea, will post my arguments once others give me ideas
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More like inciting a flame war. ^_^ j/k
I've never liked racing, shooting, or sports games, which I've found doesn't sit well with most men my age (22). Just wondering what fellow techies think.
Usually I get a "wow, I can't believe another human being has different tastes than me" response. I don't think I've ran into a "Wow you're so gay" response but it's only a matter of time. =/
ninestraycats said:
More like inciting a flame war. ^_^ j/k
I've never liked racing, shooting, or sports games, which I've found doesn't sit well with most men my age (22). Just wondering what fellow techies think.
Usually I get a "wow, I can't believe another human being has different tastes than me" response. I don't think I've ran into a "Wow you're so gay" response but it's only a matter of time. =/
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Yep same. I'm different to everyone in my school. Everyones got iphoned, I got a Desire, now everyones jealous haha.. anyways, I like racing and shooting games. Just the real ones. CoD and GT not things like killzone or WoW. Though I don't play often, every 2–3 weeks maybe, I do enjoy some adrenalin pumping through my veins when I due just begore the end of the mussion. It makes me more determined to finish correctly the next time etc..
Everyones always asking me when I'm online next to play a bit of CoD or whatever and I just don't understand how you can become addicted to something that doesn't actually exist. Well it does but not really, you know what I mean : )
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LOL been a gamer for too long. But I have never told anyone that they were "gay" because they didn't like to game.
But.. usually they were women.
well im different to everyone in my school.
most of the lads in my year like football and cod.
"medal of honor- is ****"
"driving games - ****"
"every other game apart from cod and fifa- is ****"
i have been called gay because i have long hair and i like rock music and drum and bass (and others).
i think the reason they call you gay is because they don't like people that are different and like other things.
about 1 year ago everyones phones where sony ericssons (crap ones)
and samsung tocco lites (horrible)
but 1 lad had a t-mobile g1.
i had my 7 year old htc himalaya brick (excellent phone)
now quite a few have htc's desires, hero, legend. (and obviously don't know about xda (what a pitty))
people seem to follow other people and call you weird because you are not following.
sorry if i drifted off topic.
i like driving games, fps (half-life excellent!!)
im a gran turismo guy i love that game, i also enjoy a nice helping of cod now and then too, i cant stand football soccer or basketball games though
COD - meh
FIFA - meh
GT5 - drool
Well, an explanation is warranted for the above...
I never really got the hang of FPS games in multiplayer, mostly because I used to pwn at CounterStrike and Half-Life, but a hiatus during my formative days (read, TEENAGE) lost my edge in FPS games. Mostly I will check out the single player experience, and if it gains enough traction amongst my friends, I'll get the original copy. Mostly, for group enjoyment purposes, we game L4D if we wanna play FPS. I'm just waiting for Crysis 2 (as an excuse to upgrade my Gfx card more than anything else )
FIFA... well... is a game for douchetards who imagine that they have the skills needed to take Leo Messi/CR to whatever glories that in real life they couldn't achieve (both for the gamers and the players). Simply said, it gives little to none benefits, and merely act as an escapement and commercial device. For the more serious guys, we play futsal, which is like football played in a netball field. Pacing is fun, especially since players with less stamina can join in and height doesn't bring that much of a benefit (read, GIRLS CAN PLAY TOO). And for the brainiacs, we play Football Manager 2011.
GT5 is going to be something of a old history for me. It's more of a nostalgia device than something of real enjoyment. Back in the days, me and my brother played GT1, GT2, GT3, and probably GT4. To my brother, who is an engineer by now, it is the most accurate depiction of a car on the race-track. I'll skip the nostalgia bit... Anyway, since neither of us own a PS3, and neither of us plans to own a PS3, this game will forever reside in the droolworthy section of our hindbrains, possibly forever.
The problem with me is I'm probably in the less than 0.05% zone. I'm a self-professed geek that likes to party and do sports. I could, enjoyably, spend the afternoon tinkering with my PC/phone or just dump everything to hang out with friends, chilling out and maybe finding the answers to life (we checked, its not 42).
So gaming is cool and all that, but it's not the be all and end all for me
Gotta say... I love GT5 lol. I think I like it more than GT3 or 4 because I'm actually trying now lol. I used to have a Game Shark, Code Breaker, and Action Replay to cheat my way to having (basically) infinite cash, the AI guys wouldn't move, and every car would have like 16x acceleration lol. It made it fun cause I could get what I wanted when I wanted, but ruined the sense of accomplishment needed to make it feel way better. I actually HAVE to try and succeed in this now, which is awesome imo.
Call of Duty is cool, but I'm not into it as much anymore as I am with GT5 now.
FIFA is a game I'll never play. I don't do sports, nor like them; especially soccer.
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sakai4eva said:
To my brother, who is an engineer by now, it is the most accurate depiction of a car on the race-track.
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That is VERY cool and I didn't know that. Sucker as I am for new experiences, it makes me want to play it again with this knowledge.
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Pacing is fun, especially since players with less stamina can join in and height doesn't bring that much of a benefit (read, GIRLS CAN PLAY TOO).
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Haha, I hope I'm reading your implications right: b/c size isn't an issue, women can play the sport side-by-side with men. The other implication would be a little... off-putting. >.<
flyboyovyick said:
well im different to everyone in my school.
i have been called gay because i have long hair and i like rock music and drum and bass (and others).
i think the reason they call you gay is because they don't like people that are different and like other things.
i like driving games, fps (half-life excellent!!)
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Sorry I paraphrased your Quote
1) Nothing wrong with Long Hair and playing Bass. I did both for a long time - but now the hair fell out and I play a little guitar (i.e. it stares at me taunting me on the wall collecting dust due to RL stealing all my time)
2) Your unique... just like everybody else
3) Half Life is probably the BEST GAME EVER. And I'm a sucker for driving games. I haven't purchased GT yet as I know my wife would kill me while I was going around the track at 4am.
YOU DON'T LIKE THOSE GAMES!!! wow!!, i didn't know another human being could have such different taste to me.
But seriously 'normal' at my school is f'd up compared to everybody elses, screamo metalheads and emos rule the street and jocks are considered to be on the same level as the scum you find in public toilets... its a weird place.
Im lucky anyway because im a self admitted nerd at school but for some strange reason nobody believes me? (WTF's with that!?!) Which is especially strange considering people are paying me to set up snow leopard hackintosh on their pc's.
My favorite shooter is Gears o' War 2 (can't really call it fps), but, uh, what do you guys think of bioshock? I personally don't like it, much to the disdain of all my friends who are obsessed with it.
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But seriously 'normal' at my school is f'd up compared to everybody elses, screamo metalheads and emos rule the street and jocks are considered to be on the same level as the scum you find in public toilets... its a weird place.
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Wow, that is strange. At my school there was no "jock" contingency either, but why would there necessarily have to be, stereotypes are stereotypes.
What IS indeed common to probably every school ever are cliques. I'm guessing it's the 'us vs. them' mentality that's so crucial to so many living things.
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FIFA?
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Soccer is the worst game (notice I didn't call it a sport) in the history of mankind.
Just another off-topic subject to get everyone going.
I'll be the first to say I don't like when my girlfriend gets mad at me for nothing.
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I totally disliked my ex's funky attitude when things didnt go her way. I would have stayed if not for that!
I dislike the need fir my gf to hold on to the most stupidest smallest issues and breaking them down then thinking the very worst thing that could happen will happen to her! It drives me bananas and makes me @twitch
This post is brought to u by my pet giraffe who ran away and FOUND!!! Just have to rade another pet to get him back
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I dislike the need fir my gf to hold on to the most stupidest smallest issues and breaking them down then thinking the very worst thing that could happen will happen to her! It drives me bananas and makes me @twitch
This post is brought to u by my pet giraffe who ran away and FOUND!!! Just have to rade another pet to get him back
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i can second that....but what i do like is how we can talk about anything together
I like that my girlfriend loves to have sex with me.
I dislike it when she tells me all I want to do is have sex :|
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Either we're all dating the same chick, or all women are the same (insane by their very nature)
I don't like how mine needs constant reassurance that I care about her, and interperets alot of my actions as examples of me not caring about her. Like everything is a threat or an attack on her. And she always says I spend too much time on the computer...maybe that one's kinda true
A alison dislike I can't play halo all the time, get complaints about not spending enought tine with her and on my phone/computer too much, but I can't help that as that and video games are my hobby
This post is brought to u by my pet giraffe who ran away and FOUND!!! Just have to rade another pet to get him back
I hate if my girlfriend say, i don't spend time for her coz my hobby to play dota and hon with my friends...
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Either we're all dating the same chick, or all women are the same (insane by their very nature)
I don't like how mine needs constant reassurance that I care about her, and interperets alot of my actions as examples of me not caring about her. Like everything is a threat or an attack on her. And she always says I spend too much time on the computer...maybe that one's kinda true
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My girlfriend is the exact same way! She's like what could you possibly be doing on your computer for so long anyways? Or why do you spend so much money on your computer or youre always messing with your phone. Blah blah blah.
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huggs said:
Either we're all dating the same chick, or all women are the same (insane by their very nature)
I don't like how mine needs constant reassurance that I care about her, and interperets alot of my actions as examples of me not caring about her. Like everything is a threat or an attack on her. And she always says I spend too much time on the computer...maybe that one's kinda true
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+1
But i really like the trust in our relaitionship my ex just dindt trust me for no reason i never cheatet or anything i just have a lot of female friends...
And the fakt that we really can talk about anything!
I hate when my girlfriend brings up something stupid that happened like a while ago just to start a fight! So annoying. -__-
I like Sparky when He's happy, I HATE when HE's GRUMPY! ( please shoot me when that happens )
We generally get along well together... I just wish He would remember to take out the trash....
I love the fact that my wife let's me spend hours on xda and doesn't moan at me.
But hate that when she does the washing up she never does it all and rarely puts it away.
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I just wish He would remember to take out the trash....
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I forget to take out the trash.....sometimes lol
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A also dislike I can't play halo all the time, get complaints about not spending enought tine with her and on my phone/computer too much, but I can't help that as that and video games are my hobby
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Same here, she likes to try and tell me I'm not spending enough time with her when the fact of the matter is I live with her, If I want to play video games I will cuz that's my hobby and I can be with her every other minute I'm not at college or playing games...
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Same here, she likes to try and tell me I'm not spending enough time with her when the fact of the matter is I live with her, If I want to play video games I will cuz that's my hobby and I can be with her every other minute I'm not at college or playing games...
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Videos games are for a couple hours a day....but they fail to realize that every other minute of (possibly our lives) are with them if not at work or playing games.....and that's A LOT of time.
don't get me wrong though i love my woman more than anything
I'm dreading when I'm at that age that I live with my gf/wife (I'm only 18). When I'm with her, we're like together all the time (obviously) but when I'm not she's contempt with texts and the odd phonecall without having to nag me about spending too much time on Black Ops or FIFA.
I like when she scratches my back
I like when she s'smd to be honest... Lol.
So this has absolutely nothing to do with Android or anything...
So me and my wife have been together since freshman year in high school we are now 27.. have a 7 year old and a 1 month old. I love her.. and would never cheat on her..
A week or so ago I got a message from a cute chick on facebook saying she wanted to be my friend. I asked her why she said because she thought i looked cute in my pictures. I told her she wasn't so bad looking and we had a kind of flirty conversation. I did however tell her about my wife and kids and we talked about things like where we live and what not.. noting more than a PG conversation..
IT NEVER WENT ANY FARTHER THAN THIS CONVERSATION AND ONLY ONCE...
So i left my FB page up and my wife snooped and read my messages.. she is now crying..
I do feel bad that she got her feelings hurt, but i don't really feel like i did anything wrong..
Let me know what you guys think about my mess i made... just curious about outside opinions..
Well, just tell her it was a mistake.
You were stupid and just liked the attention. It wasn't like you intended to cheat on her.
Think about how you would feel if you seen her doing that to you.
Nothing will gain you're trust back from her but time...
The above is very good advice.
This seems like a weird place to ask such a question, but what the hell, I'll give it a shot too.
Tell her you love her very much and that you would never, ever cheat on her. You have to be absolutely sincere about this and make yourself believe it even if you actually did think about cheating. Any doubt that you show she will pick up on now.
PS: I've never understood why everyone loves Facebook. I hate that ****.
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Well, just tell her it was a mistake.
You were stupid and just liked the attention. It wasn't like you intended to cheat on her.
Think about how you would feel if you seen her doing that to you.
Nothing will gain you're trust back from her but time...
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Thanks. Good advice
Haints said:
The above is very good advice.
This seems like a weird place to ask such a question, but what the hell, I'll give it a shot too.
Tell her you love her very much and that you would never, ever cheat on her. You have to be absolutely sincere about this and make yourself believe it even if you actually did think about cheating. Any doubt that you show she will pick up on now.
PS: Facebook sucks.
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I am sincere. I had no intentions of cheating..
LOL and i know but I am here alot you guys are like family and it seemed like a good place to get non objective view..
Its reasons like that me and my wife share a FB account. Full freaking transparency! Just tell her you got caught up for a minute because we all like to be flattered once in a while. I'm sure she has flirted at some point behind your back.
In times of great personal conflict and inner-turmoil with the ones I love, I also think of turning to an cell-phone internet message board of complete strangers for advice.
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Its reasons like that me and my wife share a FB account. Full freaking transparency! Just tell her you got caught up for a minute because we all like to be flattered once in a while. I'm sure she has flirted at some point behind your back.
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+1 to this. My wife and I share one too and have the privacy set high. We orignally got it to "spy" on people but have since put some stuff on there. Agree also with the "everyone wants to feel special" once in awhile aspect too. I can garauntee that if you try hard enough, you can find some instance that she has flirted too, but why would you want to do that b/c you'll just end up over analyzing everything. Just say you are sorry.
Side story:
A long time ago (15+) before FB, G+ ot twitter, I used to work nights in college. I got home late one night and my girlfriend at the time was asleep. The phone rang and I used to have this habit of screwing with tele-marketers to hopefully piss them off enough to drop my number.
This time it was just a wrong number, but there was a shy, what sounded like a cute voice on the other line that apologized for calling the wrong number. Before she got off the phone, I asked her what she was wearing and messed with her a little bit, then hung up. Told my girlfriend in the morning about it and we laughed (full disclosure-sorry I'm honest like that).
Anyways this girl called back the next night too and this time my girlfriend was up and we totally messed with this girls head and got her to agree to meet for a 3-way (only problem was she didn't know my GF was on the phone so it was going to be with her and her boyfriend-I don't do two swords if you know what I mean).
Long story short, we completely messed with this girl and my phone company at the time had this feature that if right after you got an annoying call you could hit *57 and if you did it to the same number 3 times in one month, it got their phone shut off for a month for harassing.
If you can't or won't follow though woth something, don't chat with someone you don't know. For all you know, it could have been me on the other side of the Facebook message.
PJcastaldo said:
Thanks. Good advice
I am sincere. I had no intentions of cheating..
LOL and i know but I am here alot you guys are like family and it seemed like a good place to get non objective view..
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Yeah man, what you SHOULD do now, dont know if youre willing to do so, but you should just give her your facebook password. If you know youre not going to do anything like that again, she should be able to have it.
It will get a LOADDD off her shoulders knowing she doesnt have to sneak up on you, but rather look for herself at any time.
Hope everything goes well for you man. Just give it time.
FACEBOOK IS FULL OF PEOPLE YOU USED TO KNOW AND DONT WANT TO TALK TO, TWITTER IS FULL OF PEOPLE YOU DONT KNOW AND WOULD LIKE TO TALK TO..IMO,Hope everything works out,
hope everything is working out.
Im just a couple yrs older than you and have have been married about the same time, have 1 child also; so I can understand how this would be a really emotional situation for her and then you.
others gave good advice. be honest w her. tell her it was a mistake. let her look through all your other FB, email, ect... messages to prove to her that this was a one time semi-inocent situation.
even though you did nothing wrong, and maybe you did not, but put yourself in her situation. if you found that on her FB, you would probably be pretty pissed too (at least I would be).
so let her look at everything, give her your passwords, what ever you need to show her that this was a one time incident, that it was nothing more then casual chatting, but you understand that she is upset and you see how it looks now, you would be too in her situation, and that you wont do it again.
good luck
Online cheating is cheating.
I have a different opinion.
I think you should have never added her and never had any type of conversation with her. There is no reason a married man with children should be adding random females to his Facebook.
Secondly, you said you had no intention of cheating, but what about online cheating? What if she had asked you to get on Skype so she could give you a little show. Are you telling me you wouldn't go and watch and maybe join on Skype yourself?
That is my opinion. We live in a new world, and online relationships are a form of cheating in my opinion. You wouldn't sit with this girl at a coffee shop and chit chat, you shouldn't online either.
That's why I'm getting married till I'm like late 20's/early 30's
Hope it works out mate!
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So this has absolutely nothing to do with Android or anything...
So me and my wife have been together since freshman year in high school we are now 27.. have a 7 year old and a 1 month old. I love her.. and would never cheat on her..
A week or so ago I got a message from a cute chick on facebook saying she wanted to be my friend. I asked her why she said because she thought i looked cute in my pictures. I told her she wasn't so bad looking and we had a kind of flirty conversation. I did however tell her about my wife and kids and we talked about things like where we live and what not.. noting more than a PG conversation..
IT NEVER WENT ANY FARTHER THAN THIS CONVERSATION AND ONLY ONCE...
So i left my FB page up and my wife snooped and read my messages.. she is now crying..
I do feel bad that she got her feelings hurt, but i don't really feel like i did anything wrong..
Let me know what you guys think about my mess i made... just curious about outside opinions..
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Tell her you love her AND that you were A COMPETE DUMBASS for having a meaningless, stupid convo. Then be good and don't do this AGAIN!
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One day I was at my girlfriend's house, her hot sister came to me and asked if I would like to sleep with her. I was shocked, and, as fast as I could, ran out of the house to my car. To my surprise my girlfriend was outside leaning against the car. She then said, "I knew I could trust you! ", then gave me a hug and told me she loved me.
Moral of the story?
Always keep your condoms in your car.
Wow, what a mess you've gotten yourself into.
If you haven't already, I think you need to first know and understand why your wife is upset.
After years of marriage, she certainly knows you as a person. If you're the type of person who doesn't cheat, she probably knows it. So it's not really a matter of "cheating".
It's a matter of loyalty and sense of security.
It's inevitable that people change over time. They're older, wiser, have different perspectives, etc. But the one thing that doesn't (ie, shouldn't) change is your commitment to your spouse.
when people first started dating, they think they're the perfect match for each other. After years of marriage you might:
-pack on some extra weight
-lose some hair
-no longer buy flowers for your wife
-no longer put up the toilet seat
-have different political views
-discover both of you have different tastes in music
-etc
But, damn it, she knows that at least she can confidently say "After all this time, my husband still loves me."
And if she has a bad day at work or if she just needs a hug, you're there for her. No matter what, you're suppose to have her back. You're her pillar to lean on. She might not need your support all the time, but she knows that if she does, you're there all the time, rock solid.
That "pillar" is what you've compromised here.
So when trying to make amends, don't focus on the FB chat. That's not the real issue at hand. Do what you need to do to let her know that you're still there for her.
TO YOUR WIFE :
plz forgive him, it's nothing, he's a loving husband if he's asking such a small thing here, that means he loves you alot.
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now THATS a helpful answer xD
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Me and my GF had a three day fight cause I never changed my Facebook profile from "single" to "in a relationship", and she thinks she had it bad. Of cpurse her drama queen sister conviced her it was so i can cheat. I only log in once or twice a month and never thought to change it.
OP you guys should just delete all your Facebook profiles, its more trouble than it's worth, like the situation you got into.
Facebook is nothing but a gathering for information and statistics anyway.
Simply don't post stuff at all